I had a flowchart image but cannot get imgur to work, so here is a text flowchart ...
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start - I am unhappy in my marriage
#1
Do you have ALL aspects of your life on improvement trajectory ?
A) Career & Personal Finance
B) Leading Family, and being Fun
C) Physical fitness and Meditation
If your answer is No? Go to #7; else proceed down.
#2
Are you observing progress? With more focus on
weakest areas while milking the best areas as much as possible?
If your answer is No? Go to #7; else proceed down.
#3
Have you given at least 1 month per year of relationship
to improvement already?
Ex: 7 years of marriage => Min 7 months of continuous progress
on all fronts
If your answer is No? Go to #7; else proceed down.
#4
At the start of this relationship, were you the AF?
Or you started off as a BB provider?
If your answer is AF? Go to #7; else proceed down.
#5
This is the hardest relationship to turn around.
If you were to be single right now, could you get laid in next 24 hours,
with a woman of equal or higher SMV than your SO?
(Basically, Are you hot, attractive and fun to be around?)
If your answer is No, Go to #7; else proceed down.
#6
Quit and file for divorce
#7
a. Lift
b. Read
c. Plan
d. Track
Now, I don't claim to know everything there is. But hopefully this helps someone.
Veteran MRP people like bogeyd and stone might remember me, and I owe them an update on my situation. That will be a separate thread, soon. In short, I am at #5 and almost ready to smoothly hop over to #6.
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