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I have 12 hours on a plane to Asia. Between eating the best and drinking the best, I'm feeling charitable. Let's do this newbies. Ask your basic questions.

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Proof - http://imgur.com/a/ya89c

Let me roast you and your petty bullshit.

I might end up just falling asleep from all the champagne and saki I'm drinking.

When you fly an asian airline, eat the asian course. Don't get the western course. They overcook the meat.


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Title I have 12 hours on a plane to Asia. Between eating the best and drinking the best, I'm feeling charitable. Let's do this newbies. Ask your basic questions.
Author weakandsensitive
Upvotes 9
Comments 100
Date 27 January 2017 06:35 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/206581
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5qismm/i_have_12_hours_on_a_plane_to_asia_between_eating/
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[–]InChargeManRed Beret12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Does mouthwash get the smell of cum out of your mouth?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cum will get rid of the smell of mouthwash. So I'm told.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Idk - you tell me

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy

How do I turn gay so I can date men and not have to deal with all this female bullshit?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 5 points6 points  (8 children) | Copy

If you think that men aren't just as gay as women, you're a stupid faggot instead of a regular faggot.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy

But...but...penis?!?!

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

Have you tried the stranger?

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Is that the one where you make your hand fall asleep...then go around feeling up random women? I might be doing it wrong.

I love boobs even when I can't feel them.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

It is. But you have to jerk off. So numb your hand, then jerk off and when you're familiar with it, let another guy do it.

Alternatively, just make a post on craigslist about how you're a straight male, but pussy, and that you're looking for a woman. Gay men apparently will pay you money to blow you.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

This is me getting worried you took me too seriously and my flair isn't flaming enough.

Flaming gay that is... You did it... I'm now flaming gay.

See you fuckers later.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I believe in supporting people in their dreams. Plus I heard you could use an extra $50.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's someone else around here for $20.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ha...I do love finding peoples' buttons.

Carry on... ;-)

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (17 children) | Copy

I've been running a successful men's improvement seminar company and am a youtube celebrity. I'm also an innovative legal scholar who's unlocked women's true desires by inventing a foolproof way to corral sane hot women with options using a "marriage" that has zero risk. This effective strategy landed me the hottest wife ever who's super cool with my friends and the sex is pretty spectacular and constant. She's also mysteriously rich.

Yesterday one of my buddies forwarded me a video he took and I'm a little concerned. On the video she's fucking her ex. I confronted her about this video because although we have an agreement that she can fuck other men, I'm supposed to watch but her ex isn't someone I approved. She laughed thanked me for the video and is now selling it online. I also found out she's been escorting and fucking my friends for cash. I've been sharing her for a few years though. But it's all good because I get to watch other men pound her hard and it's pretty hot. The other day this excon came over with some buddies and she seemed to be really digging it so I sent her a logistics text message because I wanted to learn how to elicit that look of pure desire and submission she had while she was being degraded and pounded. I sent this brief logistical message:

why are those two guys holding your legs open?

She never replied! Also not that it's relevant, she's four months pregnant. Enough backstory here's my question. Right now she's got contractors in the bedroom building a false panel with a peep hole for me to look out of that she's planning to chain me inside this evening. I'm at work. She just texted me this:

pick up some amontillado

How should I reply?

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Combining all cuck, Medusa and texting questions into one parable.

Fucking hilarious.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't know what you are talking about. For your information I am NOT a troll. I come here for advice on how to approach my very real life from a masculine perspective.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

We actually get posts like this sometimes but Stony deletes them. I am usually laughing to hard to hit delete.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why do I feel like that essay has been bottled up inside you for some time now?

[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

+1.

[–]SteelToeShitKickerRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

In pace requiescat!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She's requesting a cat?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

How should I reply?

Tell her you will be home early and don't start without you.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

She never unlocks the door to let me in when I get home early. I'll just have to wait.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Kick the door in. Just don't break the frame...apparently that's important.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is that a Golden Frame, above all others?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yes.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

This is great advice. I sent her this:

ohmygodyesanythingimsohornypleasefuckmeineeditwhatelsecanido

Again she still hasn't responded! Should I spice it up and send an emoticion? How can I get her so wet she'll fall to her knees worshiping my cock when I get home?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

don't forget that the more smiley faces you use, the wetter panties get. :) :) :p

But how's she going to worship your cock when you'll be peeping? ;)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

That's a good logistical question so I texted her about it. Looks like the smiles did the trick and she replied!

She told me that before I get home I should send emails to work and my family announcing that I'm taking some personal time to go offtrail backpacking in Alaska until October and that I'll be incommunicato for a while. But it's all a ruse! After I'm chained in the wall she's going to cut a glory hole and suck my cock dry the WHOLE TIME!

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes! Victory! :D

[–]drty_prRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck a reply, just go outside and cut the grass at 10 pm. Then come in and eat a whole tub of cool whip.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I don't know you well bro, but posting a selfie from first class makes you seem like a fag to me. Some dudes I respect seem to respect you though, so cheers I guess.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

better than selfies from cattle class.

[–]RecoveringBPAddict2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

How many times did you fall off the wagon when you fist swallowed the pill?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I spent three plus years learning and refining how not to be a bitch.

I was given an ebook of the game sometime in my junior year of college, ~march 2008. It was during the summer of my that I read it and it blew my ~September 2008. I googled "how to seduce women" and landed on fastseduction.com which was a great aggregation. I read and practice and read some more.

All the fast seduction stuff was great for getting rid of the mindset that asians can't be attractive in the US. This was a b.s. limiting believe I've had all my life. But that was the first step - this was the cosmetic stuff. I tried some of the shit I read with girls in my classes. It worked pretty well. Things like kino, eliciting values, conversing were things I never practiced or learned before. I tried the Svengali newbie mission and failed miserably the first time.

When I went to do my PhD, I joined up with the PUA group in the city I was studying. That was awesome. I met a whole bunch of guys who were interested in building you up versus tearing you down. That was good for my inner game and outer game, just learning how to maneuver a bit better. Things like tone, posture, and body language. That lasted through 2010 or so. Best compliment I got from this beautiful half-vietnamese half-french girl during that time was "You're not much to look at, but there's something about you that's just so attractive." <-- personality, self certainty, swag.

Even now, I hang around because I know I have flaws and blinders, so I want to find out where else I'm failing.

Long answer short, it took about two years of focused work to get my inner game sorted out to the point where I was really comfortable with who I was. I bullshitted myself a lot. My now wife actually helped in this process. It's a lot easier to change your physique than it is to change your personality.

[–]JDRoedellRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is good perspective. I've accepted I'm no Ryan Gosling or whoever the girls get wet panties over these days. But fuck if I'm not feeling more confident than ever. I'll even look in the mirror, smirk and know that I'm not "all that" but I'll still walk out of the house and feel confident and NGAF what anyone sees. I think that's what you are describing with the French-Vietnamese chick.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret3 points4 points  (13 children) | Copy

Please. Are you asking these guys to whine to you more?

What makes whining more to you different than whining to a Mod or or other Red Beret? Please, I would like to know.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

He was a mod. They booted him for excessive banning

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

haha. not quite. i quit because as a community we decided we wanted to cater to being nice to newbies. i thought that was a dumb decision and chose to remove myself. we should cater to guys like you, bogey, fire, uemcgill, and all the other vets who come here that can help vets learn. newbies can learn by immersion or fail.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I know several people faggots who were directed to MRP, took one look, and saw how "mean we are." They grabbed the wife's purse and headed straight for the exit sobbing hysterically.

If we were any more Red we would only have hard core red guys like you and Stony mutually masturbating one another.

If we were any less Red we would be MMSL. I think we got the balance about right.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

If we were any more Red we would only have hard core red guys like you and Stony mutually masturbating one another.

I wouldn't mind and I'm pretty sure we'd still have a bunch of people watching that shitshow. But I digress - I'm happy being a sideline observer, occasional participant, and general shitposter.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair correction.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Mods are nicer than me. I don't give a fuck about you, which is why I'm not a mod. They care about your feelings. That means other mods are faggots.

It is a pretty terribly kept secret isn't it.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yes, which is why, in your saki addled state, you would risk a pretty solid reputation of intellectual veracity.

You're somewhat wise for a punk.

Ok, since I laugh terribly every time I think of it, what is your honest opinion of RPS and his proprietary bullshit regarding the RP praxeology, and does adding TRP mods to the MRP main sub improve or dilute a message designed for assholes like me?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

RPS is a faggot who's scared of women. I said as much when he posted some anti-marriage bullshit on MRP proper. yes, marriage can suck and there are risks involved. But so does life - don't not do things because you're scared of 1 of many possible outcomes. Do what you can to avoid it. That said, most men are faggots and shouldn't get married.

I learned to handle my shit through the power of google. If you can't do the same, I pity you. Depending on others to do your learning doesn't work.

[–]Squeezymypenisy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn. That was good. I rarely get to see a critique of him. He removes comments about him.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I enjoyed this one.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

wait. was this the insult?

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If it were to be called that.

Men bust balls and hold frame. Ego invested dudes with reddit reputation try to discredit those they disagree with.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Did you have thoughts on venusian arts aka Mystery method?

What's your opinion on 'the cube'?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

M3 model is a great way to start. Structured game for people who don't know what the fuck they're doing and are too lazy to think through the philosophies to develop their inner game is not a bad starting point. When you have no confidence, faking it isn't the worst choice. Using it as a crutch hinders your long term progression so that's something to watch out for.

ASC model works. Period. Attract, seduce, comfort is great because it forces a man to act. How well it works in a LTR depends on how much frame the guy has on the reset. Like any framework, in real life or software, you have to make sure it fits your needs. If your needs and/or values don't line up with ASC, skip it and move on. If nothing else, following gives an outlet for failure and allows you to build confidence by having some successes.

The cube is fun. I loved running it. It's good for building connections and relationships with women even though you and her both know it's total bullshit. I've found it to be pretty good though at capturing personality to some extent. I would say it's just a more advanced form of cold reading while making sure that the subject is one something positive and gets you in a direction that can generate attraction. Most cold reading skills are pretty neutral unless you add in compliance testing and push-pull. Cube is 100% pull it felt like.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

And follow up, you did the sosuave for a while didn't you? How familiar were you with all the current red pillers who came outta there?

So far, only anythinginc and whisper have told me any stories about it, I find the history fascinating

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

i never did sosuave. i pick and chose from fastseduction then went to the pua group. just in field reps and fucking around. i generally don't strictly follow methodologies. you gotta do your own in field calibration to fit what's congruent with you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What's your opinion on 'the cube'?

What is "the cube" exactly? I tried to google it but did not find anything relevant (do not think it is a movie right?)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Oh, its fucking magic. Think astrology, wizardry, persuasion, and tingles all rolled into one.

Add the word horse, flower, ladder etc to the search

[–]DrPillPopperMD1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

My wife keeps shitty comfort testing - I hate to see her cry and treat it as a comfort test but after about the 4th time (and it's usually when I do things for myself instead of her) - enough is enough - what's the best way to handle shitty comfort tests?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Smart people do things that they're rewarded for.

Two ways you can do this -

  1. make the responses you give when she's crying 100x worse than it normally would be so that interacting while crying to be emotionally manipulative (it is - most women don't intend for it to be) sucks more than not crying.

or

  1. Have the resolve to just not respond and be very cold about it. Completely unresponsive and unflinching, i.e. looking her in the eye and demonstrating you don't give a fuck, so she needs to come up with a better approach.

or

  1. Succumb and accept that it is part of the relationship as you've built and maybe neither of you are really interested in changing tht. Embrace it for what it is - a fact of your relationship.

[–]DrPillPopperMD0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for the response, I will try to just ignore it, it'll be hard for sure but I will give it a go.

I can easily STFU and NGAF when she's pissy but I'm not a stone cold jerk so it'll be tough when she has tears streaming down her face.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wait, business class? Learn how to upgrade bro.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is first, not business. and I can't afford the next upgrade to private jets not enough value for the price.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

OK, I will play.

What do you say to the guys whose wives have cut off sex and/or have been going through a psycho-neurotic stage of Bitch Testing and man-blaming since the Million bitch march last week?

Ride it out? Lay down the law? Or STFU and grab em by the pussy?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Go to the backup plan - the chick who actually like you and enjoys having sex with you.

If you don't have a one, start working on finding one.

Any woman who tries to weaponize her pussy isn't worth your time or energy imo.

Funny story - my buddy went on a date with a girl who went one of those marches. He tells me he booked it out of there quick.

On the other hand, if you like crazy - then pump and dump, but there's billions of woman.

I can guarantee there's at least some woman who's better and a lot who are comparable.

If you divorce, it's only money. Hopefully you keep your pride and dignity.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Go to the backup plan - the chick who actually like you and enjoys having sex with you. If you don't have a one, start working on finding one. Any woman who tries to weaponize her pussy isn't worth your time or energy imo.

Whoooosh! MERP membership just dropped to 3, not counting the Mods.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

But, but, but. . . I can't do that, I'm married.

Vows and stuff. . . Yeah abundance, but true love? How rectify? So guilty if I do. Bad, bad man for suggesting.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

If men, thought more of themselves, and went looking for;

the chick who actually like(s) you and enjoys having sex with you

and these same men stayed away from;

Any woman who tries to weaponize her pussy

MRP would clear out like a Mexican Food restaurant when the Border Patrol comes in. Somebody, somewhere had some (not all) good points when they said being married is not the best deal for a man. As you said, but but but.....

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Mexican Food restaurant

more like the Lowes and Home Depo parking lots. but yes.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why? Isn't that a merit of MRP? Merit of 12 levels of dread etc.?

Edit: Ah! Now I got it... lol

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

What do you say to guys that believe all the RP sidebar shit that if they work out and become the "captain" then their cunty wives will suddenly magically transform to a slut.

What do you say to them when they realize she's just a cunt

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Those guys who believe that are idiots looking for a magic pill. The magic pill is a covert contract. That's okay - some of them will reset expectations along the way. Some won't.

I think positively of most women and I think women respond to the leadership and expectations that are set.

For example - I always insist on polite behavior, so when my buddy's wives/gfs/etc makes request, I expect them to be polite requests and won't act until it is - i.e. "Please.". This happens constantly. And it's the very little things, presumptive favors. Watch for it sometime how women make demands and don't always feel the need to be polite about it. If you enforce the expectation to be polite, you'll see that behavior change when it's with you, when you always set the same boundary.

Some women won't respond positively to you - and that's okay. Ignore, move on. it's not always the smartest choice to pick a losing fight.

[–]WhiteTrashKillerRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It comes down to understanding not just the role women fill within your life, but how you will let them act during those interactions. You don't have to bow to them because of societal pressures. You have standards as a man and nobody takes that away, not even another man. You determine your value not the woman hanging on your arm.........

It is quite a revelation once it happens. That first time you are in the presence of a taken woman in a social setting, who pubicly admonishes or berates their mate in front of you, but gives you free reign to do and act as you please you start to realize the rules of the game are different for each participant......

[–]WhiteTrashKillerRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

These guys are fucking idiots and do not understand that their relationship was built on a lie! It will not get better, EVER! Start a new one where she knows the better you!

She will only get pissier because you are flipping the script on her. Don't you think that if she wanted the better version of you, she would have found him instead of you!

Welcome to the realization of being hamburger in a Steak world!

[–]UnlimitedEgo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's a great way to think of it. " start a new one where she knows the better you"

[–]creating_my_life1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'm not sure I have a direct question.

Stumbled across RP/MRP, read like I was in college, multiple lightbulbs go off. MRP connected dots to facts I somewhat knew existed. Lay out a plan for myself. Stop feeling sorry for myself. Start owning my shit. Realize plan will take a long time. Keep owning my shit.

The emotional victim shit has stopped at home. I'm still too fat to know I deserve sex, so I keep fixing myself. Not even upset about it. Gonna be a while to fix me, and then there's the 1000' tow rope.

What few ideas I've put into practice work like magic.

I'm happier than I've been in YEARS.

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I'm happier than I've been in YEARS.

Doesn't that feel awesome?

[–]creating_my_life3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Doesn't that feel awesome?

Yes, yes it does. It's almost impossible to share with something as silly as an online community what a big fucking difference this makes in my life. Before finding MRP, my brain was wrapped around a lot of victim-puke shit. I simply didn't know any better.

Now, I know better. It's like all the bullshit I worried about before is simply melting away. I keep reading posts here, and re-reading the books to keep my brain sharp. I know I'm a newbie.

There's so many experiences I've had in my past that now completely make sense.

It's like a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders, and I'm now enabled and I've given myself permission to be the fucking awesome me that I am.

I know RP gets a lot of shit and disrespect, but it has literally saved me.

[–]dr_pavel_im_cia_0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy

Who tf are you?

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm1 point2 points  (12 children) | Copy

WMP

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How'd I do up there? Feel relatively certain of your response now?

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fo' shizzle...solid work.

He's WMP. Stoney just referenced WMP's stint as Mod too.

[–]dr_pavel_im_cia_0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

Am I supposed to know who this guy is?

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

/u/Whinemoreplease was a mod on MRP.

[–]0x424Ch0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Now I'm waiting for CAD to have a new account.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Has had a few since. If you look carefully, you can spot them.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

He is around in spirit and in health.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Or is that CAD... Check out the history.

Or maybe we're all CAD.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

He is a bit like Neegan isn't he?

I am CAD.

[–]0x424Ch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Everything just made so much sense all of a sudden.

[–]midlifedick0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

When I get comfortable and stop filtering my words and behavior, I'm a mean asshole. I've known this for 2 decades. I have read all kinds of shit, went to Carnegie seminar, tried many things to become more social, positive and likeable but it just hasn't happened.

It limits me at work. I'm worried it is a behavior model that will get passed on to the kids. My oldest daughter is already a negative pain in the ass just like me. What the fuck should I do?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Focus on being a value giver. Instead of being a mean asshole, focus on how you can take that and drive positive change/behavior/etc.

I'm pretty forceful and blunt myself - but I care a lot about the success of the team I'm in, the project I'm on, and the company I work for. I combine that bluntness with the value add focus and think about how I amplify everything that I do.

If you're just berating people, for example, you're not leading and you're not being a value giver.

[–]UnlimitedEgo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I have a mantra of "I work hard for those who work hard for me". Helps me weed out who I want to joyfully spend time on.

[–]GongShanks0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wow this has to be the most pathetic validation seeking thread I've ever seen on here. SMH.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

How's fatherhood man?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Easy, fun, and a grand old time. I love watching her grow.

http://imgur.com/a/61WfV

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Awesome.

It only gets better, little fuckers teach you more about yourself than pretty much anyone else.

[–]JDRoedellRed Beret-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

Should I wipe front to back or back to front?

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Circles are most effective.

[–]JDRoedellRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Tried it... total mess

[–]weakandsensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

oh, i forgot to add that you gotta try to push it back in.



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