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Wife won't have sex bc of election

by notmyrealprofile22 | January 23, 2017 | askMRP

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Quick background. I found RP four years ago after retiring from the military. Married 20 years with four kids. I sought RP after returning home and seeing the shit mess my wife had created during multiple deployments where age controlled the finances. I started leading again and our house got back in order. Things have been great

Sex had never been an issue. Prior to November, sex was regularly 4-7 days a week. My wife has a very high libido and before November I had never gotten a hard no from her. She was always adventurous and down for whatever.

Then election night. My wife knew I was voting for trump. Any time she tried to debate it with me, I STFU. Then he won and my wife has gone fucking insane. The day after she told me she no longer respected me and didn't know how she could trust my judgment. I've STFU most of the time.

The sex quickly stopped. A dramatic change from our previous twenty years. Since November we have had sex1-2 a week following this basic set up: she tells me she only wants to fuck cause she's horney, we fuck, and she goes to sleep or off to whatever. She's made clear every time that she's still very upset and this is to hold her over.

We don't talk at all during the day. Conversations in our house are limited to discussing child care or logistics. I told her we were going out without kids Saturday, and she told me (again) that she can't be social with me knowing I voted for trump. On Saturday she really lost it with me. She screamed that I voted for a rapist bigot. who has no respect for women. She said her entire view on me has been irreparably changed I STFU. We haven't spoken much since then.

I don't know how to best handle this. It's been two months and her anger has not lessened. I've gone on with my life without her and she does not give a fuck. One example: the neighbor who always flirts with me stopped by to grab something. After she left my wife looked at me and said: you should fuck her. She voted for trump. You can be assholes together. I said: good idea. That would be a fun. She's got a great ass. As I walked away she said: I'm serious. You do not understand how much I despise you and how little respect I have for you now. I do not care who you fuck. I am trapped because of the kids, but someday I won't. I said: there's the door. You're not trapped. Just walk out of it. " She laughed and said: soon.

I spoke to a divorce attorney this morning. I want to make sure I'm covered. But from an RP standpoint what the fuck do I do?


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Title Wife won't have sex bc of election
Author notmyrealprofile22
Upvotes 24
Comments 139
Date 23 January 2017 04:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 36 points37 points  (22 children) | Copy

If this post is real, you have one option:

Bring home divorce papers and have her sign them.

[–]Mecha758 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Bring home divorce papers and have her sign them.

By continuing to be in her presence, the OP is showing his kids that a man should be disrespected by his wife. By divorcing her, he can later explain the why he divorced her (if she doesn't poison the kids against him).

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's one way to look at it. Kids will interpret the situation in their own way. You could argue kids will see this action as his abandoning them.

I think you begin divorce proceedings in this case because OPs wife is pushing her own political agenda into the marriage. That's just fucked.

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 5 points6 points  (16 children) | Copy

That was what the attorney said. I would like to get her to an agree to disagree point. I do love the woman, love fucking her, and are kids are age 5-13. This aside we've had a solid marriage.

[–]p0inky9 points10 points  (11 children) | Copy

What kind of example will you be setting for your kids if you can't hold/own your own beliefs in life?

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 2 points3 points  (10 children) | Copy

I can hold my own beliefs, and have her have different ones. The problem is she thinks my vote means I am a racist misogynistic asshole. What she thinks of trump she's put on me. Her anger is something I've never seen in her. It's hot actually. She's cut off several close friends since the election too. When I asked her about it she said: she has no room in her life for anyone that voted for him.

[–]p0inky13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

I notice the same thing with my leftist "friends." I can let them drone on and on about why the right sucks, why trump is the worst, and how we're all racist, misogynistic homophobes and be like, "meh." But if i disagree on even the smallest point or nuance, they go apeshit, become insulting, and cut contact with me until they need something (job reference, physical help, whatever).

Started trimming them down in life. Changed my phone number and only let people inside the circle know how to reach me. Antisocial? Maybe. But I'm cutting the fat in my life. If they don't add value, I'm not wasting my time.

[–]SteelToeShitKickerRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The problem is she thinks my vote means I am a racist misogynistic asshole. What she thinks of trump she's put on me.

To which I say: "You have always known I'm an asshole. What else is new? Let's talk about some crime statistics and I'll really show you what I think."

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'd spam her with pro-trump articles and facts relentlessly until she joins your frame again.

Everytime she brings it up, drop another uncomfortable truth bomb: "Hillary was funded by Saudi Arabia, where women are stoned to death as punishment for being raped" "Donald Trump filed a lawsuit against Palm Beach to be able to desegregate his Mar-A-Lago golf resort" "The woman who organized the Women's March this weekend is in favor of sharia law, where women are sold by their fathers as brides"

Either you'll be in the same boat, or you'll draw her back into your frame. Get your papers ready in case it doesn't work.

[–]Glennus6261 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'd up the ante and bombard her with the Donald memes and take screen shots of her batshit crazy responses. No one who let's identity politics trigger them THAT greatly should not have custody of children.

Come to think of it, I'd cut her off completely. That group of people are the type that cries rape where none has occurred.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If it doesn't redpill her, it would rile her up with pro-Trump discussion enough that she does something rash; that would help with the ensuing custody battle.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I want free ice cream. I still plan to have a job to pay for ice cream.

[–]nastynickdrRed Beret3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

This shows your marriage is not as solid as you think. Its like the guys who says "we have a great marriage, but we havent had sex in 2 years".

Stop trying to make her agree to whatever, "make her see this or that", or to change her mind. State to her, in a calm and firm tone, that she either stops this nonsense or you are bringing in the divorce papers. And if she doesnt stop, bring them in.

[–]p0inky5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bad advice. This woman has clearly removed all respect for this fucking guy. She is just waiting, collecting evidence/dirt, and waiting to strike when the opportunity presents itself. Saying they don't respect you is worse than them saying they don't love you. This marriage is doomed.

And, no, I'm not some woman-hating, neck-bearded NEET saying this between rounds of whatever popular video game is the rage these days. I've been married since 2005 and been through some shit.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

This. I question whether this post is real though. But if it is, and wife is being driven over the cliff because her husband voted for Trump, it's over.

But I strongly suspect there's much more to this story. I doubt very much that his wife who respected him before the election all of a sudden no longer does because he voted for Trump.

[–]sh0ckley2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do not underestimate the power of mass media mind control.

[–]coolred86110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree...I hate to gaslight. But better you to gaslight than for you to be on the receiving end. Strike first and strike hard. All you have is your name...if you divorce her...in society you have a reason...If she divorces you, then your name will be dragged through the mud.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've seriously never understood the "if you vote for trump you're a racist and a sexist".

I mean, couldn't you just be a guy that has had enough of crony capitalism and you're sick of seeing China and Mexico take all the jobs?

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

Jeez, talk about skipping the honeymoon. If it were my wife I would grab her right in the pussy.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

:)

[–]sh0ckley0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

omg lulz

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ha! I needed that laugh today. Thanks prof....

[–]rocknrollchuck7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

While this could be a troll post, just look around the world. OP's wife is FAR from the only one acting this way because of Trump.

[–]ArchwingerRed Beret18 points19 points  (13 children) | Copy

It's kind of funny that the liberal party -- the ones who are anti-religion and heavily into separating church and state -- have turned their political ideology into a religion.

There's no logically explaining things to these people, because their political ideology isn't just a set of opinions they have about what makes for good governance and good leadership, like it's supposed to be. Their political ideology is their faith -- and a huge source of their identity.

It doesn't matter that 63 million people voted for Trump, and that they're not ALL evil racist sexist rapist bigots. Lots of normal people liked what the guy had to say. Nope. Doesn't matter. If you voted for the other guy, you don't just have a different opinion. You are literally a bad person. Because their liberal ideology is their religion -- and by voting for the other guy, you are evil and condemned to hell. By voting for the other guy, you have violently spit upon their very identity. You pissed on their altar, burned their bible, and took a big fat shit on the pile of ashes.

As for your wife, it sounds like you're doing the right thing regarding her bullshit. Just keep agreeing/amplifying, ignoring, or blowing off her shit tests. Don't buckle, apologize, explain, or defend yourself. Get your ducks in a row for divorce, because if she's devoted enough to the faith of liberalism, she's doing the same thing on her end. And she's probably going to start cheating on you because she thinks you deserve it.

If she doesn't cool off and get her ass back in line after the coming presidency turns out to be no different than any other presidency, then you're going to be served divorce papers and cheated on, but no big loss. You're married to an idiot.

People have turned politics into something stupid. In the early 1900s, Warren Harding, who was generally regarded as unqualified to be president, a nationalist who was opposed to the League of Nations, and fostered a "return to normalcy" campaign (to restore America to its pre-World War greatness), came out of the woodwork to take over the Republican party. He defeated Democrat James Cox in the 1920 election. Do you think grown men and women were crying their eyes out, marching on the capital, or divorcing their spouses for voting wrong and putting this unqualified nationalist into power?

But today, politics, religion, and identity are all the same thing. If you vote for the wrong guy, you are literally the devil and you hate your wife.

[–]Mildly_Sociopathic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The Church of Social Justice.

[–]JackGetsIt1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's no logically explaining things to these people, because their political ideology isn't just a set of opinions

I do find that conservatives are way more open to a healthy debate, and more respectful when debating. They are also more open to logic. That being said. Much of the conservative party uses actual religion as it's guide to politics and if you think a SJW is immune to logic and facts try touching a topic that a conservative has decided lines up with his or her 'book' again out goes fact and logic and observation. So both parties are entrenched and fact resistant. This is a huge problem in our country right now and I don't see any end to it. The only people really doing well are the ones that play off the narrative of either side and most of the those people don't even believe their own rhetoric.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

It's kind of funny that the liberal party

These types of people exist in both parties. Hell, I voted for my dog (I did) and I'm sure there's a group of people who now hate both red and blue voters to their core just because they didn't vote for my dog.

An argument could be made that the effects of hypergamy and the zombification of men have all led to the type of personalities we see in society today. WRT red v. blue parties, men are generally lost in their purpose and drive in life and subconsciously think "well I don't know much about what's right in life but I know this: Republicans are right!" Or "I'm not getting respect anywhere else but if I can be more radical in my thoughts than the next guy I'll be relevant!" It's just a search for purpose, and the result of a society whose men have by and large lost the ability, the drive, the fire to be men and do manly things and build manly shit. Instead, everyone is finding comfort and purpose in taking a side.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

Which is funny. That spencer guy from the Alt-Right was talking a lot of shit about being radical. A 40 year old pussy punches him in the face, Cernovich offers an octagon fight to prove how tough the alt right can be, and he buckled.

He didn't want to save the white race with strength, he wanted to bitch, just like any other MRA. He learned radical ideas don't translate into strong action. Picking a tribe is often a crutch to having strength. Comfort and purpose is something a man can give, but not something he can find.

Women and kids get comfort, we just get two hands and a brain wired for risk taking

[–]sh0ckley2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Picking a tribe is often a crutch to having strength. Comfort and purpose is something a man can give, but not something he can find. Women and kids get comfort, we just get two hands and a brain wired for risk taking

I'm not sure you realize how brilliant this is and more importantly, how it has helped to start resolving a recent war in my head over how to handle a woman enraged with liberalism that is misdirected at her lover and provider - I have comfort and purpose to give, and am willing to take risks for someone who brings me value in other ways. Thanks.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No worries. Glad it helped

[–]StudntRdyTeachrApear0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Cernovich defeats white nationalist leader by...proposing a fight. You could not achieve a greater irony if you tried. Dude might sound faggy when he speaks...wait, who am I kidding, they both sound faggy. However, one of them is not literally retarded, and the other decided to go full gorilla here.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Put up or shut up was the rule before the internet.

Saying something stupid might get an idiot beaten, because of the direct, interpersonal consequences of saying dumb shit to someone's face.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Philosophical discussions in red neck bar = beer and blood on the floor. If I was still standing, I was right.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

play stupid games, win stupid prizes I guess.

Too bad, I could have almost respected those white guys and their 'power' if they could handle a few rounds in the octagon. especially against a middle aged numale.

At least Gavin wasn't afraid to go all punk on people fuckign with him

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Harding cheated on his wife repeatedly and had a 15-year affair which ended with his election to the presidency in 1920. So Trump isn't the first presidential candidate to "grab 'em by the pussy."

[–]ArchwingerRed Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm still trying to picture hardened, hard-working 1920s women and feminized men huddled around the radio, listening to the election results, crying their eyes out, wondering how this could happen, proclaiming this isn't the America they know and love any more! It's filled with womanizing nationalists! Then skipping work the next few days to gather in the streets protesting.

This is only the kind of shit that can happen when life is too easy. A bunch of middle class women and feminized loser men with too much free time and nothing constructive to do, crying about a presidential election? Literally believing that all people who have different political opinions are actually evil people? Like seriously, a candidate as bad as Satan and Hitler's love-child somehow snuck through the entire political process undetected, got pushed to the top of the ballot, and millions upon millions of closet evil people who have been hiding among us for decades, just waiting for their opportunity, jumped out and did the worst thing ever -- voted for someone other people didn't like! Over sixty million genuinely evil people, cackling with glee, rejoicing at all of the raping we'll be doing as we roll back over a century of women's rights, re-institute slavery, and start several world wars.

First world liberal people are just completely bonkers. Totally disconnected from reality.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

More and more I feel like my kids will be living in the this movie. It's ceased being funny, and is now quite sad thinking about how close we are.

[–]atlhartRed Beret13 points14 points  (7 children) | Copy

This thread is bonkers. For all the owning this community does, there sure are a lot of people blaming OP's wife.

This is OP's fault and there's a lesson here for everyone

Be attractive, don't be unattractive

Discussing politics is not sexy. It's not attractive. No matter your political ideology.

I don't discuss with my customers and I try to limit it with my wife...and we share a lot of political opinions. It's just not a good topic.

OP-unfortunately I think your options with this woman, at this point, are limited.

First and foremost continuing the conversation with her is living in her frame. It's time to move on. Continue living in your frame. Live positively. Live full. Live abundant. Don't get sucked into her frame. This is a massive shit test. Work your dread. One month for every year of marriage.

After 20 months of lifting, maintaining frame, and dread game, you'll know whether it's time to file or not.

To the the other MERPs: Jesus, this one topic has made most of you lose your shit. You all got sucked into OP's wife's frame. You all failed her shit test. She beta'd the fuck out of you. STFU and go lift.

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Lifting ain't my issue man. I am as strong as I was ten years ago and work out routines have only gotten stronger post military.

Besides a few conversations in the week after the election, I have stfu anytime she mentions it.

I've always worked dread. My wife does not give a shit about it now. It's like a switch went off I her head.

[–]sh0ckley6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

It's like a switch went off I her head.

Same switch went off in my wife's head on Saturday night after she soaked up social media rants about "the march" or whatever the fuck it was.

Nuclear shit test. She said things about me I couldn't believe: white men (who provide for her) are part of problem and should feel guilty because we just don't get it - I must be a racist white nationalist (incorrect) and am probably part of the alt right (incorrect) blah blah. I fucked it up and DEERed saying I would never feel guilty about who I was born as. That made it much worse.

I almost posted a FR/askMRP about it to see if other men had similar things happen and see how they were handled. I didn't do very well.

...until I realized it wasn't about me, and it wasn't even really her talking. She was parroting idiocy she'd read on the internet.

OP's case seems particularly bad but I would wait as long as possible and treat it like a nuclear shit test. It may blow over if you let it go. The mass media is the very cancer that instilled feminism in the first place.

Agree to disagree? Who's gonna lead the way there? Sure as fuck not her yammering like a bitch. Acta non verba. Listen to her bitch and then don't converse. Be the oak. These are the things I am doing myself. Political discussions are unattractive. I've removed them from things I say to her.

Is OP ready to tell people a 20 year marriage blew up because of an election? I understand the lack of respect is not tolerable for very long, but that just sounds gay as hell to me. Only OP knows how serious the wife might be.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is why I am not so sure this is a troll. For all we know this could be happening all over the country. Lysistrata all over again with a similar ending.

[–]sh0ckley0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The title sounds troll because it's so absurd. But the content? Not at all.

[–]atlhartRed Beret-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you won't lift more and work you're dread game, and blame it all on her, then your forever beta---victim puking til the end of your life.

Even if you divorce her, you'll always be the victim because you refused to accept responsibility. Therefore, you will never realize your alpha potential and you'll never have the life or sex you want.

You've got to accept responsibility no matter what happens tomorrow.

[–]StudntRdyTeachrApear-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Guys, guys, you're reacting the wrong way!

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (8 children) | Copy

She can cut of access to her vagina, not whether you get your dick wet.

My question is, why is she not terrified of that?

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

She doesn't give a fuck. She's repulsed by me because of my vote. She's made that clear.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

Well, her actions reflect that?

If that's the case, then balls in your court. Seems like an overt power play to me, your move champ...

My gut would tell me preparing for a separation, and having papers, only needing her signature are in order.

Your call babe, sign these, or get on board with the family, but the family will succeed regardless, your only question is whether you're a part of it or not.

And hidden behind this, is the huge work you've done to secure your best possible outcome.

Or you can wait it out (if it's a shit test) and it will blow over and she will get over it. Either strategy depends on accurate assessment of whats happening, and that's on you brother.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

At some point, you have to decide if this is unacceptable behavior. She has opened this door. Either shut down, hard, now, or live with seriously negative consequences, for life, IMO. You have every option here.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

As wife she gets first shot. She is actively withdrawing all value from OP based solely on feelz.

No fault jurisdiction, file for divorce, improve in the meantime, gain OI and Abundance, fuck everything not bolted down, and let her hamster run for the months pending the finalization. Maybe having an intact family will trump her ridiculous principles. Pun intended.

[–]anotherswingingdick0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No fault jurisdiction

fault does exist: Constructive Abandonment.

He can get the kids and she will have to pay child support.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

No clue where he lives. I'm giving an example of what I would do where I live.

And yes, the trade off is always time for money. More overnights, less paid in support. Lawyuh here.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I like the pun, even better advice.

[–]Mecha750 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She's repulsed by me because of my vote. She's made that clear.

And yet when she is "Horny" then your dick is good enough for her? If you get all the papers and such in order, then have you tried to turn her down and say your tired from fucking your neighbor for 4 hours this afternoon? After all, she is the one that is "trapped" so there is no reason for you to be her fuck toy.

[–]ParadoxThatDrivesUs10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

I can relate to your wife. I hate Trump. To me, he spits on everything I value - honor, integrity, love of country. I can't understand how anyone can watch him dishonor the Presidency and not feel ashamed that he represents our country to the world.

BUT, I also realized that most voters were forced to choose between two bad candidates, that just because someone voted for Trump doesn't mean that they agree with everything he does, and that it's even possible that I might be wrong about the guy.

Anyway, my advice is to bide your time and see what happens. In all likelihood, your wife will moderate over time, and/or Trump will do something that you really dislike, and the political differences between you will subside.

[–]moosedildo5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Since this comment didn't get downvoted to oblivion, I'm going to say my piece.

A lot of people say talk like others but do your thing, so start talking like others.

Try to manipulate your way out of this, it maybe a little machiavellian. Try explaining this to your wife:

  1. Trump has done a few things you dont like - eg disregard facts, claim that our (ex) commander in chief is a Kenyan etc pick a couple

  2. All women jump for billionaires doesn't mean he's a rapist. Hos gonna ho.

  3. You feel that an unqualified person is better than Hillary who shafted an honest man like Bernie, and Biden (find the wikileaks email I'm on mobile).

  4. Maybe Warren will come out as a strong contender in 2020. It's time we had a Native American president.

  5. Try not to laugh when you say #4

Then explain that this is a stupid reason to shaft your marriage, but you are more than willing and able to walk away, it's toxic for the kids. Tell her she has a "few" days to come around. Until then do not do anything for her, no sex because she is horny, no favors, nothing but logistics, tv is your channel, thermostat is your temperature, toilet seat is up. When you make food, its only for you and the kids, walk around shirtless, withdraw all your attention and comfort (whatever little was there). Give her a taste for how life for a post wall with 4 kids life will be. Answer no questions and if she asks anything your first question should be "are you trying to make this work or just wasting my time?"

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (19 children) | Copy

lets say this is real and she bought into the "trump is racist hates women and grabs pussies" thing.

Any time she tried to debate it with me, I STFU.

Thats your problem.

You didn't lead her to your beliefs. Someone else did.

But what ever, I still think there are things you're not saying.

Or TROLL

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 0 points1 point  (18 children) | Copy

I find the number if people who think I'm a troll interesting. I thought my situation was likely not unique.

As for leading, after the pussy tape, rational conversations with her could not be had. She gets more upset than I've witnessed.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (16 children) | Copy

thats the part I dont get.

The number of OTHER guys where who had their sex life and respect SUDDENLY stop? O I bet . Not counting you.

What everyone is saying, in other ways is, she never respected you.

Wanna know why?

Women agree with men they respect in relationships.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

My old lady has 'grab her by the pussy' in her lexicon now. and she sits at the window, laughing at protesters outside our building.

And she was raised in small town anti-trump mexico, and then the more hippie part of the canada. I guarantee high value trumps all that nonsense.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

my wife self identifies as a feminist..."But not like the ones you see now, they are all idiots... How does me NOT working outside the home equal something YOU did to me"

Then I ask her to check for hand cuff scars. She laughs, I snicker, and order the fuzzy ones... because why not.

outside our building.

Will never understand why everyone is so concerned with our "problems".

Its like, if you spot check the pussies, they get wet when you say "Trump".

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's Canada FFS. I don't see any protests over the new Finnish PM.

Thats proof it's not an actual realpolitik, it's just marketing to emotions

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Shit, I didn't even know Finland had anything other than an occasional blonde model export as far as importance.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I guessed. Figure it was obscure enough that no one would look into it

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Every time the wife gets all feminist warrior talk, I chime in with "you go girl" and a snicker. Shuts it down almost every time. Slows her down the rest of the time.

[–]sh0ckley0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wicked. Subtle A&A, I gonna steal it and use it.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

I've actually grabbed more pussy while saying "I'm grabbing you by the pussy" in the past six months than I ever did in the previous 4 decades, crazy.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's kind of fun. I've done it a few times, usually while Im getting a shit test.

It's the best nuke I've ever seen!

[–]smidevaek2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's mad because she's got cognitive dissonance since she's married to you but you're voting for the candidate her peers are telling her is evil, and you aren't doing anything to lead her to resolve that cognitive dissonance. You need to not STFU every time the subject comes up, but to use fogging to let her realize that it's OK that you voted for Trump.

Edit: So basically she hasn't lost respect for you because you voted for Trump but because you haven't proven able to lead her to a place where she could rationalize that you voted for Trump.

[–]Nyquil-Junkie5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

She sounds mentally unbalanced.

[–]plein_old3 points4 points  (11 children) | Copy

If this is a real post, I doubt the election is the only issue. Your wife has no trust in you... now, you say.

How much trust or respect did she have for you before the election? How did she lose it all so fast? What happened the last 10 elections? If you've been married for 20 years as you say? Is this the first time she tried to control your decisions, about voting, or anything else?

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

She's said for her a vote for Trump is more than a political decision. In one outburst she screamed at me about the pussy tape and how she hates me because if that

[–]plein_old3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy

screamed... hates

So where's all this coming from then?

If you're not looking forward to a divorce and reduced visiting rights, etc., you might try to find out if your wife has friends who fuel her hatred every time she sees them, and try to get her involved with happier people / influences, or something.

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

She's cut off all friends who voted for trump. When I had one talk right after the election with her she said this was black and white to her: he bragged about rape and has double digit accusers, and no one should look past that. Her sister is gay and she also has a lot of problems with pence's views on homo sexuality.

[–]plein_old3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

I dunno. I'd say if I were in your situation I'd try to take my wife on a trip for a couple days, away from sources of hate, like the media, or other influences.

A weekend meditation retreat! Well something like that might be ideal, but I don't know if that's your wife's thing. These days, with smart phones and social media, a vacation isn't the same thing as it was 20 years ago, so just going on a trip might not solve very much.

Once people get addicted to hatred and us-versus-them thinking, sometimes they have to step away from it for a couple days before they can come to their senses and are able to see it all more objectively... I dunno, anyway good luck man.

[–]p0inky0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

You're rewarding bad behavior.

[–]plein_old1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is a ship's captain rewarding the crew by steering the ship in a healthy direction? Maybe. To me it depends on other factors.

If a politician tries to make his country great again, is he rewarding his enemies?

(edited for brevity)

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Check out this videotape by Feminism LOL:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ok1Gd0CQsiM

The media is not showing us the entire tape. Watch her takedown and the ENTIRE tape that shows Trump does not go around grabbing women by the pussy or forcibly kissing them.

[–]plein_old3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Has she been abused by a man before?

Lots of women seem to be "triggered" by Trump because he's not bent over, with his hat in his hand, apologizing for himself constantly. I honestly didn't follow the election very closely, and I don't know very much about Trump, but it seems like a lot of people project an enormous amount of their own personal issues onto him, and then get together with others of like mind and feed on each others' hatred. Whole thing is kind of... amazing... or something.

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's never been abused.

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She voted republican until this election. We've ever before had political disagreements before.

[–]SexistFlyingPig2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She has lost her mind, and all of this is one big comfort test. You're offering her no comfort.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sometimes you have shitty people in your life.

Maybe you just found out how shitty.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Or, she was looking for a reason to......

Or she is trying to get him to dump her, indirectly. As a SJW she can't have it look like she wants to dump hubs to chase strange.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

If real, the "no dunked erection b/c of election" is simply an excuse/symptom. How transparent.

Women will bend their ideals over backward for the right man. And slap a beta silly for deviating from her approval.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yes! aka Occams Razor, the simplest explanation is usually the best.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

C'mon no science or logic from the old.

Confuses those under 30 who believe they invented everything.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Confuses those under 30 who believe they invented everything.

It's a tough job, somebody's got to do it. I'm a giver carrier, you know.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm a giver, carrier, you know.

FTFY. Epidemiology terms are slightly different.

[–]trp_ocd12 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

You're not attractive enough to have your own beliefs.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

not attractive enough to have your own beliefs.

In her eyes, you are dead on.

This is pure RP, WTF is wrong around here?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

WTF is wrong around here?

Lunch time somewhere. Grog must find fresh meat. :)

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Eloquence is suppressed by hunger and annoyance.

Soon I'll just be grunting when the core tenants are constantly ignored because they might hurt some fee fees.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Next.

Divorce papers. You have been supporting her how long ?

Edit- she has your cock in captivity and you need to clean off the goggles.

This whole episode with her is billshit. Just FYI, this is Ice burg. AKA you ain't seen nothing yet.

She lacks respect. Been there done that. You been letting it build and now it's full on - until you reverse it.

[–]Griever1141 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If this post is real, you have one option: Bring home divorce papers and have her sign them.

Seriously, this is the only answer. You stuck your dick in crazy and now you know it.

[–]bsutansaltRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Leftism is mental illness, and she's likely got a few more mental issues going on to be that butthurt over an election.

[–]mabden0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The reality is, unless you live in Pennsylvanian, Ohio, Michigan, or Wisconsin, your vote really had no effect on the outcome of the election. However, your wife has an ideological problem with Trump and what he represents regardless of your votes effect. You voted for him, you are him. Irrational, but you know that.

she only wants to fuck cause she's horney

Stop fucking her. Employ "The 180."

I spoke to a divorce attorney this morning

Looks like your only option is to follow through. She has put you in limbo, forcing her to make real choices will get you out of it, one way or the other.

Peace.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This isn't any different than most men's problem around here: loss of attraction for whatever reason. Use the tools in the shed: STFU, AA, AM. You decide how ridiculous you want to play it. If she's got one foot out the door, you don't have much to lose. She'll either get over it or she won't. In the meantime, keep living your fun happy life. Your woman AWALT-- she doesn't think she has any control over her life and she's playing the victim.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Girl I am seeing just ran out on me because of the election. Can confirm.

[–]coolred86110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What did the attorney advise? Strike first...strike hard.

[–]2ndalRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Wife won't have sex bc of election you

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I understand that the typical response. But I don't think that's the issue or she wouldn't be clawing for me when she's horney.

[–]p0inky0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

Enlisted wife or officer's wife?

[–]notmyrealprofile22[S] 2 points3 points  (10 children) | Copy

Officer.

[–]p0inky0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

Thank goodness for that, at least. I was thinking this was the typical, ex-hooters waitress type of wife bs I'm used to.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

Dependapotamus dont care

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Dependapotamus

Stoney, I bet you could make that into a great post.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

It's standard military slang. Any post I make on military women and their hypergamy would be the angriest sounding thing you read from me.

They are the worst of the worst. Entitled, predatory, slutty, lazy, entitled cunts. I will never have enough harsh words for their type, I guarantee you woulnd't want to read it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Man I love it when you talk dirty! Go ahead. Bet you could tie it all to some universal RP truths.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's everything we discuss here, turned up to 11.

I've got about 6 posts in the kiddie right now, probably 10k words all together, it's taking a lot this time to get them to any sort of post. Not to mention another 20 still in paragraph to 1000 word chunks that still need fleshing out

I'll eventually have them done, and look like captaincingeworthy with a deluge of em at once.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Full speed ahead "captaincringeworthy"

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Entitled, predatory, slutty, lazy, entitled cunts

That sounds like most of the women discussed on MRP.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

More like the boogeymen that the kids in TRP are scared of.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dependas are the real deal.

They aren't even worth a Red Pill Mann's time.

[–]nantucketghost-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

deleted What is this?

[–]BrazilRedPill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

TL;DR - Donald Trump made my wife not have sex wife me.

Try harder, troll

[–]red-pill-man-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why do you want to be married to an obviously crazy irrational feminist?

[–]470_2_700_nm-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a troll post.

[–]maxofreddit-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is tricky...I wonder about leveling with her. I now it's not a common play in the RP circles, but ask her to think for herself.

As in, is there ANYone else that voted for Trump that she's friends with?

My wife had a similar reaction to the election, and we went back to my parents place for the holidays. They both voted for Trump. We had a perfect Christmas, literally. She realized that people can still be kind and wonderful, and have differing opinions on some subjects.

She's allowing the media/feminism thing to guide her thoughts instead of thinking for herself. Are SOME people that voted for Trump racist assholes? Sure. Are ALL of them? No. (you could make a parallel claim for the Hillary vote too, btw)

She may not be able to hear it from you though, she may have to hear it from a friend or something.

Hang in there bro...this is still really fresh for her with all the marches over the weekend as well. Who knows maybe it'll fissile itself out over time.

[–]StudntRdyTeachrApear-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the product of equality: houses divided and fighting inwards. It's inevitable. Demography is destiny, and to an extent, half the country was battling the other half in an imaginary war of the sexes. Our Republic seems beyond repair at this point. No privileged group is going to willingly give up their leverage, which is such a curious thought, considering all the talk surrounding a certain demographics' supposed unrelenting and toxic "privilege".

[–]deemad32-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your wife sounds like a perimenopausal walking shit test. Stay on point ( frame ) This shit will pass and you'll be back to fucking her daily.



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