You find nude photos of your wife. What do you do?

InChargeMan · 2017-01-06T14:22:22+00:00

You could check the phone records around that time to see if she was calling a strange number.

DonaldBaelish · 2017-01-06T17:25:27+00:00

she switched from Android to iPhone

Thats when you know that you should prepare the divorce papers.

All jokes aside , Trust but Verify.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-01-07T00:12:25+00:00

Before I read the comment, let me say fuck you for the question because I immediately thought: "Jerk off to them?"

Deleted them

Damn it, what a dick.

She took them when I was out of town with 2 of our kids. Maybe her intention was to send them to me

I really think this is innocent. She was bored and her entertainment was not around. Clearly Chad wasn't around.

You should have refused to delete them and told her how awesome she looks. You are immediately thinking "cheating." She is probably thinking "slut shaming." BAD move IMHO.

[deleted] · 2017-01-07T04:18:31+00:00

"It was completely out of character."

All I need to hear. She's looking to cheat on you or already has.

plein_old · 2017-01-06T15:50:49+00:00

So is she holding the camera up with her hand?

Or is she posing for a photographer and smiling meaningfully into the camera?

If she took them herself, and told you about her intention to do that, then I don't see how this is some kind of huge problem. You might have other problem in your relationship, but these aren't them.

[deleted] · 2017-01-07T05:34:03+00:00

Dear Oh dear, you may as well have posted this in relationships or twocromosomes based on the terrible advice you are getting. You already know the truth, it is eating you up and that is why you posted. Those pictures were snapchatted to Chad. It is time to start hiding money and planning your exit strategy. PM me if you want some proper advice.

[deleted] · 2017-01-07T08:06:34+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5mi9h1/guy_finds_out_wife_took_nude_photos_while_he_was/

Your story was cross posted to TRP. Go read the comments there. My favorite:

Very simple......

If you're blue pill, they were for him and she just didn't like the way they looked, so she deleted them. Typical female lies.

If you're red pill, you realize the truth.....hubby was away at work, so it was time to "play" with Chad and send him some hot naked pictures, and then delete them so hubby has no clue.

Deep down, he knows the truth, but he just doesn't want to believe it.

He'll question her, she'll pull the typical manipulative female bullshit of "What? You don't trust me?!? You're just being insecure," and turn it back around on him. He won't want his life shattered, therefore he'll put himself immediately back into REM sleep, and say "Yea, she is my wife. I need to trust her."

The end.

Do yourself a favor and read those comments for some very harsh, unvarnished truth. Deep down you know something is wrong. Trust your gut.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-01-06T14:38:04+00:00

Context.

Were you the kind of man who would get nude jill-off photos back then?

Anything raising a red flag in hindsight?

This is either a good try at being awesome, or a shitty attempt at being discreet, context is everything

BluepillProfessor · 2017-01-06T23:45:05+00:00

Either she took them herself and sent to someone else or someone took them for her then fucked her with the courage you never had. EVERY GIRL is a raging slut for the right man

We know what really happened here. Women don't delete nudes because "they didn't like them". They send them to guys they want to turn on. I get these photos and so do my asshole buddies. We show each other all the time. I can see the married ones getting caught just like this and spinning a fable. Then laughing about how he bought it.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3qi7qp/you_wont_know_when_she_cheats/

Its also not out of her character. Its out of character with the imaginary good girl you think you married.

I realize this sounds harsh but this is the exact wake up call you need right now.

I've been in your shoes and can help. PM me if you want

man_in_the_world · 2017-01-06T14:28:11+00:00

Enjoy them!

NrthnMonkey · 2017-01-06T17:00:26+00:00

The fact she told you at the time that she had tried to take nudes but didn't like them seems to suggest she is telling the truth. It is an easy mistake to have pics sync to the cloud without knowing.

nopeToThe43rd · 2017-01-06T14:01:09+00:00

Tell her ~~you found them and~~ they were hot as fuck and you wish you didn't delete them. Give detailed positive-only feedback.

470_2_700_nm · 2017-01-06T14:40:00+00:00

Does it bother you that much? If you are anything but confident, go ahead and verify. However this kind of thing can become consuming.

Leave for the weekend and rent a gps logger if you are freaked out.

My experience is, if she is fucking your hard and enthusiastically, you should be good. Although I read that this ain't always the case.

Just don't be consumed by it your wife isn't that special. She's just a hoe like the rest of them.

sven_igortsen · 2017-01-06T22:50:18+00:00

Install a keylogger on her phone, tablet and if you have a home pc ... log her passwords and verify this way.

BobbyPeru · 2017-01-06T16:51:08+00:00

Trust but verify I is a good method. But, do beware that it can become consuming and the danger is you can become obsessed. Once you become obsessed, it starts to break down your frame. So, if you want to trust but verify, do it, but don't stay on it too long. I liked the suggestion someone made about checking phone records at around that time as a method of trusting but verifying.

iloveairplane · 2017-01-08T18:23:35+00:00

edit - wait, you say she TOLD you that she was taking sexy pictures of herself a long while back and this was just confirmation of her taking said photos? You mean you were not surprised to find these photos because you knew about her taking them in the first place - it wasn't just DEERed when you found out about said photos?

hobohunter24 · 2017-01-07T06:01:57+00:00

Has she ever sent you nudes before? If not...well, we all know what's up.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-01-07T03:57:54+00:00

Did she tell you about the nudes in February or after you saw them?

bsutansalt · 2017-01-07T07:52:52+00:00

Trust, but verify.

I'd give her the benefit of the doubt that she was doing like you discussed (trying to take sexy pics), but also look at those phone logs from around that time just to be certain. And that doesn't account for possible snapchat, facebook messenger, and who knows what else she might use to send them to someone else these days. Do your due dilligence and thoroughly check her phone.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-01-07T15:58:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5mi9h1/guy_finds_out_wife_took_nude_photos_while_he_was/

Check out this thread op. The guys on the red pill disagree with me and several, others. The op over there is definitely worth considering. Time to trust but verify.

AmputateYourHead · 2017-01-08T07:02:06+00:00

If she's up to no good, Until you've got solid evidence, don't let on that you have any suspicions. Telling liars which parts of the story sound like bullshit just makes them better liars.

Title	You find nude photos of your wife. What do you do?
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