In reading Athol Kay's MMSLP it brings up something that I'd not quite considered before. Women NEED discomfort. It's like a drug that provides a rush of tension, then a rush of relief. When they have a man who's involved in a dangerous activity they are freaked out when he's in harm's way, then relieved when he returns safely.
It's the discomfort- attraction paradigm. She may hate what he does. But she's attracted to him for doing it. This explains women's attraction to men in physically risky professions, Soldiers, police, firemen, fighter pilot, etc.
The more chance you have of dying, the greater the attraction.
I think I'm with the Bluepillprofessor on this one. The soul of a woman really does seem like it was created down below.