My RP journey is going well. I lift, workout, great hobbies, good friends, etc.
I find myself alone on weekend nights because my wife is low energy then due to over exerting herself during the day/week. I'm tired of sitting at home when she goes to bed at 9PM. So I need something to do on weekend nights.
I'm a young, fit, energetic 48 years old. I live in a big city. All my guy friends are married, so they usually have plans on weekend nights. I drink socially.
I'm at a loss for what to do on a Friday or Saturday night from 9 PM until midnight. I don't really want to go to a bar and develop a drinking habit. I also don't really want to tempt myself with other women if I'm feeling lonely. I don't really want to go out for a late dinner by myself and even if I did have someone to go with, I'm not really a foodie. I don't want to work out on weekend evenings either. I have a great work out schedule during the week.
I feel like a need a wingman, but I'm not sure what we would do if I did. The old me would have picked up women, but now that I'm married, that doesn't work.
Right now I usually work on something in the garage. But it isn't what I want to do. What I'd really like to be doing is something fun with a sexy female companion. My wife and I have fairly regular decent sex, but I can't say I'm totally fulfilled by her.
The rest of my week is pretty much 100% full and gratifying. I have a lot of guy friends, we do a lot of stuff together. I have a couple good hobbies. I work and work out. Life is good except that I am usually spending 1 weekend night alone.
Ideas or comments ?