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What have been some of your most effective examples of dread?

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July 17, 2016
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I'm very early in trp and have been hitting the gym, stfu, and owning my shit. I was so blue pill that I was almost starting to grow labia. I'm learning more and more every day. I'm still at 1-3 level of dread but am starting to see a swing in her attitude.

What have been some of your most effective forms of dread and at what level of dread?


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Title What have been some of your most effective examples of dread?
Author Dobiegillistein
Upvotes 9
Comments 20
Date 17 July 2016 03:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/207322
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4ta2aq/what_have_been_some_of_your_most_effective/
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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy

For the newbs, this is dread. You should be an interesting and attractive man with a full life and plenty of options. Proof of that should come from other people. Don't talk about your options - let her figure it out.
 

most effective forms of dread

Passive dread, levels 1-5, as long as it's not part of a colossal covert contract. If you're an interesting, attractive, funny, confident man, then women will want to fuck you. One of them might be your wife.

[–]anythingincRed Beret1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Exactly the link I was going to post.

I think the question OP was trying to ask is "what are some displays of high value?" The list could get long but luckily MMSL has a forum dedicated to it.

http://marriedmansexlife.vanillacommunities.com/categories/displays-of-high-value-men

Unfortunately, it is mostly concerned with how to dress it seems.

BPP also has a youtube video that may be pertinent

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rs0aNuxyBJY

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I think the question OP was trying to ask is "what are some displays of high value?"

I agree. Just didn't have time or energy to put something like that together. It's also hard to think of examples when the behavior is natural.
 
Your contributions here have all been really solid, by the way. It's easier for guys like Jack to take a break when guys like you step up.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Do you know if Jack is taking a break or is he done?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

He said he was taking a break for a few months to help a family member get a business off the ground. It seemed like he needed a break, though. I don't think he was enjoying it anymore. Even if he was planning a temporary break, he may decide that returning isn't worth the time and effort.
 
Maybe he's waiting for me to make good on my promise to assemble The Book of jacktenofhearts as a companion to The Book of Pook.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm going to just go ahead and start a rumor that he's now gay and doesn't need all of this MRP stuff anymore...we'll see if that goads him back to clear his name... I'm hopeful his response will be at least 5,000 words...and it ends with: I'm not gay. Anymore.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

starting to see a swing in her attitude.

Oh boy, maybe she will fuck me now and respect me!

its different for everyone. Prof apparently got to fuck me or fuck you.

I skipped to 10 without going through the whole process step by step.. backed up, slowly got to about 9 -10 ( 10 is a big NMMNG thing).

Thats when the fact that she has some unresolved past issues from before me came out. She is working on them now. I am still at 10 without being an ass-hole about it.

So , not being an asshole is key - definition of asshole? OWN your shit and don't blame her for yours even if she "caused" it. In the end, YOU let it happen.

How to not be an asshole = if your game is on point, you look good, you are cheerful and fun, almost nothing you do short of wholesale murder will make you an asshole in her eyes.

If you are a schlub, buying nice shoes makes you a dickheaded asshole.

Oh, and keep in mind, this is for Sex.... respect should start much earlier, and may not be fixed no matter how much she or anyone else wants to fuck you.

Level 11-12 : Honestly I kind of don't see the point of these other than your own ego stroking. Just get a divorce.

[–]fuckmrpRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Passive dread is the byproduct of becoming the most awesome version of yourself. Anything else and you're expending energy in creating an outcome you can't control.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

A cheap and easy one is to buy a few pairs of nice underwear.

A man should treat himself well andl dress nicley anyway

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

first off, lol on the history

Number one rule of a good lover is the woman always cums first.

Secondly, don't worry about dread right now. If guys are confident enough to manhandle your woman in front of you, the gym and the kitchen should be your focus.

Also, stop dreading to get a reaction out of her. This is a sad road that way too many men go down. They 'sprinkle a little alpha' on the relationship, then get pissy because she didn't follow the covert contract.

/u/adderallabuse has a short, but very deep comment. When you understand why, you'll know you have frame.

Until then, buy the underwear, and lift like your life depended on it. Eat protein until you shit sandpaper, and get some sleep

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Your single most effective dread is lifting weights. Lose the fat, gain the muscle. Once your visible SMV has surpassed hers. Your body will be doing dread for you. This I cannot overstate enough. The entire MRP program is an uphill battle until you can win the sexual market contest. You want a quick and easy way to get the biggest gains in your dread but there is no such thing unfortunately.

My MRP program worked so well and with success built on success because my wife's smv was equal to mine at the start, and then it wasn't very hard to surpass hers because she is a bit older than me. I feel sorry for the 460lb man married to Ivanka. That would take a really long time to get even equal to.

[–]Dobiegillistein[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

My SMV is higher then hers now and getting higher. I've had numerous opportunities to next her for a few hb6's or hb7's. She knows that there are a couple of bitches that would gladly fill her shoes. Back a few years ago I was an overweight fat slob. I lost over 50lbs by eating right and getting off my ass(walking, running, jogging, hiking, and bicycling). Now I'm adding back good weight by lifting.

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Wait until you see the look on her face when you toss her gently on the bed. Or the time you get so turned on you pick her up by her hips on the bed put her in position.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You are a poet.

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If we could only internalize:

My bitch better have my money.

Through rain, sleet, or snow.

My whore better have my money.

Not half, not some, but all my cash.

'Cause if she don't,

I'm gonna put my foot in her ass.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The most common heavy hitter is pre-selection bias. But other than that it will likely be tailored to your situation...that whatever level you were shittiest in before is likely to give her most pause when you improve it.

Im hoping you posted this more out of curiosity...rather than to try and copy paste. Copy paste is purely applying dread for the sake of her reaction...not for you...so it's a covert contract (IE im specifically applying this dread because it affects my wife the most)

[–]redstripedanimal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What have been some of your most effective forms of dread and at what level of dread?

That you stop doing dread FOR HER, at almost every dread level.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Best accidental dread ever……

I came home from gym. Told wife I saw a woman that my wife thinks is attractive and kind of flirty. Said the woman told me to tell wife, hi.

Later that afternoon, wife seduced me…… and I never saw it coming!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Acta non verba

[–]SDSAM210 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

He did. Being a messenger is an activity.



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