New to this but after a previous divorce this shit changed my life and only I recently slipped.
In LTR of about a year and a half and noticed she hasnt been paying the same attention to me like she used to. We still fuck almost everytime we are together but it seems I am the one initiating everytime. This is a bit of a change as previously she couldnt keep her hands off me. We used to joke about how she wanted more but I was in that refractory period.
I brought this up to her (I believe this is a Beta move) and she assured me nothing was wrong after she cryed for 15 minutes about how she cant make me happy. She then put my hand in her pants and showed me how wet she was etc.
We dont live together yet but it is something we are discussing. We do see each other 4 times a week though usually at her place since it is closer to where we both work.
We usually meet every Wednesday but I feel like it might be a good move to tell her that I am busy that day and blow her off. Should I tell her why (as in we need a break etc) or just say I am tired. Whats the right move here?
A little about me. I am 31 and in great shape http://imgur.com/MRaMacm. Have a decent salary (60k), working to make more (certificates, possibly going back to school) and own my own home and car.
I have always thought highly of myself and confidence is not the issue up until now. I had previously took a break with her for a week or two when we were first dating because she was really only a plate then but has since proven she can be LTR/Wife Material (she has a good job, cooks, cleans and has never turned me down.
Ive got a few other grievances (Shit tests etc She makes more money than me and has mentioned it jokingly) Id like to discuss with some of you vets as well but this one would be the most urgent.