Caught wife on Dating site, found out she is seeing someone.

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May 24, 2016
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What a way to end a birthday dinner for my wife. Friday night, put kid to bed, started doing a little history searching on the "family" PC. Find a guys name, go to bed, ask who it is. She says she has no idea even though she looked him up numerous times over the past few days. Get back on PC and find out she has a dating profile, also find out so does he. I look at phone records that morning and call out her Bullshit. They had been texting for the past week. Even that morning before I got up.

I pack my shit and leave (we are living at her moms house while we build a house). I demand she tell me its over so I can just hear and move on. She refuses to tell me but tells me instead, "I don't think this will ever work". Blah blah bullshit. I leave to take our son to get a haircut. I contact this beta and tell him to stop contacting my wife. He said no (I mean I knew he would) and said that he would only if it came from her. Typical answer.

Monday rolls around, Tuesday another day, we discuss some things. I am trying to be reasonable. I go over there Tuesday and try to talk in person to her. I find a gift bag with a sweet card from him in it along with chocolate and a gift card to Target. My son speaks up and says, "daddy, mommy has a teddy bear as well." Oh really, does she now. I also see a brand new lego that he also gifted. My son and I leave. She claims this guy gives her attention, listens to her, understands her, blah blah bullshit. Thursday rolls around and I finally contact his wife to see if what he is telling my wife is the truth (that he had moved out and they were separated). Well I find out from his wife they are not, but they will be by the end of the day. I also find out Thursday that my wife and this guy met up Wednesday night. Only because he texted me saying he wanted to meet me in person to tell me that my marriage with my wife was over and it was time for him to step up. He admitted to seeing her and that he could get her kisses and hugs anytime he wanted. My response, "Go for it".

His wife changes the locks and kicks him out officially. She sends me a text of his shit out in the rain. Meanwhile, I'm still trying to grasp that my wife is so fucking stupid to believe this dudes shit after meeting him on a dating site of two weeks. I try to get to her see she is making a big mistake. I know in the back of my mind, there is no saving this marriage at this point. She beats around the bush that she doesn't want to be with me. Never bluntly says it, just more of the.."this will never work between us."

This motherfcker is still texting me telling me how shitty of a father I am. I don't even respond. I don't have time for that BS. So here I am, I wake up and try to figure out what to do next. I am strong during the daytime as I type this but I am weak at night. Let me backup first, Friday morning she made up some excuse to have me over while no one was home. I smashed it twice, back to back.

There is more to this, just wanted to get the opening statements out for a bashfest on my behalf for not stepping up sooner. Let me have it guys.

Like I said, I know its over but I still hang onto hope. Why am I hanging on?

Why can't I just let her go be miserable with this beta?


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Title Caught wife on Dating site, found out she is seeing someone.
Author EngageAlphaMode
Upvotes 8
Comments 20
Date 24 May 2016 07:52 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/207409
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[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy

I try to get to her see she is making a big mistake.

Cheating is an addiction.

Showing her that addiction is a mistake is a CODEPENDENCY. An even worst addiction.

Now focus on actions: LEAVE THAT BITCH, DON'T LIVE WITH HER NEVER EVER, DIVORCE HER. As soon as possible. Your life depends on it.

As for this guy, ignore. Alphas disregard. Betas mate guard.

See my posts history. PM me if you want.

DO NOT CONTACT THAT OTHER GUY. DO NOT CONTACT YOUR SOON TO BE EX WIFE. All you will hear will be LIES to make you entangled even more. Don't believe her words, don't believe her ACTIONS TOO!!

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

This motherfucker knows what's what. My personal hero.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sometimes it takes a guy covered in shit to explain how a sewer works

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

Let me put this in focus for you real quick :

Dudes wife finds out He is seeing your wife. She kicks him out that day...

You are still... what? ... Hoping your baby momma will like you again?

Stop being a faggot.

have a hug. Get a lawyer and file. Record everything. etc.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

And maybe fuck his wife too?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

not one that cheated on him like that. fuck that crap

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

haha nah, i meant fuck that guy's wife