So if you have seen my previous post , in summary. Saw wife's message about her asking her gf about going on a few days trip to paris without me. Basically her and her friend.
So last night me and the wife go out for a few hrs for some fun. We are on our way back and pull into the house. Somehow talks about our vegas vacation come up and how one of my buddies is gonna meet us up while he is there. She starts to ask about him and his wife and if they are down for shows, drinking etc. I tell her he is coming by himself. My wife looks in disbelief as to how he is travelling alone and why his wife doesn't want to go. I completely agree with her because i too feel the same way. Again this isn't a bachelor party , this isn't someone died and I have to leave , it's going on vacation without your significant other..and this I don't agree with.
So my wife sorta catches herself and says maybe she doesn't gamble. She then says " hypothetically if I wanted to go with my friend. .lets call her Anne for a vacation you would be ok with it right". Bachelorette party? Or did someone die in her family/our family. She says no just to get away. I say no i don't approve. I say we go on vacation together. We save for vacation for us
She says what about paris , just her and Anne. Again i say no and i then proceed to tell her, im not paying for it and for safety issues I don't approve. I say who is paying for it? She tells me she will save up for it ....So I tell her ok save for it and have a good time.
She looks at me and says so you are ok with it. I tell her no , as I stated to you before. But know once you get back Im gonna save my money and head out with one of my boys on vacation. She says where to , I tell her who knows , Italy , Amsterdam , dominican republic.
She then says you proved you point, I would be very upset if you went on vacation without me. Case closed.
About an hr later she says hey babe, lets try and go somewhere just me and you a nice getaway if we have the money.