Please help, I mate guarded a guy that asked my wife to go workout at the gym (rock climbing). I had the talk with him last week and told him to back off, it's not appropriate and I wont' stand for it (he's married). I found out he asked her to hang out by looking through her facebook private messages. Today at the gym he talked to her about this when I was in another room. All of a sudden my wife left from the gym before our class together with a group of people we work out with every week. I confirmed she's at home now with our daughter. I don't know what to do. I'm sure she is embarrassed and livid with me. My mother was watching our daughter and she said that when my wife picked her up to take her home she seemed calm and composed. I left class before it started too and I'm at my workshop now to figure this out and am looking for a recording device to have on me when I go home to cover my ass if she goes nuclear. I confronted the guy at the gym tonight after I noticed my wife was gong and all my calls to her where going straight to voice mail. He confirmed that he talked to my wife tonight and he told me to get away from him, said he talked to her about this because he felt she knew something and then told me he wanted to stay out of it and told me to leave him alone. I've never seen any other evidence of them communicating via text or facebook besides him asking her to hang out last week via private messenger on facebook.
??? Do I fog, apologize, what do I do? This is the second time she'll know I looked at her phone and she's already sick of my jealous behavior in the past (nothing this bad).