You read that right.
Sometimes after gaming my wife, she will make sex conditional upon a backrub or something like that.
I have been at this long enough to know that my SMV is not high enough. But do I give in? Do I give her the backrub to get sex? It sounds like a shit test, but when I responded with amused mastery, she said condescendingly "it's called foreplay".
I ignored her arrogant response , and we still ended up with sex.. But I feel like I could have handled it better.
Four months in, I feel like I am doing fairly well . I read the sidebar and lift a lot. Sex is about once or twice a week, but slightly begrudgingly from her. Before unplugging, she knew I was dissatisfied with the lack of frequency so she still tries.
Killing it at work and as a parent.