I'm almost done reading NMMNG, and have read about 30 hours of material on /r/marriedredpill and my plan is to finish the core prerequisites before the new year.
We both are religious and N=1.
However my wife never ever used porn. Needless to say, she doesnt even know what a BJ is. So yeah, I married a nun basically and we somehow have made kids.
After being married for several years, I have finally taken the red pill and am excited at the results over the last month. Sex has gone from very infrequent to multiple times a week.
However, my wife has been a starfish our entire marriage and I need to figure out what my options are for changing the situation. In chapter 8 of NMMNG, he talks about healthy masturbation. My wife refuses to touch herself, and I have a feeling it is shame and fear based, and that her low sexual energy is related.
I want to tell her to find some time to masturbate in order to free herself from the shame and guilt. Not sure how to go about it.
Please be hard on me, I know this post is Uber beta but I had to start somewhere.
Edit: trying to format this for readability and prevent doxx