So it has been suggested that some of us give our wives the Surrendered Wife by Lauren Doyle to help them realize that "bitching, nagging, etc" will not help in a marraige besides the RP philosophy that will counteract this behavior (attacking the problem on two fronts)
i read her recent book "First kill all marriage counselors" I personally couldnt stand this book. besides the constant website plugs, the feminist rhetoric was making me ill. i and was tipped off that her previous book would be also a helpful read (for my wife before giving it to her).
While there are some fantastic points in the book which will help an anxious wife/wives in general, I am literally gagging at the feminist rhetoric displayed here. For example:
"if you dont like doing something, say i cant and walk away."
You are a woman, you deserve presents!!!! There was only ONE fucking like that presents =/= gifts. One line, but the fact that she says that as a woman, if you are in a happy marriage, your husband will bend over backwards to make you happy because thats his SOLE RESPONSIBLITY.
Your happiness is paramount, "happy wife, happy life"
Im really weighing the pros and cons of this book as it has been suggested here.
honestly, i think outside of my MAP/RP... she could get a lot out of MAP and this book.
I know there will be some flack regarding (you map > her map) and sharing of reading material but I have received conflicting messages here. Some leave their books out for the wives to read others refuse to say anything.