A month ago I was messaged a link to the RP subreddits, and then quickly directed over here, where I followed up with another victim puke-fest before getting off my ass and trying to get this damn pill out of the packaging.
Yesterday, my wife and i had sex for the first time in over six months.
She's been telling me that I'm more distant, less reactive (and "not listening") when she's had her outbursts. I have been managing 99% of the shit-tests by ignoring them, with a very rare AA thrown in to keep her on her toes.
It appears to be working - this wasn't starfish/pity sex, this was my beautiful wife of 4 years begging me to plow her harder, then telling me this morning that she's still sore from it. My response was an AM - "well, I'll let you rest another day, but then your ass is mine". Slap on the ass, walked out of the room...she just stood there looking dumbfounded for a good 5 seconds before following me.
Lifting, eating right, reading. Still a lot more work to do, but I'm definitely a believer.