Hi,

I'd like you to help me know what kind of manipulation is this and what she's trying to achieve; something rings a bell, maybe I read about this in the past.

There are 20-something days left until my first hearing in divorce court.

Today I get a text from my wife with a 5 year old picture and a caption "my Facebook memoir from the past"; there's that old beta addict me, severely overweight, with my kids and our friends (who also divorced) with their daughter. I remember that moment; I brought all of them to a nice forest for a walk, somewhere around; I discovered that place while riding my bike. Somehow, that day, I was leading them.

My interpretation: she's fishing for attention, she's checking if I will still react, she's got BPD or something very similar.

Your opinion? She reminds me of an ex of mine, who did exactly the same things, after we broke she sent me texts; when I called back she never picked up. Why girls do that, do all girls do that, what's the deal, WTF?