So now that I'm dead set on becoming the masculine male that I (once was) and was destined to be, it's causing a bit of a disruption in the house. I know MRP is about improving yourself, and it certainly is, I've seen an improvement in my entire family, except in one area of my wife. She can't sleep at night. She complains about me being happy and although she's happy, she fears (dread) that I'm being dishonest, have other girls on the side (which I attack with AM successfully) and that I'm generally hiding things, which I'm not.
She is going out of town to visit family with the kids and her sister and her kids this weekend. I thought this would be a good time to go out with the guys Sat night to a 21+up club (few of my friends are single and new to the area) and try my hand at chatting up some women (with no intent).
Well last night after I good hard fucking I fell asleep. Apparently she went thru my phone (IDGAF) and saw some text exchanges between us dudes in regards to planning said event. There were no texts that were damaging to my frame and my commitment to my family. She wakes me up,
"are you guys going out this weekend to meet girls/go to strip club?'
me-"yea maybe, I'm not sure yet"
her-"why, you never have before, if you go I'm leaving."
me-"lol, your leaving huh? Ok."
her-"well I don't understand"
Then I fell back asleep I think.
Several questions and one point. I know I need to immediately set a boundary on waking me up for non important bullshit, but how do reinforce this boundary? I'm not too keen on moving to another location to sleep (couch, hammock etc) but that may be the only option. Also, have you guys had an issue with your wives not getting sleep because of your "new you"? She tells me constantly she "loves how I'm a man again", "it's sexy as fuck" etc. But her lack of sleep is disrupting my ability to lead her to better herself.
Any input, suggestions?