Hey All, I'm pretty new to RP, and been a true beta bitch for years - my first marriage, and now in my second marriage, having made the same mistakes. Thank fuck a colleague shared this site with me.
Currently I am working on simple things within my 10 yr marriage. I am looking at owning my shit, maintaining frame, A&A, STFU, and OI. Some shit tests I am missing, but I subscribe to the fact that I am the cause of my own problems.
I have already seen some results from following the advice on here, and I hope it continues. I am going to the gym three times a week (cardio and weights), watching what I eat, and looking to increase my SMV....which it is. I have been out spending money making myself look good (something I wouldn't normally do, due to feeling guilty - bb traits I know).
I am currently reading the pre-req's and posts, trying to soak it all up. Doing so is helping my new mindset, and I am becoming a more confident guy.
The major issue I have is dead bedroom. I am a guy and I am horny as fuck. My wife used to be, but previous conversations (before RP) with her have had her saying, "I don't know why my labido is low", etc etc (well I know now - because I'm not worth fucking).
Anyway, this is the question: Can someone explain the importance of initiating constantly, even when getting rejected? I have started to flirt, try bring tingles, etc......but the TRP talks about the importance of initiating constantly - I just want to understand the importance, and how it fits into TRP, even if rejected. I appreciate it could be in the pre-req's that I haven't got to yet. So if it is, can you just refer me to that and I will go read. Thx.
TLDR: Can someone explain the importance of always initiating please.