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NMMNG - "coming out"

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August 24, 2015
8 upvotes

When I read this portion of NMMNG , I immediately felt that I would have a big exhale of relief if I did this.

I do not (yet) have a close masculine friend or network - so I am going to use this forum. I do not need validation, I am just looking to "come out" to someone(s).

It is in fact the ingrained fear and shame that had crippled what would otherwise be an amazing sex life.

I have done every BB trick in the book:.

Porn Cannabis abuse (no issue with it overall - I have just abused it) Excuses after excuses to hide my fear of rejection, failure, and shame if being "bad" Trolling craigslist for validation from women with low SMV Covert contracts Self loathing Trying to focus on her pleasure exclusively Settling for BAD sex

All of it. My walls were soo thick. I would have never imagined that getting this off of my chest would be a key to my masculinity instead of destroying it. Amazing, so thankful for this community.


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Title NMMNG - "coming out"
Author ManTwoPointO
Upvotes 8
Comments 7
Date 24 August 2015 08:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/208143
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/3i8vju/nmmng_coming_out/
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[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Welcome... This would have been the perfect post for the weekly owning your shit.

The one thing that would be nice is your MAP. Without a plan, this is kyat victim puke, and of no value to you, or anyone. Write it down, makes it concrete

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was it?

This could be a great victim puke but we need more detail:

I have done every BB trick in the book

Come on now, to really get it off your chest you have to channel your pain. Let's hear the details. What exactly did you fuck up? Just don't perseverate on the opportunities you missed and you should recover just fine. It gets better.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congrats on finding the courage to come out and face your fears. If you want to do the Breaking Free exercises here, this is one of the purposes of this forum.

See the MRP sidebar for additional readings after you finish NMMNG. You have a long way to climb, but the journey is worth it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Remember... You are improving yourself! Everything else follows.

[–]jerry_rigger1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, own that shit. Like all of us you fucked up by allowing it to happen. Now fix it.

[–]jcrptaRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Welcome.

You are going to have a lot of questions, a lot of things you don't understand and - likely as not - a lot of anger over the coming months.

All of these things are perfectly natural; we've all been there. This is a marathon, not a sprint, and you won't solve all of these issues overnight - it can take well over a year to get over the worst of it. But you'll get there.

[–]ford_contourRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Way to own your shit! You're in good company here.

Now go lift something heavy. ;)



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