Slept with girl from my class, said sex was too rough?

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February 2, 2019

I met a girl in one of my classes and we hit it off great.

Hung out before class, bonded a bit and headed to class.

Next couple days after I arrange a meet and she comes over.

Lots of ASD/I don’t wanna go too fast at first. We get to talking more and more and we ended up taking about our pasts, our experiences, whatever, and now she’s all on me.

I’m young and have parents in the house so I leave with her to take her home and at this point she’s very receptive and touchy towards me.

As we’re driving home it’s heavily inferred we’re having sex before I drop her off because she kept telling me all her kinks and interests throughout the conversations and how she “wanted it badly”

So we stop in a department store lot, we get in the back, she told me she wanted her ass slapped and that she was being tied up and everything so I appease. We get done and the ride home is amazing, she’s all happy, singing random songs and shit then I drop her off and kiss her goodbye.

Talk to her later that night and she says she cried because she looked in the mirror and saw the bruises on her ass and that she was hurt physically and that she was confused because “she is very into me but at the same time scared”

How do I even approach this?

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Title Slept with girl from my class, said sex was too rough?
Author muffinboydog
Upvotes 104
Comments 93
Date 02 February 2019 03:33 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]modHalitenina[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy

Only comment if you are prepared to offer actionable advice.

Fearmongering is unhelpful at best.

[–]goblinboglin299 points300 points  (20 children) | Copy

Dude what the fuck.

Sort it out and next her.

You don't want a crazy that tells you one thing then the other.

She is unstable.

Not worth it.

[–]falconiawillfall95 points96 points  (6 children) | Copy

This is the only right answer. How tf is pussy ever worth the constant threat of a rape charge?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear22259 points60 points  (5 children) | Copy

Deploy beta smokescreen and say you’ve found Jesus and it’s too dirty and sinful to have sex anymore. Dry up her pussy like the Sahara and she nexts you.

Just another option.

[–]Kpwn8821 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

So, ungame her?

[–]Alirei6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I legit wish I could function on the same level you do.

[–]vivid_mind4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Is there any book with solid strategy about this?

[–]maartennn281 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just do yhe opposite of what is preached here.

  • Be clingy

  • sent texts before going to bed and when you wake up ('goodnight sleep my princess' writing very long texts describing how you feel)

  • try to do everything for her

  •   *apologize for everything little thing you do* 

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I ended up doing this.

I apologized a bunch, then eventually settled on friends to satisfy the hamster.


[–]TheRedPillRipper39 points40 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get that after text. Even if you have to “date”/fuck her for the next week or two then super soft next.

Don’t break this plate; place it down. Gently.

[–]ilovevidya61 points62 points  (8 children) | Copy

This, hijacking top comment to say recently had a girl like this. Fucked her in the ass and she was into it, pretty much begged for. Dropped her home happy and dandy. Then she messaged me saying her ass was bleeding and how I'm a monster how could I do that to her. I was an idiot and didn't next, I'm currently being investigated for rape. No joke. Next her asap dude.

[–]Andgelyo16 points17 points  (7 children) | Copy

Save all texts, nudes, and videos (serious)

[–]ilovevidya6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy

Don't worry I covered myself, police already have my phone seized as evidence. I'm the one that handed it over to prove it wasn't true. It's cool nothing will happen to me because I'm not guilty of anything.

[–]good-look36 points37 points  (0 children) | Copy

rofl cops arent ur friends, hope u lawyered up

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's cool nothing will happen to me because I'm not guilty of anything.

Yes, there are no innocent men in prison after all.

[–]Robin2Fast2Furious9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

Why would you hand over your entire phone? I hope you consulted a real lawyer.

[–]ilovevidya-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Opposed to snapping it in half? Of course I consulted a lawyer. You guys need to stop worrying so much, not every false rape accusation ends in imprisonment, in fact I think it's much less than 1% if you look up the statistics. They would at least have to have a single piece of evidence to lock me up. There isn't any because I didn't commit the crime. Stop worrying about it, you're all more worried than I am and I'm the one being investigated. I do appreciate the concern but the fact is it's not common for people to be imprisoned for crimes they didn't commit. And when they are it's usually because there was evidence that made it seem likely that they did it, or they falsely confessed to the crime.

[–]GGrub80 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

We're nor worried about you, we don't want you to give bad advice.

Under any circumstance should you be cooperating with cops if you're falsely accused of anything. Their job is to find enough evidence for a guilty verdict.

Don't talk to them, don't give them anything and if you're forced to answer a question always say you need your lawyer first.

[–]ilovevidya2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not bad advice. 100% you should co-operate with the cops assuming you are innocent and have evidence to prove it. The fear mongering here is real. Cops don't exist to put the beat down on random innocent people, despite what Reddit tells you. These are for the most part compassionate people who want to improve their society. Do you get the odd power hungry bitch? Hell yeah, but for the most part cops are alright and get a bad rap.

[–]party_dragon11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is retarded. It's like evacuating the area after the bomb goes off.

He needs to beta down, be the most obedient boyfriend ever, fuck her again but as slowly as a turtle, and play the too nice guy game until she dumps him.

His ego might be hurt doing this, but at least he won't get ass raped in prison.

[–]beachbbqlover[🍰] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dont just hard next, get written/proven confirmation of consent before it.

[–]OMSnow4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not just crazy but dangerous if she claims something to authorities.

[–]somebullshitrp80 points81 points  (3 children) | Copy

You two are in high school. A few things come to mind:

  1. She said she was into the rough stuff, then found out she's not as into it as she thought, once she saw what was really involved. (This doesn't seem likely given how she was acting immediately afterwards)

  2. She's actually into it, but not to the extent that you gave it.

  3. She is worried that the marks you left will be seen by someone and out her as a slut.

Either way, giver get some comfort and tell her you'll be more gentle next time, and for fucks sake don't leave physical evidence like bruising unless you have her asking for it in writing (e.g. over text).

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

Exactly. When it comes to anything BDSM...Get it in writing.


There’s a reason fetlife exists, it keeps things safe from the courts and keeps things clear in terms of expectations between consenting partners (most of the time)

[–]Bedtimeshine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

There was a contract in 50 shades of whatever the fuck for a reason

[–]imtheoneimmortal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That guy must be reading on this sub

[–]yepwittyusername98 points99 points  (0 children) | Copy

Calm her down with minimal contact and then make sure you never bang her again if she's that unstable.

Save any correspondence that shows she was into it, especially if you texted her after the fact and she responded happily.

[–]Comeup42070 points71 points  (31 children) | Copy

Don’t ignore her, you don’t want her blowing the rape whistle. Give her comfort until she calms down and you can fuck her again

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points  (17 children) | Copy

We FaceTimed (I’m in high school give me a break.) for a couple hours last night and even fell asleep on the phone.

She stated multiple times she doesn’t blame me because she said she wanted that but it scared her because she said she went along with it and that scared her due to how rough it was.

Last night on the phone she also mentioned how she’s confused because she wants to be with me badly, like she misses me, vibes with me, whatever, but she’s hurt due to how she got bruises and shit.

[–]Comeup42039 points40 points  (7 children) | Copy

You should be fine. Though I will add, I had a girl who was a “good girl” church going type and while we were having sex she wanted me to get rough and dirty with her. Well I did and she was loving it, but afterwards she started crying lol some of it is ASD. They know they like it and want it, and this subsequently makes them feel bad

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy

So was being apologetic the right course of action?

I NEVER apologize but I told her very specifically that I had no interest in sex that we both didn’t enjoy which is very true. I told her I was apologetic for not establishing what we REALLY wanted and she accepted the apology and went on with it.

I’m confused though because where in the hell do I go from here.

I don’t think she’s lying about being attached because we’ve done the “fall asleep on FaceTime” thing for days and she seems very receptive.

[–]Comeup42018 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah that’s an okay way to respond, just don’t overdo that apologizing. Honestly if it was me and I got the girl calmed down and cool with everything, I would next her. BUT you’re in high school, sometimes it can be hard to be abundant in high school.

So I say if she’s hot and she starts acting “normal” again.. you could continue fucking and get experience. Just don’t be following her to college or wifing her up. You catch my drift?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Alright, thanks, got it.

[–]YoungLilMadaraUchiha5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her to let you know if you’re being to rough while it’s happening. Communication is key

[–]bilabrin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This seems easy. Just keep it going and don't be as rough next time.

[–]Velebit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You sorted it out. Add to it that bruising is normal. Maybe watch an invicta fighting video where women get really smashed. Most women were never really aggressed on so when they see some damage they panic.

But you reacted well. If you listened to many of the retards advising you here it would be worse.

[–]yuktone12-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah apologizong makes you weak! Youre never wrong , EVER! (disclaimer not saying youre wrong here)

[–]trpboy12310 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Record everything. Be safe.

[–]lukeyj_gtfc4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't put anything in text messages.

You could say you're surprised but reassure her she's always in full control. Can stop anytime. Maybe explain the traffic light system, but this is worrying. You probably want to reassure her and get over this initial hurdle but you shouldn't ignore the need to slowly move your way to the door.

Maybe sleep with her again and have a nice safe non rough approach unless she asks for it but air on the side of Disney tame. Leave no marks, get nice after messages and get out. Too risky.

[–]livefreeofdie1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Is it recorded?

If not. How do you prove that she wanted and asked for it? Reddit is not the source.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

I have the 12 hour long FaceTime call log and the texts right after we had sex or her and I joking about it.

[–]livefreeofdie6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Logs don't prove you innocent. Texts are okay.

[–]ac7140 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

12 hours is the legal standard. If it had been under 10 hours then I'd be worried but OP seems to know how to document things well. He's good.

[–]livefreeofdie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's good.

[–]wholewheatdirtydog0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If possible you should screen record you're conversation just in case

[–]lifeonlockdown0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Right now, she needs COMFORT in order to keep her from going all rape charge just to save face. She’s conflicted because she was /is turned on by what happened (she acknowledged that she asked for rough sex), but once she saw the bruises she felt like a slut, and it gave her cognitive dissonance.

You need to play along that you were role playing based on her direction, and you need to tell/show her (not directly, mind you) that you don’t see her as the cheap bruised sloot she feels like she is, but as a good wholesome girl who enjoys playing the bad girl once in a while, AND that playing the bad girl in no way makes her an actual slutty bad girl.

In short, you need to manage her hamster.

While you’re doing this, you need to decide if she’s actually batshit crazy or just feeling temporarily slutty, and either continue to manage her emotions or back away slowly so as not to set off the ticking time bomb that she is.

[–]InsidiousCurve6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy

Just stop hitting her when fucking...etc. But, understand that this situation will be an issue in the future and brought up again.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy

I got that I’m just confused.

from now on do I deny girls asking to be slapped and shit?

She literally begged for me to slap her ass, she specifically said no face and I said okay.

I slap her ass, she has bruises, and she tells me she cried when she saw it.

[–]BuzzLightGear321 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

Pull the slap back? When you are first time with a girl, and she wants it rough, you start soft and scale up. Judge based on her reactions where to stop.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

So should I abstain entirely even when they tell me they’re into rough sex?

She emphasized she wanted it rough and she was receptive during, moaning/smiling when I slapped her ass but then afterwards she said she hates seeing the bruises so much it made her cry.

How do I gauge this in further situations?

[–]lukeyj_gtfc1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Always start small and build up. You're building trust, confidence and awareness. It's safer to be too tame at first than too rough. Let her responses during and importantly after lead you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy


I usually just abide by what’s spoken but we’ve all learned it’s actions not words.

I’ll start doing this.

[–]rugged791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah don't forget, you might be in high school but you're still a DUDE. Women tend to talk a lot of shit about sex then you get them in the bedroom they usually start shrinking. Also in cases where they're trying to up the intensity of the sex they might say to smack them harder, but forget just how hard a guy can smack an ass.

She tells you she wants it ROUGH... start out light.

[–]bilabrin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Use less force on the slap. Whats rough to a guy and whats rough to a girl are different.

[–]someonesopinion69690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

she doesn't want to be bruised, she wants to get slapped.

slap less hard

[–]GeuseyBetel-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is good advice, but I'd recommend not fucking her again if possible. I'd do whatever to calm her down, then break it off as gently as possible and hard-the-fuck-next her ass

She's clearly crazy. Don't fuck with crazy.

[–]Kpwn880 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She's clearly crazy.

Show me a girl that isn't and I'll show you a girl that used to be a dude.

[–]GeuseyBetel1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's levels of crazy.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

So what happened was, she probably was into the time. Now she sees bruises on her body, she isn't cool with it and the Hamster is spinning like a top.

What to do?

You give her comfort.

You tell her that you are into her, too, and you were trying to give her what you thought she wanted. Tell her you want to move forward, but you understand she's a bit scared and you will dial everything back.

Bear in mind that, at your ages, girls often don't have the first clue what they are into. They say one thing, they mean another. It's not typically until they get to 22 to 25 that they really know, and are like, "Ok, let's get this party started..."

So you give comfort, you dial the kink down and you proceed as usual. And you muthafuckin' save every text etc., she ever sends you about how much she enjoyed banging you etc.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the right advice. She is having buyers remorse and doesn't want to think she is a slut. So comfort her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


I did this exact thing with a text.

I told her I had a great time, loved certain aspects about her, and that if we do go further on we will discuss sexual kinks more intently then just a simple ‘yes’. I ended the longish text off with an inside joke.

She hasn’t responded but it’s out there.

[–]CalvinRichland17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do not continue a relationship. Do get text evidence it was consentual.

[–]red_matrix9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

She enjoyed the sex and getting her ass slapped. All girls love this. Next time just dial back the force of your ass slap, it’s possible to fuck and slap the ass without leaving a bruise. She wants her ass slapped, just not BDSM level slapping, she’s a very inexperienced high school girl who only thinks she likes the rough stuff without actually knowing what it is...regular sex still has hair pulling and ass slapping that drive women wild and I think this is what she really wanted. Next time - fuck her hard, pull her hair, but don’t leave any bruises. She’s just acting all emotional right now, play it cool, be her rock, and fuck her good next time. Welcome to the world of ever-changing female emotion. Once you fuck a girl any beta behavior will turn her off and possibly repulse her, so don’t be an apologetic beta bitch, talk about the sex, what she likes and didn’t like and try again next time - that’s how you end up in a place with mind blowing sex. This is how being a couple works - but you both have to be honest and talk about what you like and don’t like, or better said - your turn on’s and turn off’s.

[–]lord-denning4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the right answer. You want to fulfil her fantasy of rough sex like 50 shades, so she can feel naughty. You do this by making it feel like she is going to have taboo style sex and then deliver more style rather than substance.

You should never actually hurt anyone until you establish more trust, set up safe words, get all kinds of text messages to cover yourself, etc.

[–]CainPrice3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't leave marks on women, no matter how rough you are. If someone else sees them and thinks she's a slut, she'll throw you under the bus and cry rape.

Learn how to be safely rough.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There’s this thing in the BDSM community called aftercare. She wanted and enjoyed the kinkiness. But masochist desires like spanking can be emotionally damaging afterwards. Generally after having kinky sex, it’s important to cuddle or sleep together. You should physically comfort her after and stick around the next time you do something like this. Make it obvious to her that you're there for her and like her.

Don’t listen to the idiots saying she’s unstable. She’s not. She just needs the emotional satisfaction that can be missing from kinky sex.

[–]CharlesChadworth2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fml... Why dickheads don't put their phone on voice record is besides me... It can record for the entire night and will save your ass.

If a court dismisses it you go straight to the tv station and shame the cunt for false allegations.

During recording slip in her name and date during the convo throughout the night subtlety.

This will be the difference from going back to your comfy bed at home or sharing a bed in prison for a few years while hector wrecks your rectum. You choose.

I would try and and be as fucking nice as possible almost beta. She may not go any further with this hopefully. If you can set up a gentle fuck session and record her delight as you pound her.

NEVER speak to cops only your lawyer.

COPS duty is to charge you LAWYERS duty is to save you for a fee

[–]rugged793 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Couple things...

She could be an inexperienced S. If she's young she might know what she likes but hasn't had any good Ms. In which case, it's your job to build her trust when giving her what she wants and know how hard to actually smack her ass, safe word, etc. Realize that women, by default, are scared when theyre alone with a guy they don't know too well, let alone tied up and vulnerable. If she actually is an S, I would encourage you to start researching that field as this is as good a time as any to learn about it, and can pay off in new and exciting ways.

She could be setting you up for the okie doke so have enough evidence to clear rape charges.

Or she might be crazy. This one is easier to tell when you've spent a bit of time with her. Depending on what flavor of crazy some guys, like myself, like a bit of crazy. But if it's sacrifice-kittens-in-basement-to-Rod Stewart-crazy, you might want to cash out playa.

Above all, take your time. Realize that while a few guys get tons of play in High School, the majority graduate still holding the V card or had a few girls begrudgingly give it up to them one time. So having a chick who's willing and a bit kinky means you're ahead of the game. You're getting sex and some experience with women that's going to help you in many ways (less fear of rejection, not putting pussy on a pedestal, knowing what to do when you meet another girl whose a S, etc.) Think of it as job experience.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy


I always text girls right after sex to cover myself due to all the fake rape accusations across the U.S.

I texted her “to think I was abstaining until marriage...” and she goes “hahahahaha you’re going to hell!”

It’s only after, on FaceTime, when she was hinting through facial expressions and responses that something was wrong and she refused to tell me what it is.

I dug a bit and that’s when she tells me she felt disgusting due to the marks left on her and that she cried about it.

What do you suggest?

[–]livefreeofdie4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Comfort her.

  2. Fuck her once again (gently).

  3. Leave.

Fuck her once only. Not twice. And don't forget to leave.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Also where would I research?


[–]rugged791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just google S&M or BDSM for beginners or some shit. The reference tools change all the time haha.

[–]cdogg751 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

her iron is probably low from her period so she is bruising easier as of late. She's being dramatic.

[–]Zanford1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't say anything in a recordable medium. In fact this might be 'get the fuck off Reddit and have a chat with a lawyer' turf.

First of all, you're a moron for indulging her that way the first time you had sex with her, no matter how bad she begs to be spanked you shouldn't be leaving bruises.

She's probably worried that another guy or a family member will see the bruises. If she FRAs you, the fact that she literally asked for them is not going to do you much good in the court of public opinion, possibly not in a literal court either.

If you have any texts from her saying good things abotu the encounter, record those (screenshots, whatever, uploaded to cloud. Phones can break or get confiscated.).

Call her and have a quick, nonchalant 'hey let's meet up and talk' conversation (during that call, and the in person meet don't say anything about the spanking etc even if she bring sit up). In person, comfort her without saying anything specific about the other time. Consider recording it depending on the laws in your jurisdiction.

Your goal is to keep her calm for as long as possible (esp til after any bruises heal, btw her claim of bruises may be fake). Then ghost. She's crazy and dangerous.

[–]KettleLogic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You physically left marks of her whorish behavior. She into the concept of rough stuff but probably hasn't done it much. She expressed she didn't want to do anything because she is a Good GirlTM, you became the exception to the rule as they always make. I bet she cried because she scared what others think.

Stop being autistic. When a girl says she like x or y realise they might be saying it to come across as more experienced more sexually exciting than they are. Never go full on BDSM first time.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

So try it less rough and feel her out.

Sounds like you had a great time. Get her a collar and have her call you master or daddy.

[–]serve_my_goddess3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore and next.

Dont stick your dick in crazy.

[–]silent_dominant2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Time to introduce her into the wonderful world of BDSM. Once she gets over her shame you're in for a LOT of fun (if that's your thing of course)

[–]2319Skew0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Never go with what a woman says but instead does and behaves. That said, she sounds immature or bipolar. Avoid.

[–]0io-0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You certainly don't want to dump some girl right after she thinks you're scary and too rough! Then she'll be furious because you "hurt her and then dumped her." Gotta have sex at least two more times.

Everybody else seems more worried about this than I am, it sounds like pretty typical girl behavior. Tell her don't be scared, you're really into her too. Tell her next time you can do it really soft and slow if that's what she wants, or you can switch back and forth. (I would spank her less hard in the future when she wants to be spanked if she bruises easily.) You might remind her that you're not really into spanking and that you only spanked her because she specifically asked for it. I don't agree with the people saying next her now. The last thing you want is a jilted lover who thinks you were too rough with her. Have sex a few more times and be a lot softer and gentler next time, she'll either like it better, and be happy, or she'll decide you're not rough enough for her and go find someone more abusive to replace you with.

[–]bakamoney0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No fucking experience with it myself but its apparently common within those circles to feel like trash.

(They did get treated like trash ofc but the hormones wear off the next day.)

So read up on that and see if it applies.

But yeah might get rape cased so be careful.

[–]Lambdal70 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That’s flirting.

She wants to paint you as the bad badd caveman who treated her badly. That’s a very hot fantasy for her.

Just say, she deserved being treated so roughly, that’s what happens when a little girls get in the area of a real man and next time she’ll get bruises again, maybe even worse. She won’t be able to contain herself when you tell her that.

[–]someonesopinion69690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She doesn't want her body looking like she was slapped up by a random dude, she could be fucking someone else.

Don't forget if you're truly red pill, you'd have been lifting and clearly you would have strength, she could be cautious about that so like step back, apologize and accept you may have fucked her 'too' rough.

I can see by your replies, you can still properly communicate with her which is great, obviously you went to poundtown a bit much, just explain that and you should be ite lol

[–]Unboundaries0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There's something wrong with her. You're dumb for leaving marks on someone like that whom you haven't even vetted for crazy. Collect all your evidence and put it in a safe place just in case, in some sort of cloud storage. I'm not saying she is that crazy but a girl that asks for something then half panics over it might not be very stable. Be sure to comfort her until she heals and is okay. But you need to not mess with people like this.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sue her pre-emptively for libel, slander, defamation, and intentional infliction of emotional distress.

[–]xNinja360 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Red flag bro...ghost that bitch before you become another victim.

[–]adonis_syche0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

before I even give any suggestion, I would like to know what age are we talking about here?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I’m 18, she’s 19.

I’m in HS she’s a graduated paramedic

[–]adonis_syche2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Alrighty, then I'd go with what everybody else is saying, and probably your gut is saying so as well. I asked cuz I had a ditto experience but we were 14 at that time, and if it would have been that age range, it's kinda forgivable due to less experience. But still, I'd say give her the benefit of the doubt. Lot of dudes here are saying unstable, but all of them would recognize that miserable feeling right after orgasming. Sex is a complicated phenomenon. Your body leading upto it will behave completely opposite to how you feel afterwards, irrespective of your gender. She might have thought with all the hormones your presence was acting up on her that she'd enjoy all that, but afterwards felt a mixture of guilt and pain. You'd have these experiences too, where you'd be cocksure and excited about some new kamasutra position, but afterwards writhe in pain and agony due to the posture. But be what may, I can count on you to hedge your bets for rape-charges since I noticed you cover your base with after-sex texting. But as someone who meddles with law, I'd advice you to do a facetime or skype rather since texts are often not admissible nowadays, or even if they are, they are easily disproved. Anyhoo, cheers!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks, appreciate the write up.

[–]SwoleyMoleyFrijoley0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Keep every ounce of evidence you can that it was consensual. Next her slowly. This is not a good situation for you bro. Play it smart.

[–]throwawaybpdnpd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This girl is unstable and DANGEROUS to your well being, I'd drop the crazy chick

[–]Tiway220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Get solid proof this was consensual, then fucking next her bro. She’s unstable and crazy.

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