TLDR: I have a suspicion that this older woman lied to me and used sympathy to get me into bed. I'd like to know if this is true and if I dodged a bullet.

Background: I'm a 25 y/o postgrad student in my first LTR since red pill and this 29 y/o girl in my postgrad hall gets the hots for me. Her and I had banter, but I actually really liked my LTR so kept my distance.

I didn't invite my LTR to the Christmas Party because I was organising it and thought I'd never have any free time, the 29 y/o comes up to me and says "Where's your girlfriend? Oh good now I have you all to myself hehe". She had been flirting with me all year and always getting a little close to me when doing so. That night I was drunk and she kept giving me the eye, but even though hormones were raging I didn't let anything happen. My LTR hated her because of her brazen pursuit of me all year and when we broke up she made me promise that nothing would happen with this girl. Seems a bit silly of me, but I cared for my ex-LTR and, after all, there are abundant options.

The 30 y/o goes on holiday for New Years' to Germany ALONE and doesn't book any accommodation in advance (red flag).

I proceed to go on a bit of a hot streak after my breakup and have little interest in this 29y/o (now 30). Covid lockdown comes in and I'm cut off from my plates. About 10 of us are isolated in this hall. The 30y/o develops a spinal cord compression (really nasty) and I help her go to hospital. I spend quite a lot of time with her as she's in really bad pain and eventually we kiss. I start talking to my ex again because I feel so guilty for doing that (ex was a really sweet girl, I was her first LTR and felt undermined by this older girl's pursuit of me). The next night after everyone is going she starts confiding in me. She confides in me about how she was imprisoned, beaten and raped for a month straight back in her home country of South Korea and how I was her first kiss since, this happened when she was off work for a previous spinal cord compression and it brought back the memories. Kind of a lot of emotions going round and I fucked her a little but had to stop because of her back pain. She told me how I had shown her that she could feel things again and she'd been afraid of men etc. She made me promise not to tell anyone.

I broke it off with her about 1 week later because I had to leave the hall. She wanted to do long-distance and see eachother in the autumn but I said no. She insisted she didn't, but obviously as a 30y/o she wanted commitment and I thought I'd have to be retarded to give my commitment to a woman who gave her 20s to other men.

Recently I talked to a Korean friend of mine. I told her about the story and she said 'What do you think Korea is a third world country? People don't go missing for a whole month. She made up that story to play you. She couldn't get you all year and so had to play on your sympathy to weasel her way into your bed. The story is fake, she's made it up to get you. Also, she played into the damsel in distress/male saviour theme to give you some sort of power fantasy and to build an emotional connection. She's incredibly manipulative'.

She adds 'Anyone who brazenly pursued you like this bitch did even though you had a girlfriend and who went to Germany alone and didn't book accommodation is someone who is a horny bitch. That's really inconsistent with someone who has been through the trauma of imprisonment and rape.'

This Korean friend telling me the older woman is a manipulative bitch is someone I knew from a few years ago, lives far away and don't talk so much. Don't think she wants to bang me.

What do you guys think? I always knew that women were manipulative but I always felt like I saw through their bullshit after red pill. Am I an idiot? Also, if she's capable of manipulating and lying to me to this extent, I can't feel like I dodged a bullet because she's exactly the kind of woman who would get 'accidentally' pregnant.

I need some rational male voices.