Actually meet these women (Approach, online dating, meet through friend's events/parties, clubs (dancing, workouts, etc), you're not going to meet members of the opposite sex at home complaining on reddit...
Eliminate all neediness ( chasing a woman's validation = death sentence), develop an abundance mindset (He who doesn't want usually gets). BE ON YOUR PURPOSE. Scarcity = high value (human psychology).
BE SCARCE (ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE JUST GETTING TO KNOW THEM ! 1-3 DATES STAGE) .
More texts you send = less value you have in their eyes. TEXTING IS FOR LOGISTICS ONLY (In the dating stage).
You sell yourself in person. The more you text , the better chance you have of talking them out of liking you.
Overpursue a woman = get rejected. DO NOT CHASE. Text them ( once a week) to setup the date for the 1st 3 dates. By the 3rd date, THEY SHOULD BE THE ONES REACHING OUT TO YOU. If not, HARD NEXT. You don't want to be in a relationship with somebody that has low interest in you right?
When they reach out to you ("hiii I was just thinking about you, I had a great time on saturday"), you setup a date and thats it. NO TEXTING IN BETWEEN. However, they will usually reach out to you in between, and you can acknowledge them, thats okay. You don't want to coldfish a woman. However, do not blow up her phone or have a 4 hour long phonecall. You're literally doing yourself a disservice. ATTRACTION IS FORMED IN PERSON.
During the dates you should be escalating physically from -> touching their hands/shoulders/ hugs -> kisses -> sex.
The Objective of a date is to have a fun filled romantic time and to create an opportunity for sex to happen.
A WOMAN DEVELOPS HER FEELINGS FOR YOU WHEN YOU GIVE THEM SPACE TO. They are wondering WHY ISN'T THIS GUY CHASING ME LIKE THE OTHER 99% OF GUYS DO. YOU ARE ON THEIR MIND. When you are texting them 24/7 and blowing up their phone, WHY THE HELL WOULD THEY EVEN THINK ABOUT YOU. She's going to be wondering about the one guy she fucked passionately and why he hasn't reached out to her yet. BE THAT GUY
Let the woman be the one to want the relationship. If you've been doing everything right, she should be the one to say "What are We", "Are we dating", "Are you seeing other girls", by the 7th week of you doing this. This is your opportunity to ask her what she means, and to get exclusivity (if thats what you want).
Usually, when a guy gets all clingy and mopey/emotional after meeting the girl for the first time and he starts to over pursue, the woman gets all uncomfortable because the man is being a WOMAN. All that relationship stuff is feminine energy.
As a MALE WITH MASCULINE ENERGY, literally all you have to do is setup the date, have a fun time, have sex with her, and withdraw yourself emotionally after. THIS IS WHY WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO "ASSHOLES" , "EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN", "PLAYERS" all that shit. These men are being MALES IN THEIR MASCULINE. They aren't being little simp boys begging for validation or for a relationship. Leave the relationship to the women. Nice guys = FEMININE ENERGY
AND THATS IT. THATS HOW YOU GET A GIRLFRIEND IN THE MODERN AGE.
Summary:
- NON-NEEDINESS IS ESSENTIAL. The relationship is the womans idea (that is FEMININE ENERGY).
- The man's job is to setup the date, have a fun time and create an opportunity for sex to happen. THAT is MASCULINE ENERGY.
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