I am turning 23 in a few weeks and not looking forward to it. I have never been in an relationship or even kissed a guy besides maybe a peck in back in the day. I don't know how to answer questions like " How are you still single?", "Why did your last relationship end?" Etc. The truth is that I suffered with depression and isolated myself from everyone to the point of having only one friend
I was overweight most of my life and once I started college classes I gained 40 pounds and became obese. During quarantine I have been able to lose weight for the very first time . I have lost the 40 pounds I gained and back to being overweight. Now I am trying to lose 20-40 pounds but its a bit harder now that I am smaller than before.
I still suffer a bit with depression but the exercise I am doing has helped. My lack of experience is embarrassing and I don't mention it to anyone, if it comes up I will lie about it. I also discovered that i have an avoidant attachment/personality and tend to avoid friendships/relationships because my family wasn't emotionally supportive when I was growing up. I live with them and my relationship is fine now. Should I be upfront about my lack of experience? If so how do I explain it so they dont think something is wrong with me?
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