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[–][deleted] 52 points53 points54 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
lol it's to the point I don't care about what happens to these guys since they were dumb enough to put their trust into anyone. Everybody lies. House is right.
[–]CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK[S] 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Its just nuts to me. You have to expect everyone to lie. I used to be ultra honest, like radical honesty. And II expected it of others. But all my friends screwed me out of rent money or tried to hook up with my girlfriend or blackmailed mail at some point or another. I got betrayed so many times I realised my standards were unrealistic. So I never trust fully. Which is fine.
But then you see on relationships people demanding 100% total trust. Countless posters say that the husband should be divorced if he paternity tests his child for example. We are both demanded to have total 100% ironclad trust and 99% is grounds for divorce even with kids, but at the same time catching our partner many little telling lies also must be forgiven and expected.
[–]ZealousMaths5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you’re raised to trust whores you push such beliefs on others too
[–]mongolian_usa14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Imagine if he quit everything he is working towards right now, bought a used school bus, and told her they're going to live off-grid in Alaska citing the same excuses she did when she found out after the fact.
[–]joyhammerpants7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I thought it would be a fun surprise"
[–]isthisthelasttime349 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here. It's just the same story over and over again.
[–]True_Wave5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good news is that at least for the first two dozen or so replies are supporting the guy. Bad news is that none of that will help him if his wife is pregnant.
[–]n0t__t0day1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every single word we hear is by definition a lie, unless there an evidence.
[–]mrtinlv38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Surprise her by getting a vasectomy.
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I love this. Thank you for the chuckle
[–][deleted] 32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This shit should be illegal.
Divorce on the spot. If she so happens to get pregnant then not my problem. I’m escaping to a different country. She, nor that child is getting a penny from me. Fucking evil I tell you. EVIL
[–]whatwhatislife3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How these cases should happen instead:
Both parties must sign a document stating they are both ready to conceive a child. If no document is signed, it's entirely the mother's responsibility if she goes through with the pregnancy or gets an abortion.
Upon birth, child must be DNA tested.
Solves all problems and is clear and logical.
As a result, hookup culture would be destroyed. Single mothers would be rare.
Me for president 2024. I'll let Trump have 2020.
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You got my vote
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[–]Dark_Shroud5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They have to find you first, go to Alaska and work for cash. Or simply leave the country while you can. Rack up a bunch of debt buying a nice SUV, tools, & a camper and hope on a boat.
[–]FairlyWhelmed35 points36 points37 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"I'm so sorry that you're reacting this way" 🙄
Not, "I'm so sorry for making the biggest possible choice without discussing it with you as agreed".
[–]Sir_manalot26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is a fake apology.
He is fucked
[–]PipBoyTInkerer22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It's the only real apology you'll get from a woman. Not "I'm sorry I fucked up" but "I'm sorry my perfectly rational choice is making you irrationally upset"
[–]LobsterMassMurderer11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the worst form of gaslighting(imo), because if you are caught up in your own anger/disappointment you might not even realize what's going on. Then you end up apologizing for the way you feel and...BOOM! now you are at fault and she wins.
Took me years to realize what was going on.
[–]VampireGhoul16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've had girlfriends pull this shit on me. Sleepless nights spent worrying about whether some chick is pregnant because she claims she messed up her birth control and missed a period.
Absolute torture. Most of it turns out to be a cruel shit test. Women can be diabolical.
[–]tundraaaa1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Seconded. I was ruined for months because ex hit me up 3 months after I told her to piss off.
Also, the reason why I told her to piss off: Me: “Hey, my friend is going through some tough shit, and I’m spending my energy on being there for him. He’s suicidal and in pshyciatric hospital right now. Will have to put him as my number 1 priority for the time being.” Her: “maybe he should just do it” Me: “fuck you and don’t ever contact me again” blocked
3 months later Her: “Hey I’m pregnant with your child and I’ve decided that I want to keep it, with or without you.”
She was raised by a single mom and a simp stepdad, so go figure.
I do believe that she wasn’t pregnant - I snooped her fb 3 months after she pulled the lie on me. Looked as anorexic on her new travel pics as before. (She went to Australia, good riddance.) Around the time her “due date” would have been, I checked back in to see what was going on. Saw that she moved back to my country, however 200 km (120 miles) away from me AND WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP. Closure obtained.
[–]TeddyMGTOW14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Rollo T's Iron Rules- The man needs to Control the Birth Control. Unfortunately there is only two methods a man can Control. Rubber or knife?
[–]everydaygreyman3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pulling out unexpectedly and painting her face always worked for me. Hilarity usually follows. Unless she likes it, which is somehow strangely disappointing to me.
[–]TeddyMGTOW3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Assuming no human error, pull out method is 96% effective.
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[–]ncarolina668 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My guess is she was banging some Chad behind his back and got so excited she forgot to take the pills for a few days.....she was worried when the baby comes out a different color he husband might just catch on. (although it depends how good a liar she is and how cucked he is)...
Why doesn't he just get that morning-after pill? (isn't it good for like 5 days after having unprotected sex???). Since she lied to him, just grind that shit up and in her coffee it goes....yeah, I know that's fucked up so is what she did.
PS - For those of you saying it's killing a baby, I get it, but he said they had agreed to abort any kid they have if her pills didn't work, so it wouldn't be any different.......
[–]NarutoDnDSoundNinja-2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Can't kill what doesn't have a heartbeat.
[–]ncarolina663 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Since when has a heartbeat been the measure of whether or not an organism is alive? I don't believe science has unequivocally determined when life starts, although I would personally assume it's at conception....although that's just my own opinion I know there are many other beliefs....heartbeat (as you said), at birth, brain functions, etc.
[–]NarutoDnDSoundNinja2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
For me, it's when there's the possibility of a consciousness and when that sticky splooge develops a heart for the babies body to beat.
I make no claim as to be the Officer Of The Highest Order Of Science. I do not speak with the full authority of the entire Science Community.
This is merely my opinion. I am open to suggestions, however.
[–]ncarolina664 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I hear ya....I'm not going to get into an abortion rights rant here as I'll let the feminists do that shit....I just think if a woman is fucked up enough to lie about taking birth control then a guy can use those pills (if he's within 5 days) to solve his potential 18 year problem.
[–]Sexy_McHandsome10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women's behavior always started to make more sense when you approach it from the angle that they just don't care about you. Everything just clicks. She really doesn't give a single fuck about what he wants and knows she can force her way. To us men this is inconceivable but it always checks out.
[–]Gokenx100[🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Back when I was blue pilled. I was always taken back by how hypocritical and non-logical girls were even when I discovered the red pill at 19 I noticed that. It was all plastic. But to this day I still couldn't put what I was thinking into words. So thank you for this comment. It made me see the truth now.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They don't care about you or how you feel. It's ALWAYS about them and what you can do for them.
[–]spicey_illegal4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just want to say that I hate how childish she played this. "I wanted it to be a surprise." Means she knew he wouldn't be for it and so she hid it from him hoping it would smooth over and he would just accept it. Still to be determined.
Second, having a child during a pandemic is the most absurd thing one could think of. It's beyond childish and short sided of her just because she couldn't wait to have a child. Now, there's a good chance things will be so much more difficult for them had they stuck to the original plan of being homeowners first. All in all, I feel for this guy. At best, he'll have a child when he isn't fully capable of enjoying them. At worst, it'll be divorce and custody battle.
[–]True_Wave2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have a pretty blue pulled friend whenever I bring up men being be screwed over by women he always defends it by saying "communication is key to a successful relationship"
Sounds like this guy communicated his side clearly and yet still look where it got him.
[–]imapotato992 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just paid off my 18yr old this May...that hurt most years
This is immediate divorce AND civil court legal action
[–]cantcatchabreak693 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look forward to the next post about what to do with “their” bi-racial baby.
[–]goldenmic9089093 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My last entanglement with a female was very similar to this, she suddenly told me to stop wearing protection. Thank goodness I started visiting this sub around that time and saw the red flags.
That was the last time I ever got into an entanglement.
[–]FanofLemmy1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably getting railed by another dude and she wants his kid
[–]newaccttrial1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is shitty and she's dead wrong to play a stupid game. Guess she'll be making a Tinder profile soon, looking for a "good man".
That being said, this falls on him too. He really should be doing his own birth control as well.
[–]huazanim1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She knows once he gets his masters, he'll have a greater pool of women to select from. But with a child it makes him less desirable to other women, and will force him to have delay getting his masters.
[–]-AlphaMage-1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What an evil cunt. Having a child when 1 parent isn't capable of being there has got to be the evilest thing someone can do.
[–]me-dgaf1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what a c&nty thing to do. She knows that you are going to be on the hook for a major chunk of your life, twice on the hook if she decides to bail. The least she can do is get you to consent (yeah, that word that modern women always harp about).
I'm not caller a c&nt but what she does is absolutely c&unty.
[–]chadofnazareth1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This Chad got had the same way. RIP bro.
[–]Naroller1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex and I were in almost the exact same timeframe as you are in when she did the exact same thing that your wife did and announced that she was pregnant even though we had decided to wait a number of years. That really was the tip of the iceberg in terms of her methods of dealing with me, our marriage, and our children. We divorced after 11 years. Suffice to say it was a gong show on every level. And I also was the same trusting sort, which came to bite me in the butt because it was something that she could take it advantage of during the marriage and even during the divorce settlement. You might want to think really hard about this pattern of her behaviour and if you really want to endure it for the rest of your life.
[–]confusedwalrus231 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
divorce incoming!
[–]Lugidori1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In many ways he's fucked
[–]pilllogical0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/is9io4/my_wife_stopped_taking_her_birth_control_without/
[–]Rottinghere0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Happy wife, happy life? Sure.
At least he found out now so he has a chance, and if he's not familiar with MGTOW he should be. Someone get another chair, incoming battered and abused man.
[–]Cade_Connelly_130 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start Googling on herbally induced abortions and go buy some organtic frou-frou tea, preferably loose-leaf. I'll leave Step 3 to your imagination.
[–]PieGreat9770 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She was getting raw dogged by some guys on the side and freaked out she got pregnant. Thus the pregnancy test.
The truth is always far more devious than women will let on.
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