I had a wedding last night, and I saw a large portion of my family, including my grandfather. While I try to keep my PUA/redpill awareness relatively quiet, it comes off as pretty obvious to most people nowadays.

At one point we talk about how my mother has been doing so much better since she got re-married and how her husband is setting her out on a good path. She raised me as a single-ish mother (she married a drug addict who she utterly dominated when I was a kid, and later divorced him), since then she has been a train wreck of terrible jobs, no bill paying, etc.

I say, "Well, I think a lot of women need strong guidance from a man in their life"

And he looks me up and down, basically saying to himself, "Ah, you've finally taken the redpill I see"

And he says - quietly - "Yes, I agree with you. But that's not the sort of thing you can say too loudly, the women will get angry and upset. Sometimes it is the opposite and you should listen to the woman, but in most cases the man should be leading. Your great grandfather, even when he started going senile, was always still absolutely the leader and the head of his household."

He then said that the bullshit about the pay gap wasn't real, etc.

After that he commented on how people following the Bible/Christianity usually lead to that option of husband as leader. I couldn't tell if he is actually religious at this point, or if he sees it as a useful social tool.

I know the older generations to be more religious, but he was a banker, pretty educated and seemed to be more science-based in his education.

It was an interesting conversation to say the least.

tl; dr:

my grandfather gave me redpill advice as soon as he saw that I had taken the pill and wasn't compromised