I’m an outgoing guy but I’ve noticed recently as my confidence and SMV has increased overall, I find myself with a quiet confidence.
As this has happened, all of the girls I encounter have been flirting so much harder and even initiating conversations into logistics with me (like who do u live with/what are u watching on Netflix) basically making it easy for me to fuck them.
Back in my beta days I used to try to be extra outgoing and heavier on the AMOG in group situations but I’ve found the golden balance now.
I seem to outshine the more “forced outgoing amog” type guys that you seem to encounter and I instantly recognize their overcompensation to seek attention and I feel women sense this. Like you’re trying to impress them and come across try hard. Ironically these same guys slip out beta details like complaining, whining about something, saying the wrong things, etc
Anyone gone through the same evolution?
PS when I talk I’m outgoing and confident/charismatic. I’m being quiet by choice and not because I am scared to say the wrong things.