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Redpilled dating response by a “woman”

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February 8, 2019

Question-why is it harder to date people as you get older?

Depends on your sex. If you’re a woman, your most attractive years are somewhere between 17–28. After 30, you become more unattractive with every year that you gain. Sounds offensive? Your problem. It’s the truth.

If you’re a man, your most attractive years START at age 30. You are more confident and successful and know how to get different kinds of women.

Now, as a man, you like younger women. Thus an ageing woman usually finds an ever decreasing pool of available, attractive men. An ageing man, however, can still hook up with a young 24 year old — why would he go for that rusty 37 year old with saggy tits? Thus after 30, the dating pool for men increases. He can have more and more younger women.

Before you horn in that the young girl doesn’t really love the man, but is after his money — nonsense! You don’t understand how attraction works with men and women:

Men like beautiful women. Beauty is what primarily attracts them. They even LOVE hot women. If a woman is hot, she can get away with murder. If she is hot and has a minimum of decency in her character (a rarity!), she is guaranteed to get a top-tier quality guy. Whether or not a woman is attractive is usually determined upon sight.

Women like successful men. By success, I don’t necessarily mean financial success, but rather achievement. In the perception of women, a man’s attraction is CREATED in the course of his interaction with her. Ever wondered why so many hot chicks at school / uni hook up with that ugly bastard? That’s because while he may not be precisely handsome, he is attractive and knows how to project the image of success. Thus, it is a misconception that young women are only after an older man’s wealth — if he is reasonably charming and successful, they are seriously attracted by him (I’m not speaking of 20+ years of age gap!).

Now, here’s how that sums up — ready? You can be successful and even increase your success, communicaion skills, dominance, power and influence as you grow older. But you cannot become younger and stop becoming uglier, saggier and fatter as you grow old. That’s why dating after 30 is a bitter bitch for many women, but the greatest fun for men. And that’s why unmarried, single women after 30 suddenly discover that they are feminists! :)

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Title Redpilled dating response by a “woman”
Author Marcus-Licinius
Upvotes 85
Comments 29
Date 08 February 2019 08:45 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]mrpoopistan42 points43 points  (12 children) | Copy

This isn't actually a question. It's basically you writing an article about a question that was asked on another site.

Seriously, what are we answering here?

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (11 children) | Copy

With the main red pill subreddit quarantined, people are using this one for discussion too.

[–]mrpoopistan32 points33 points  (5 children) | Copy

Fair enough. To the OP I'll just state:

You missed two of the biggest gems in the whole reply, anyhow.

#1: "He is very risk adverse" was her reasoning for letting guy #1 go.

She's fucking 46, BTW. She's waaaaaaay past the point where she should be ruling dudes out on the first date, but by gosh if she didn't anyhow.

Just as men don't stop looking at 20 year olds, women don't stop looking for indicators of success.

This is where the big disconnect occurs. A successful, age-appropriate man is still looking at those 20 y.o. chicks and this 46 y.o. is still finding ways to rule out less successful guys who'll actually date her. That's a formula for being eaten by your cats when you die.

She has prioritized success objectification over not dying alone. Blessed are the cats who'll let none of her flesh go to waste.

#2: "It used to be that I was pretty and interesting. That was enough. If I waited something would happen. Someone would happen."

This is womanhood in a nutshell right here. Life is always something that happens to women, never something they make happen. (Always remember the title of Hillary Clinton's post-election book: "What Happened". Even one of the most powerful women on earth operated in this frame.)

Those are the two valuable takeaways, and you missed both of them.

[–]eceme9811 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Blessed are the cats who'll let none of her flesh go to waste

My fucking sides

[–]mrpoopistan6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you. I was very proud of that one when I wrote it.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


a man's look = look at the things i've done.

a woman's look = look at the things that have been done to me.

[–]i_forget_my_userids2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

OP didn't write any of this. It's a 2 year old answer to a Quora question.

[–]mrpoopistan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Way to miss the point.

This is the OP's choice of subject, and the OP's post is a commentary on it.

[–]BloodSurgery4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

TRP subreddit Is still active, there are still new threads being posted there.

[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No it isn't. You can still access trp.

[–]ModTheRedPike[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The rules of this sub have not changed ---->

[–]mrrooftops6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, judging by the Quora history, that "woman" is a dude. and they're just replaying stuff from here. Might even be OP looking for a bit karma

[–]omega_dawg9311 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

agreed. but this only scratches the surface...

there's a BEAUTY about older women: they're usually less attention-driven, more down to earth, reasonable, financially stable, and oftentimes, sexually skilled (from LOTS of practice).

and the most beautiful thing to me... they've given up on that fairy tale bullshit and will become MORE OVERT in their communication, e.g., "look, i need some dick. can you come over tonight? no... i don't want you to sleep over... i'm horny, and i just need it right now."

MILFs can be some cool ladies. trust me on that one.

[–]mrpoopistan6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

This chick is obviously not that type of woman.

[–]alaskanarcher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. This is an advantage for women who have aged well.

[–]party_dragon3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

She’s weong a bit.

Women like successful men. By success, I don’t necessarily mean financial success, but rather achievement.

The way I understand women so far, they’re atteacted to non-beta men who stimulate their minds. Surfer dude / pothead / poolboy (relaxation + zero fucks given about other men and society), bunga bunga successful businessman (dominance), starving artist (master of emotions + on his own mission), ...

[–]Brickles090 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

100% right

[–]huggyblossom2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There was a very nice article about the successful women and their choices also.

Because as we all agree the women has to have a man with higher or minimally equal SMV and when she is successful her SMV goes higher while the pool of man available for dating gets tinier and tinier. Ever seen a successful female lawyer, doctor, surgeon and etc. with a man without high status?

Usually they have some boy toy later that wants easy access to money and luxury gifts, while trying to bang hotties within his age gap unnoticed :)

[–]manbearpiglord5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

“Single women after 30 suddenly discover that they are feminists!”


[–]whatdidshewrite1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its a superficial explanation but sure

[–]andAutomator1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I personally like older, attractive women

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yep... that's true for me as well.

USUALY, those women are the ones that didn't ride the cock carousel too hard, didn't indulge with the partying, drugs, & drinking too hard either.

[–]red_matrix1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

And that’s why unmarried, single women after 30 suddenly discover that they are feminists! :)


[–]MojoManUltra1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha bruh

[–]bestsparkyalive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Like it .

[–]aetherian470 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not a question. Read the sidebar.

[–]denchbench6660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A lot of truth!

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[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shut up

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