How do you get an awesome social life after college with fun party and high SMV people as a late bloomer who is just now peaking?

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February 6, 2019

I feel like I am having success with things like dating apps and all but my biggest struggle has been a quality social life. I went to college and high school in a conservative area where most people were against drinking and partying, only very few wanted to do it and they were the spoiled rich kids.

It seems like most people after college stick with their college networks so I wanted to ask, how do you start fresh with fun and social friends who like to go out, have fun and are socially well connected?

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Title How do you get an awesome social life after college with fun party and high SMV people as a late bloomer who is just now peaking?
Author roselyinsight2
Upvotes 71
Comments 25
Date 06 February 2019 03:16 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]FalconWrite86 points87 points  (0 children) | Copy

Numbers game like everything else. Start by raising up your vibration energy by maxing out the things that make you the kind of person you’d want to be around, and the law of attraction/halo effect come into play. Put yourself in the position to meet other people who like what you like. Clubs, meetups, things you’d do for fun in general. A number exchanged here, a conversation there, you’re invited somewhere, you meet a friend of a friend, and the ball gets rolling. Could take half a year, could take 2 years. Point is you enjoy yourself along the way. In school, most friendships just happen by inertia and proximity; now you just gotta put that inertia and proximity on autopilot in your free time by habit

[–]rugged7955 points56 points  (6 children) | Copy

Find a gym bro to workout with. When you go out to the club, tell him to bring a bro. Then tell that guy to bring a bro. There you go Band of Bros.

Get some plates that got an active social life. These are usually HB8 and above. Tell her your friends should meet each other. Maybe backyard bbq or some other shit.

Or just go do shit hot bitches do like salsa dance class, cooking class and yoga class.

[–]dont_throw_me 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

fucking tom hanks right here

[–]rugged797 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Somebody's gotta lead this shitshow lol

[–]GiraffeOnWheels2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

I've done the salsa class, definitely a bring your own girl kind of situation unless you're genuinely trying to learn and don't mind dancing with dudes.

[–]rugged792 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hmmm. That's weird. Most the ones I've seen been majority female.

[–]GiraffeOnWheels2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I went to one studio, 5 classes. It average about 4-5 couples (me included) and 2 solo guys. I'm in the midwest though. Was yours through a university or something? I'm genuinely curious.

[–]rugged791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well most of them were in various parts of the U.S. Some on in other countries. Some that were actual salsa bars after the class finished. For example Munich, Gemany has at least one that can get pretty crazy.

Maybe another studio. Or one in another residental area or city nearby. If anything it gives you the excuse to ask a bitch to go somewhere. She might like it. "Hey, I need a partner for salsa class yo." Or maybe they're out cooking and doing yoga.

[–]AtlasCuckd17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm gonna peak so hard...

[–]gbnz8711 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

The older you get the more difficult it gets. So starting now is a good place to start.

I have had a lot of success at salsa and doing group training classes instead of traditional gym work. Any hobby you have is a good place to start and it's always best to target a hobby where people will be going out to do things you want. Eg. You probably won't get much opportunity to go out and meet women with someone you play world of warcraft with where as dancers will be out most weekends practicing.

[–]Herdsengineers3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 43, and will agree wholeheartedly with this guy. Salsa classes around here for some reason are always stacked up with women. Not other dance classes like ballroom. Just Salsa. Hot Yoga at my gym is a pure parade of fine pussy in and out of that room for each class, and like 10 ladies for each guy that go in there. The other training classes have a lot of women too.

I actually had a lot of luck with outdoor and hiking clubs. Find one that does easier treks, goes on the occasional rafting or camping trip, etc. Most women usually aren't up for the hardcore trips. Hell, most men aren't either. Also helps to get in a role where you set up events, lead hikes, etc. You interact with more people, and the women see you as the guy in charge.

[–]macheagle3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

What do you do for work? I have an extremely social job being in the luxury lifestyle media industry. Think fashion, boats, cocktails, galas, regattas, biz trips and events. Constantly. My work helps with that a ton so I don’t need to develop something “independently social” unless I want to. See if you may be able to find work that gives you more social opportunities.

[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I just moved to the country I live in, I just went to the parties I knew I'd enjoy on my own. I met people there that I kept meeting at parties, etc.
If you like EDM and you like drugs, be willing to share it with people, dance around generally have a good time and you will find like-minded people.

[–]CheesyStravinsky2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

1) Make a lot of money, 2) Do cool shit you enjoy, 3) Occasionally say high to other people while out doing the cool shit.

[–]jzekyll32 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Make friends with women and friend zone them without being beta. Always deal drugs. Be a photographer. Know musicians and dancers and connect people.

[–]serve_my_goddess2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Young bitches love drugs. Good point.

[–]Moldy_Gecko0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah, make shit life choices is great advice.

[–]jzekyll34 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Disasters get women

[–]Moldy_Gecko0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Myeah, they do. Toofless, flabby chested, strung-out women. With the occasional hot outlier that sticks around cuz daddy issues.

[–]Throwaway-2424242 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Toofless, flabby chested, strung-out women

Look I'm not gonna say that "deal drugs to get women" is a good piece of advice to live by, but you've really been drinking the DARE cool-aid if you think that the typical young casually drug-using woman looks like that.

[–]trele_morele0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You don't "get an awesome social life" my friend. It doesn't just happen. You create it yourself.

[–]Moldy_Gecko0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Go out. I have so much social status where I live because I go out in the area, find like-minded fb groups that occasionally meet up. If you're a vegetarian or whatever you're into, you can find social groups nearby on fb all the time or event notifications, etc. I also work at a job that provides social status. I literally can't go anywhere in this area (and some others) without someone who recognizes me. Usually I have to ask their name tho, which feels dickish, but I suppose that might be a power move.

[–]serve_my_goddess0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Go do shit you like doing. Youll meet people into the same shit. After awhile, yall can party together, if you want.

It looks like you have alot of growing up to do yet!

[–]CodyBroneal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

RemindMe! 8 hours

[–]Bedtimeshine-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You need to worry about your own smv, and your own success after college. Partying and drinking is few and far between for a man with his shit together and a mission in life

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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