I'm an Argentinian guy living in northern Italy. I frequently travel back to Argentina to visit family and friends, so I get to meet women in both countries.
My experience has been polarizing: Italian women in the north seem to be cold as fuck. I'm not talking about just lack of attraction alone, but also attempts to shut down normal social connections with guys.
The only difference I've noticed is when the guy is really a catch, otherwise, they look down on you. Even women who you'd think are in your league treat you like you are not, and prefer to end up lonely rather than spend time with you.
Things in Argentina couldn't be more different. Every time I go there, women are instantly warm to you. Sure, you need to talk to them first most of the time, but they don't look down on you like you are an out-of-place anomaly.
I flew to Argentina last week and things went as expected. It's the kind of place where meeting women doesn't seem like an uphill battle. I flew back to Italy two days ago, and I instantly got depressed by the coldness, lack of warm, detached behavior. It's like a nightmare sometimes.
Do any of you guys been to Italy? Is this common? Or, better yet, is the warmer behavior of women on southamerica common?
Putting it differently, are there places like the ones I'm describing in Italy?