Background on me: HIGH SMV, 8/10, Athletic Body/Muscular Physique, nice jaw, attend top university, hard STEM major, guaranteed job, have a nice car, service man, and have a hobby that makes me money.
Background on Sally: Petite, nice body, HIGH SMV, 9/10 All the guys at the party wanted her, smart, pretty, cheerleader type, etc.
I went to a birthday party tonight with my 4 close friends at university. As soon as I got to the party, I greeted everyone, talked to everyone and made my presence known around the room. I had one cup of alcohol and I did take a 3 hits of weed. I’m talking to my friends, talking to people, and vibing the entire night. This entire time this girl we’ll call her Sally, keeps eyeing me. Even as she dances in other dudes at the party, she watches me the entire night. She sees me talk to girls, guys, and overall just have a good time.
The birthday person finally came and we cheered for him and danced and everyone was having a great time.
I sit on the couch and browse social media. My female friend we’ll call her Monica starts talking to me asking if I’m ok. I say I’m fine I’m texting my other friend (we’ll call him Josh who was the DJ) and we start making more small talk. Eventually this other girl named “Jessica” comes up to me and we start talking. After I finished talking with Jessica I went outside to sit down by the campfire. I’m on my phone and everyone around me is talking. Jessica is across from me too.
Eventually everyone gets distracted by some drunk idiot. I get up and tell Jessica I’m about to leave and I tell her we should exchange numbers. We do. Keep in mind Sally was eyeing my like a piece of meat the entire night. She even saw me get Jessica’s number.
I’m heading to leave the party and go home and I see my friend Josh outside. Sally is talking to him and his other friends as well. Then Josh comes up to me and says I should take sally home. I’m reluctant because alcohol has been involved. Sally assures me it will be ok. So we start walking back to my car, only problem is the party was in an apartment. So I forgot which visitors spot I parked. So Sally and I start walking and talking. Entire time I’m agree and amplify, passing shit tests, maintaining mystery, applying kino by touching her arm, waist, and hair as we walk and talk. Sally is laughing, showing interest, having a great time.
We finally find my car. We get inside and Sally says she’s hungry. I give her 2 fast food options. We go to option 1 and the line is too long. We go to option 2. On our way to option 2 Sally asks me for my Instagram. I give it to her. She saw I was very accomplished and stuff. At option 2 Sally gets fries and chicken. I just get fries. I ask Sally where she would like to go, she said my place. So we do.
We get back to my place, at no point does Sally say she wants to leave or she’s uncomfortable. We walk to my apartment and Sally asks me if i have any makeup remover. I jokingly say of course. She asks why I have that. I make a joke about my sister. We go upstairs to my place in my bedroom and she asks me again. I say no. She asks if I have face wash, I say yes and give it to her. She then washes her face. Then she asks if I have a big t shirt she could wear. I told her no but I have my jacket. I gave her my jacket. Sally goes into the bathroom to change. I change outside in the bedroom. Sally comes out of the bathroom without her bra, panties, and clothes she was wearing. All she had on was my jacket.
We get into my bed and Sally gets her food and starts eating. We are talking and I’m applying light kino by touching her thigh. Sally then says she full and I take the food from her and put it on the counter. We both lay down in my bed and talk. Then I lean in for a kiss, Sally starts kissing me back and everything’s going well. Sally then says she has to go to the bathroom. She gets up and goes.
10minutes go by and I don’t see or hear Sally in the bathroom. I go to the bathroom and knock. She doesn’t answer. I open the door and she’s on the phone with someone and has the shower running so I cant hear her. I ask her if everything is ok. She says it’s fine and she’s okay. I say ok and leave the bathroom. Sally then comes out of the bathroom and gets into bed with me. We lay down then start back kissing and stuff. That’s when Sally’s phone starts to ring. She jumps out of bed to answer it and goes to the bathroom. She doesn’t come out for another 10minutes. I hear a door slam. I get up and check the bathroom. Sally is gone. I share a bathroom with someone and apparently sally left my apartment through me and my neighbors bathroom then left through his front door. Sally left her bra, panties, and purse with ID and stuff in my place.
I immediately called my female friend Tasha who lives walking distance. I explain the situation and how the girl disappeared and I’m trying to find her. As I’m on the phone with Tasha I’m sending Tasha pictures of Sally’s ID, Instagram, and University ID.
About 20-30min pass and I hear a knock at my door. I hang up the phone with Tasha in case it was Sally. I open the door and It’s this random dude I don’t know. Sally is next to him. I’ll call the dude Bob. Bob tells me to give Sally back her stuff and I’m thinking oh shit Bob is Sally’s boyfriend. Bob then says angrily “Sally told me you were in here trying to rape her man.” I explained to Bob that’s not what happened and I didn’t touch Sally or make her or try to force her.
I call Tasha back and tell her to get to my apartment ASAP. At this time Sally still has on my jacket. Bob tells me he’s going to call the cops. I tell bob to do it so we can explain the situation. Bob and Sally go to leave while Sally is still wearing my jacket which costs: $70. I tell bob that Sally needs to take it off. Bob tells sally as well. Sally doesn’t and says she’s naked underneath she can’t.
I follow bob and sally outside my apartment and Bob and I are in a verbal and somewhat physical altercation, Bob also has called the police and has them on the phone. Tasha is also still on the phone with me listening. I tell Tasha again to come over. She does. This time I’m trying to call all my friends even Josh, the one who told me to take Sally home and no one answers.
Right after the police were called Sally starts crying saying how I didn’t touch her and all we did was kiss and how she made it up and just wanted to leave and didn’t want any police. Sally also still has on my jacket. I’m arguing with Bob and Tasha finally comes. The police also come. I sit down and I hand Tasha my phone to record. Police ask what happened and Bob explains to the police that I tried to rape sally and fight him. The police had me sit down.
Sally then explain what happened to the police and then I gave Tasha my phone and told her to start recording. She did. Tasha recorded the entire interaction with myself and the policeman. I explained my side of the story and was extremely respectful and cooperative.
The police tell me that I’m not being charged or arrested because Sally admitted nothing happened and we only kissed. She said I didn’t try to penetrate her, force myself on her, or make her uncomfortable. The police say no report is being written because nothing happened but he told me to stay clear of parties and alcohol so I can avoid these situations.
What I’m afraid of is what if the Bob and Sally try to ruin my reputation at school. Like they say I tried to rape her and I’m a rapist and what not. I have my whole future ahead of me, I’m afraid of what this means for me or if they try to blackmail me or extort me.
What should I do here? I have witnesses, videoproof, receipts from the food, time stamps, call Logs, etc.
TL;DR: Girl kept eyeing me at a party while I was being social and fun, I took the girl to eat and then back to my home, we made out twice in my bed, she ran away, accusesed me of sexual assault/rape, called her boyfriend, police were called, no files are being charged against me because the girl admitted she lied and nothing happened. But I’m afraid of what this means for me?