I made a list of TRP key points that I thought myself/others may have a hard time remembering, and I’m looking for additions that I may have missed.

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February 19, 2019

This is my list, please comment what I may be missing (that isn’t too broad/obvious):

  • Eye contact
  • Don’t talk a ton (talk more in the beginning though)
  • If they follow you/comply, they’re interested
  • Push/pull
  • Body language
  • Kino is important
  • Always approach
  • Don’t fidget
  • Take up space
  • Be disagreeable
  • Be genuine
  • Premise>intent
  • Talk with emotion
  • Make statements/playful accusations, not questions
  • Don’t look at your hands when using kino, look at the person
  • Use kino right away (handshake or something)
  • Everyone else is bored, go talk to them
  • Approach girls AND guys (appear sociable)
  • Don’t answer many questions straight
  • Maintain mystery
  • Don’t justify
  • Dopamine spikes (useless shit) are bad
  • Focus on the bigger picture
  • Understand to be understood
  • Tease
  • Listen and apply
  • Upward spiral
  • Don’t try to get something out of people, but still have premise
  • Being fun (emotion) > being logical
  • FreeTour talks with emotion for example
  • Be suggestive
  • Lift
  • Don’t react, set how you want to feel.
  • Who do you want to be?
  • Stay out of most drama
  • Use all the power you have over someone (also increases power)
  • Use non-verbal push/pull
  • Balance attraction and comfort (but attraction is most important)
  • Don’t be TOO much of a dick
  • If you’re treating someone like you’re attracted to them, assume they are interested in you in the first place.
  • When giving shit make sure to flirt/get them invested/attracted to you
  • Show good interest in the beginning to get them hooked, and then pull it all back. Now they will chase you, if done correctly
  • Pressure flip: ask them where they’re from, then say “oh I live close/far away from them.” They’ll ask “where are you from?” 99% of the time, which means they are now the one leading the conversation if you continue to talk right/treat it that way
  • Don’t try too hard in group setting
  • “On the concept of silence...when a first date is going well, I’ll often stop talking entirely and leave a little smirk on my face. I play a game where I don’t talk and see how long she’ll keep nervously babbling on about something as it gets funnier and funnier to me. Eventually she’ll start nervously laughing and be like “whattt...what are you thinking aboutttt” then I’ll start laughing and say something like “I have a feeling you’d just keep talking forever if I didn’t say anything”. Then she laughs and says “omg you’re such an asshole,” hits you, and then you can go back to kino/rapport building. Sort of a secret weapon. Do not try if autistic.”
  • For that last point, make sure you have a good convo before silent smirk mode
  • “Everything you say should hold value and meaning. Because most men don't realize this, they say more than they need to and they decrease the attraction. The more you talk, the more you give away from yourself and the less your body language speaks for you. Remember that everybody likes to talk about themselves so let them talk.”
  • Women are childlike, so treat them like it. They will love it.
  • Watch actions, not words
  • Aloof/smirky/body language/less words/less emotion/still use some when fitting
  • Challenges are fun, try to beat them
  • Focus on being better than you were yesterday
  • Women will do more for you when the are insecure - use that to your advantage by making them feel that way
  • When in doubt, escalate
  • Assume attraction
  • Have multiple friend groups
  • Don’t let people walk all over you
  • Laziness is failure - grab yourself by the balls and seize the moment. Get shit done
  • Don’t let other people cuck you in conversation: Get your dick out there and slay
  • Beta males try to avoid rejection/conflict
  • Don’t think your way into confidence, do your way into confidence
  • Never choose the path of least resistance
  • Smile, nod, and then do whatever the fuck you were going to do anyway
  • Don’t wait for negative emotions to go away, because they will always be there. Take action NOW
  • You’ll never feel ready, so JUST DO IT
  • Walk into every room dick first
  • Posture
  • Breath deeply/in a controlled manner; it helps with confidence/relaxation
  • Take action, but have a plan
  • “Where would you have your first tattoo?” This is a really good sexual question to escalate. You can also use his as an excuse to touch them in certain places because they might be good tattoo locations
  • Talk even when you get no response

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Title I made a list of TRP key points that I thought myself/others may have a hard time remembering, and I’m looking for additions that I may have missed.
Author millioneuroextreme
Upvotes 100
Comments 48
Date 19 February 2019 11:15 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/218989
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/asgtlp/i_made_a_list_of_trp_key_points_that_i_thought/
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[–]_Last_Man_Standing_28 points29 points  (5 children) | Copy

nice list...

now forget about it... (it isn't internalized until you forget about it)

"walk into every room dick first" cracked me up... xD

[–]millioneuroextreme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Haha read that part on the sidebar, liked the premise of it.

[–]donkeydodo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

now forget about it... (it isn't internalized until you forget about it)

Both yes and no; I agree that to actually be it and to act it out, it has to be internalized, one can't have a cheat sheet to seem genuine, however, it's good to re-read realizations and conclusions made, which is why re-reading the sidebar once in a while is something good. You re-read it with new, more experienced eyes and can draw new conclusions etc.

[–]rugged791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


It is good for a reminder though. Should hang on the wall in the TRP dojo as a reminder for black belts and a list all white belts and above should study and meditate upon.

Sometimes even a black belt in TRP can get caught slipping.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

^This. Just internalize. Chad isn't keeping a cheatsheet in his pocket, he just knows them instinctually.

[–]someonesopinion69693 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Chad doesn't come on ASKTRP to mock people who are summarizing the redpill in a digestible amount.

[–]mrpoopistan12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Outcome independence

[–]_the_shape_10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good stuff.

Best way to use it to your advantage?

Get out there and socialize/game/lift/make money etc. for 80-90% of your time, and reflect on this list habitually for a only few minutes a day, grading yourself on what you're doing right, what you're doing wrong, what you're doing too much of, what you're not doing enough of etc.

Apply the 80/20 rule to action vs. theory (always a disproportionate amount of action to theory)

[–]millioneuroextreme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed, this list doesn’t help if you don’t get out there and slay.

[–]BloodSurgery2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy

Why post this here and not in TRP?

[–]millioneuroextreme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Need additions to it before I post

[–]morningdew4200 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Wait.. trp still exists?

[–]AwesomeTheKid0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

It's quarantined. You can't find it on the mobile web, but can access it on the app if you're subscribed to it. To my knowledge, Reddit still hasn't given a good reason as to why it's quarantined.

[–]morningdew4200 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I had subscribed to it but I can't find it on the mobile app

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Request the desktop site using your browser menu. A warning will pop up. Click through it once and you can access on mobile again

[–]AwesomeTheKid0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I'm using the official reddit app. Are you using a different one?

[–]BloodSurgery0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm using Reddit is fun and can access it with no problem. You should try it.

[–]Acceptancehunter2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

80/20 rule here refers to EYE CONTACT.

Solid eye contact is absoultly essential, it creates masculine polarity with the girl and will show you are the fucking alpha.

If you want to get rock solid eye contact

  • Meditate (open eye meditation)
  • Do nofap, by day 7 your eye contact will be so much better than everyone around you
  • Practice holding eye contact with everyone

[–]thrownawayisland2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

One note I'll make about treating women like kids: I dated a chick that had some daddy issues and because he denied her basics in the past like groceries, etc, she had this "thing" about being treated like an adult. If she applied for a job and I said "hey awesome job doing that" she would get pissy, like "I'm not a child, you don't need to sound so condescending". Even though I was simply giving her praise.

I guess what I'm saying is, some chicks have baggage from either previous relationships or just with their dad in general, and your mileage may vary.

[–]Cmdrj-nice1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for this chief I just got out of a str so I wanna get back into trp material

[–]extraterrestial1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thanks alot, i will go through the list from time to time to see how i am doing.

[–]millioneuroextreme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Np man, shoot me a message if you think of anything for me to add

[–]VM_Instructions1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a fantastic list with all the key notes of TRP in one. Thanks for this one, will keep it bookmarked.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

These lists suck it's an effective way to go about learning Game, you just do it... stop making it more complicated and overanalyzing/overthinking. You think Chad is in his room writing lists... you're dreamin

[–]millioneuroextreme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read “Do The Write Thing.”

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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