I just read the post about the guy who was labeled a rapist just because some girl felt like screwing him over for no fucking reason. Since then I have been stuck with this question and it makes me pissed off, the more I think about it.

One of my best friends is pretty blue pill but he gives absolutely no fucks. He is pretty beta through texts but is a good guy. For no reason girls screenshot his conversations and send it around in their groupchats and nobody takes him serious anymore (That's why texting only for logistics is so important). He has a really bad reputation around girls now, just because he is a bit beta over text.

Then from my personal experience I had multiple girls spreading lies about me. Why? I don't fucking know. The most recent thing that happened was last friday. I was dancing/flirting with this one girl who had given me her number 2 months ago. Wasn't really interested in her and one month later I made out with one of her friends.

So I saw her last friday and she was all over me. Asking why I never texted her blablabla. While I was talking to her I had 3 of her male friends walk up to me and tell me to leave her alone. If I broke her heart they'd beat me up, etc. Then I was talking with one of her male friends, turns out he's a brother of one of my classmates. He told me the girl who was all over me told everyone I was in love with her and apparently stalked her and didn't leave her alone.

But he said he could tell she was way more into me and that she was talking shit. So I kinda rejected the girl from there on, again. But it's really fucked up. The first guy is called a rapist, my best friend is getting absolutely laughed at and I barely got beat up by a group of 5 guys for fucking nothing?

It pisses me off and makes me wonder if it's even worth pursuing girls nowadays. I give no fucks about girls in general, but even when I do I hear about these fucked up things and experience them myself? Does anyone feel the same way?