Hey guys, I've been in an LTR for close to 2 years. It's going better than great, thanks to a mix of life experience and TRP, I'm able to lead my ship really well these days.

The only thing is that we always advocate "keep your game sharp", "keep your options open" etc. The thing is, I've cheated on my girlfriend in the past, a few times with different girls. I have stopped this behaviour about a year ago, as I finally came to the conclusion that it wasn't right by my own morals.

And the new moral battle I'm facing now, is how to interact with women. I have this thing, where I'm honestly not interested in most women unless I find them attractive. I live in a new country, so pretty much all of my contact happens with strange women. And the problem is that my default mode for interacting with women now is flirting. I love it. I am really good at flirting and I usually get IOI's back or at least the girl is entertained and doesn't cut the interaction. But I'm also finding myself avoiding women I find attractive now because it's always a bit weird, because there's this tension and even if I don't want to, it's just the nature of it, it's flirty.

And I don't know where to take it afterwards. I don't want to flirt further because it would be crossing my morals, and I don't really wanna talk to them like boys, because they're just not and it'd be boring for everyone.

The question is, am I condemned to just not have any meaningful interactions with women while I wanna stay in a LTR? What do you guys do?

I repeat, I'm not interested in playing games behind my girl's back, it's important to me.