So I’ve been trying to escalate with this girl. Been on 3 dates and have only made out. We were watching a movie at my place when she got a text from some guy named Jacob, when she opened it they had been texting each other paragraphs, she didn’t notice I saw. She’s a very shy girl so this baffled me that she’s talking to some guy so in-depth. I do some digging and find out she’s been dating this guy for over 2 years long distance while at college. Idk what to do anymore. Makes me a little sick knowing every time we spent together was meaningless. Why do women even get in long distance relationships? Why is she cheating on this guy with me. Hurting us both.
Edit: thanks for everything guys this actually means a lot. I’m still internalizing the fact that men will never be loved the way we want to, or that men will be loved at all. I feel broken inside because I imagined I would be happy in a relationship which is clearly not possible. You guys mean the world to me by not giving me feel good bullshit.