Every girl I meet is fucking damaged in some way. Where do you guys find girls that are LTR-potential? Seems impossible in my late 20's to find a decent girl.

Try to see the best in people. Develop some sympathy/empathy or tolerance to the problems. You don't need to solve them in order to enjoy people in the main though sure some problems explicitly inhibit any interaction/enjoyment with some girls just like guys in reverse, and you don't need to settle down with them either.

But you are right - there's a lot of damaged young girls out there. Its a society problem. At one point girls had their heads screwed on earlier than guys for various reasons including being sheltered more - but now they're out there amongst it and with the single mother epidemic across the globe, of course they will get more scratches and bruises and they will seem even less mature (for a girl) than you may have expected, and they will be less contented in general as they are on career paths and don't want to settle down as readily. I can only speak generally.

You might want to try presenting yourself differently and attracting a higher caliber of girl according to your tastes. It could be possible you are meeting the wrong people in the wrong places, so de-prioritize what you are doing in that regard.

As young girls remits on their lives expand; whereas in the past they were more narrowed in homelife/kids/supporting a husband, - well now you must take existing and limited female faculties and apply them over more areas - so their lives will be more hectic and their hedonism heightened since they are not tied down or expected to be tied down. So in essence by and large we have older more loserish girls on our hands. Maybe not the best words; but remember they're going through life as best they can. Girls take longer to find their feet in many cases and some of their lives get derailed more easily than before - because they are exposed to more risk. With freedom comes risk.

But just keep that in mind, because being happy with yourself more than being happy about anyone else on a personal level is far more important for YOU.

If you're out on dating apps or clubs then you are going to proportionately come by more single mothers and party-ho's or girls just out of relationships, more generally unstable and deliberately or otherwise unavailable girls. You might want to like I said look at meeting them in different places - and you will have a different relationship trajectory because of it.

Your problem is moreso you expect too much from women or you want too much from these women causing you unhappiness. Don't worry about it if you can't do anything about their situation, and don't try to.

Still, get in while the going is good - you're young probably so the time is now. Don't let it hold you back. Don't fight the world. Ride it. You don't even need several plates to ride the world, take them one at a time.

Women won't solve your problems in your life they only exacerbate problems. But then there must be more extenuating circumstances to your case. I do absolutely agree though that its the most bizzare thing.

There's good ones out there though certainly. Also most young girls are batshit crazy, start thinking of them as on the level of little sisters basically, and don't judge or criticize them too harshly for it. Have more fun with girls in general, so I think the problem lay in your own perceptions of the situation; because no one can change the world, its too big a thing to change. Start to accept it and see the good (or what there is) in people.

Most importantly have the relationship you want to have. Girls have to learn this crap but the best season for any woman in this modern day, maybe it always was, is the early and mid 20's - they are her golden years, in todays world if she is knocked up as a teenager the prognosis of her life lowers. And yet in todays society a relationship is not the go-to thing for women in her 20s' to do in the main.

But talking about it is pissing in the wind, go find yourself a young one and give her a reason to fuck you, stay with you, whatever you want. You could actually improve two lives then. Its ideal for you, you're late 20's, right? So this means the girls who will be highly into you will be young and mid 20's. Go for girls around 24, 25, 26 maybe. They haven't hopefully seen too much dick and are still relatively whimsical and prancing, and not pragmatic enough to be down on themselves yet or spat out from a bad relationship/experience. This is why above I said the time is now for you. Until about 35 you have an enormously good chance to settle down (or just go out with for the long-haul be however long that is) with one of these mid 20's birds. Dont squander it in dislike. Who cares about the ones you dislike. Even then only fools rush in. Just try and go for it.

look in the mirror and tell yourself you want to make some bitch happy in a red pill way, just because it makes you feel good. See a few girls, see where you're at and pick the best one that comes along and focus on her slightly more. Let things happen as things get proven enough.