Are Male Feminists Getting Laid?

mctoasterson · 2014-09-29T14:27:31+00:00

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Ausfall · 2014-09-29T14:00:11+00:00

I would rather fuck a fleshlight than an overweight pansexual omnigender tortoisekin SJW dyke.

I_Wear_Jorts5 · 2014-09-29T14:25:16+00:00

Sure, I've met a bunch. Ironically, they run much sleazier, "creepy" game than is preached on TRP. These are the types of dudes who go for the drunkest girl at the bar or try to seduce crying, attention seeking women (under the guise of being a "good guy" of course). This is why I find most male feminists to be the biggest scumbags of all. The majority of them don't really care about "women's rights," they just identify as a feminist to kiss ass and try to worm their way into pussy.

redpillbanana · 2014-09-29T17:19:20+00:00

Apparently this guy is (from /r/thatHappend):

https://imgur.com/k07jbSu

"If you agree that women should never be judged by anyone for anything, a feminist might bang you."

Saturnalia93 · 2014-09-29T13:37:30+00:00

I've met a few of those detestable creatures that are getting laid, but they're never bedding anyone with an even moderately respectable SMV.

RedBigMan · 2014-09-29T14:23:43+00:00

It seems like two schools of male feminists. The one's that actually are dumb enough to buy into the BS and might slay some hamplanets at best.

Then there are the guy's that are actually smart and use all the feminism speak as covert-ops to join in the feminist ranks and slay the few hot chicks that might be hanging around.

Overzealous_BlackGuy · 2014-09-29T16:20:29+00:00

I would fuck the pretty ones...just knowing im exactly what she hates and she's enjoying every bit of me would make me smile

sirmadam · 2014-09-29T16:47:23+00:00

Half the male feminists are hypocrites, like me. It's better to say you support feminism because it really saves you a lot of energy. You like feminism? Well, so do I. Yeah. Now put your number in my phone.

fastball21 · 2014-09-29T14:42:58+00:00

Once every ten years women host a secret lottery to see who has the unfortunate task of hooking up with feminist men for the next decade. They allocate 2% of women to bleakly have sex with 17% of the males who openly identify as feminist. Their studies have shown that's all that's necessary to give the other 83% of feminist men hope that they too might get laid.

redpilltom · 2014-09-29T22:20:33+00:00

Knew a male feminist on college. First guy to get a minor in women studies at our school, in the school newspaper and everything. Very well known within our local feminist crowd, led some organizations and was in every protest, march, and event.

He treated women like shit. People call us horrible and sexist, but seriously the shit this guy pulled was fucked up. He was a charming fuck (which is why my group of friends loved him) and pulled off the classic "confident yet sensitive" that made vulnerable women melt. And he used the shit out of them.

His rap sheet:

Filming himself having sex with women (without their consent) and showing us to brag.
Getting women to drive hours to see him and then not answering their multiple calls and texts as they stood outside our dorms locked door.
Dropping contact with women who he said he loved just for fun (D.E.N.N.I.S. level shit).
Getting girls to drop their boyfriends for a promise of a relationship only to fuck them once, doing a bunch of dirty shit (get a woman emotionally enraptured and she'll do anything) and cut contact.
To us, he fingerbanged one of our friend's high school sweetheart he still had feelings for after being specifically told she was off limits.

-Also during a summer trip to the same guys house, fucked said friends crush (who again, was specifically off limits) in his bed while she was on her period. So my friend had to wash the period blood of this girl he was crushing on off his childhood bed.

I may pull some dread game and I may not put up with shit from women, but this was pure evil. He got a real joy out of it. Yet, to this day, ask any feminist from my college and they'll have nothing but good things to say about him and will wish there were more men like him.

insickness · 2014-09-29T16:40:22+00:00

I used to do feminist activist work back in my blue pill days. In and of itself, it definitely did not get me laid. It did get me to be around a lot of women though. But I was also a musician who had trouble getting laid if pussy was waved right in front of me. I think if a male feminist had great game he could probably get laid a lot but they'll never learn game and are such pussies about making the move with women that they probably don't get laid much at all unless they have natural game, great social skills or are decent looking.

Edit: I actually once did meet a hot feminist girl who ran in those circles and somehow managed to ask her out on a date. At one point we were hungry and got some food. I went to pay for her and she FLIPPED OUT on me. She was pissed because as a feminist she didn't want a guy paying for her dinner. The date ended shortly after that. Even though I was blue pill at the time I still knew that she was fucking crazy.

ugghhf · 2014-09-29T16:25:51+00:00

Male feminism is a sexual strategy, so yes, some are getting laid. In fact, you'll probably find that the "top" 20% of these guys are landing 80% of the feminist women they hang around. Not a bad scheme if you can swing it, really.

2014-09-29T22:07:31+00:00

No. They're still waiting for consent.

captainsciencepants · 2014-09-29T14:42:46+00:00

I don't think anyone is getting the questions. In other words he is saying are white knights getting laid. The answer is mostly no. I work with a very loud white knight and he just married a whale at 28.

Iswearbyapollo · 2014-09-29T16:11:46+00:00

http://theantifeminist.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/david-futrelle.jpg

Yup, getting laid like tile to be sure...

anonlymouse · 2014-09-29T20:49:56+00:00

The white-knighty majority? No.

But there is a special breed of player that uses game, either intentionally or accidentally, while going along with the rhetoric with a not so secret smile (amused mastery). I've known a couple guys like this and they slay more hot feminist pussy than Chad McThundercock could ever hope to. Think of them as scoundrels if you want to.

I also knew a gay guy who was secretly bi. I worked with him for a while and he was the master of "gay game."

Basically he would be "out" all the time and act gay. He'd speak in a "gay" voice, but was otherwise charismatic and articulate. He'd talk about his boyfriend all the time. With the straight guys in the office, he wasn't at all offended at gay jokes and banter. He would actually one-up them and endear himself to us as one of the guys.

With the women in the office, typically the Zoe Quinn looking feminist type (but actually hot), he would be just as charismatic, but he would ramp up the naughty. He'd talk about his boyfriend du jour and how they would eat each other's cum and all the nasty shit they did together. But then he'd say that he had to dump him because they were both "tops" and he needed a partner who was a "bottom."

He would openly, "jokingly" proposition women and blatantly fondle them in front of everybody. At one point, after he'd spent about 5 minutes groping this woman's breasts and talking about his boyfriend's cock, I called him out.

"Dude, if I grabbed her like that I'd be fired for sexual harassment so fast..." With her still present, he goes, "that's because she knows I don't 'want anything.'" After she left, I took him aside and was like, "why do I suspect you're not nearly as gay as everyone thinks?" To which he replied, "I have no idea what you're talking about." with a conspiratorial tone and a wink.

So, yeah, turns out he was bi. Had a steady boyfriend at home but was "cheating" with three or four regular female plates at the office. He wasn't lying about anything he ever talked about but he knew how to use his gayness as a way to infiltrate feminist women and get past their bitch defenses. He ended up teaching me a lot about game and how to read people.

TL;DR I don't suspect the majority of feminist men get laid, but I've noticed a rare breed of player among the feminist crowd that knows how to get along to slay mad feminist pussy. One of these was an openly gay man who used "gay game" to slay feminist pussy at work.

RedPillSafe · 2014-09-29T15:00:41+00:00

No, I really don't think they get women at all.

But they do get the FANTASY of getting a woman in the far off distance of never-never wonderful utopia land.

...so they have something they enjoy.

ExpendableOne · 2014-09-29T16:45:33+00:00

I've seen guys pretend that they were feminists to get laid, or to cull out competition(branding other guys as misogynists). Basically just pulling out some "women make 77 cents on the dollar" or "women are oppressed by men" BS to win women's favour. The results were pretty mix but still seemed considerably more successful than being a gender egalitarian or expressing anti-feminist opinions(like arguing that women perpetuate a lot of inequality in the world too, that women have every opportunity to earn as much as men, or that women are pretty privileged when you really start looking into it).

pstatwork · 2014-09-29T14:11:33+00:00

Non radical feminists typically have more sex then those who do not identify as feminists. So its safe to assume that the feminists are having more sex just maybe not with the guys who support them haha.

bz1028 · 2014-09-29T19:20:02+00:00

It's sad to say, but I know two that are. Guy A is a feminist, but also a track and field athlete at high school. He's tall, good looking, confident and has a new girlfriend every month. He's brainwashed enough to think that feminism wants equal rights.

Guy B is a college freshman and is a militant feminist, like he believes in the patriarchy and rape culture and all that nonsense. However, he's textbook dark triad, he doesn't give a shit about girl's feelings and just uses them for their bodies.

It's a phenomenon I've noticed to be prevalent among my generation. I call them bluepill alphas. They're as bluepill as the come in their beliefs, but they have the looks/charm to be in the top 20% of guys. Both of them, I believe, are feminists by extension of being leftists. Guy A is a far left democrat and Guy B is a communist. The fact that bluepill guys can get as much pussy as those two do is evident of decline in society.

vengefully_yours · 2014-09-29T21:19:10+00:00

I had this thing for Andrea Dworkin. I would go listen to her, cheer her on and hoped one day to ease myself between those meaty thighs and feel the rush as her jowls brushed my neck and enjoy the razor burn from her five O'Clock mustache. For years Ipined for her, only to be rebuffed because I have outdoor plumbing. Eventually I relegated myself to one of the have nots and began banging girls half my age that are built like Miley Cyrus.

Its a sad life without Andrea, but I take what I can get and enjoy my extra thirty cents per hour.

JazzerciseMaster · 2014-09-30T05:25:25+00:00

Plenty of male feminists get laid. Most girls I fuck tend to have some sort of feminist boyfriend on the side. These dudes get pussy, but the pussy just tends to have been tampered with. Almost every self-identified male feminist I've met has been in some type of one-ended poly relationship, and they have deluded themselves into thinking its fair because in theory they can fuck others too and they have "evolved past the patriarchal need for 'ownership' of their woman." You will think I'm making shit up, but swear to god I have heard those words from a RL male's mouth.

Living in SF, most of these dudes pretend to be cool with it because they said they were into "polyamory" and "monogamish" in order to persuade some girl to let them be their beta bucks. Everybody wins.

I encourage male feminism in all forms. If you're a male feminist in SF, let's get in touch.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-09-29T16:14:31+00:00

Love it! Take the challenge. Ask a different Beta every week- preferably a self described "feminist"- if he is getting the sex he wants whether in a LTR, marriage, or single. Are you getting all the pussy you can handle?

2014-09-29T17:28:46+00:00

I think this is the wrong question to ask. The feminist approved counter-argument is that men to be feminists not because it will get them laid (men wanting sex? that's just creepy and rapey, ew!), but for moral reasons, i.e. supporting equality, ending discrimination, etc.

On the surface, this isn't a bad thing - plenty of men have followed philosophies that didn't get them laid and yet we still acknowledge their greatness. In addition, you could apply the same logic and claim that MGTOW is a poor philosophy because it doesn't get them laid. As a side note, I disagree with MGTOW, but for different reasons.

Of course we know that equality and anything else they say is a pretense - feminism at it's core is about power, transfer of wealth to women from men, and placing maximum restrictions on male sexuality while minimizing any restrictions on female sexuality.

Not only that, but while feminists claim that men shouldn't be feminists because of sex, they imply that when men accept feminist ideals, they will be more attractive and will get laid more often. This is all done while maintaining plausible deniability. Even if they were to say "support our beliefs and you WILL get laid," all those men can be rejected at will on an individual basis, i.e. this specific girl doesn't want to have sex with this specific guy. Any repeated rejections will be treated as anecdotes and not a pattern. Not only that, but following rejection, those same men are told that they're just not trying hard enough, or they just haven't men "the one" yet. And of course, they very well won't, at least until they come in contact with women well past their physical prime.

If you step into the feminist frame, there is no winning, because you are allowing them to determine the rules and part of those rules is that the rules can change at will to suit a specific situation, and even a multitude of these situations are either exceptions. Not only that, but if a guy talks too much about this, he is shamed for feeling entitled to sex, and is therefore automatically wrong.

To answer the original question, the vast majority of male celebrities will publicly state that they agree with feminism, and they certainly get laid plenty. Nevermind that they're also rich and famous - that's not something you need to pay attention to.

vandaalen · 2014-09-29T18:09:45+00:00

I know some dudes who got natural game and fuck way more women than me, but will nearly choke if I use the word cunt to describe a woman "because you cannot reduce a human to its genitals, that's disrespectful and repulsive". They are pretty confident men though and more selfish than they would ever admit because they think that they are good people to the core and liberal leftists.

As with all these people they will deny reality but instead paint it the way they think they'd love it to be.

loghead11 · 2014-09-29T20:04:42+00:00

The top 10-20% of guys will get laid regularly irregardless of beliefs. You can be very bluepill and still have a pretty constant roster. I have tons of friends that can confirm this. As far as I'm concerned it's another strategy. One of the guys I went to college with managed to nail something like 15 girls as a solid blue pill guy who just liked sex, had money, and didn't study too much. Now he's married to a fat girl who cheats on him, but during college he got laid a lot.

Glenbert · 2014-09-29T23:37:23+00:00

It depends on which male feminists you are talking about. Most of them chose feminism because they have low SMV and are either angry, or playing what I call cuttlefish game.

Other's chose feminism because they are already high SMV and want to wave their high SMV cocks in everyone else's face.

In case you haven't noticed, the intervening factor here is -- and has always been -- being high SMV.

2014-09-30T16:37:47+00:00

I'd postulate that there is a powerful fear of social exclusion that drives men to agree with the feminine hivemind. Whether or not male feminists are getting laid isn't as important to them as ensuring that they aren't being publicly ostracized for being misogynists.

I don't think they're necessarily biding their time trying to get some feminist poon. I think they're legit terrified. Conditioned to fear female anger and disapproval from a young age.

Prattler26 · 2014-09-29T14:44:12+00:00

It's not about getting laid now, it's about a nice guy winning her in the long run.

Like religion is not about now, it's about rewards in life after death.

2014-09-29T15:49:05+00:00

I know a lot of "male-feminists" who get laid pretty frequently. The chicks are not smoking hot 9s or 10s.. But I see them pull 6s-8s a lot.

Perch1 · 2014-09-30T08:26:39+00:00

A few, but they don't let their views affect their interactions with women they're trying to fuck. One of my friends is presumably a feminist, but he's just always been really good at attracting women and escalating quickly.

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-09-29T18:40:11+00:00

Sure they are, just ask them. They'll tell you all about it.

52576078 · 2014-10-01T18:45:29+00:00

I've got a good friend who's a feminist, but as others have mentioned here, he's a total natural alpha, so cleans up with ladies despite himself. He's a professsor in a liberal college, so clearly he's been inculcated. What I find funny is that, as a natural alpha, he has no idea what it's like for guys with low SMV. Not a clue.

thereddespair · 2014-10-22T19:18:55+00:00

I heard a few of them do, as there are women who like to take a fully dominant stance in bed and even like using strapons on men.

armenia4ever · 2014-09-29T16:11:12+00:00

They get laid, but by 1s and 2s. Look at some of their "girlfriends".

Sometimes I couldn't tell the gender...

Some of these male feminists might not even be male. I'm convinced that David Futrelle is actually a member of the crab people.

Whisper · 2014-09-29T19:27:37+00:00

I suspect that some of them are (top 20%), and others are not (other 80%), just like the general male population.

I also suspect, however, that they have to jump through a lot of hoops, listen to a lot of bullshit, put up with a lot of fat and and unremoved body hair, do a lot of dishes, agree with a lot of bullshit, display a lot of self-loathing, articulate a lot of self-criticism, and do a lot of other things men don't really want to do.

correction_robot · 2014-09-29T16:07:23+00:00

Commented here telling you I'm a male feminist that gets laid. Downvoted just for answering the question. Was OP's question rhetorical, just a cue for a circlejerk, or what?

I've always viewed this sub with a sort of from-the-outside-looking-in fascination. Finally saw a place I could contribute..or so I thought. I guess I will stay on the outside where I belong. Here's a picture of her round butt for science.

Nomenimion · 2014-09-30T05:56:20+00:00

Only video game reviewers, and sadly, it's always the same woman.

LousWallin · 2014-12-02T21:10:49+00:00

My openly feminist buddy is getting laid alright. By a grotesque warthog. Needless to say, I don't talk to him much anymore.

Revo_Luzione · 2014-09-30T15:32:32+00:00

Hugo Schwyzer, male feminist par excellence, was getting laid like floor tile.

Course that dude also had some serious dark triad shit going on, admitted to banging students & much younger dames, having affairs, almost killing a bitch, etc.

TL;DR--yes--dark triad ones who use it as a trojan horse, definitely are getting it wet.

52576078 · 2014-10-01T16:05:25+00:00

Well, Jessica Valenti's husband is, but at what price?! http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/04/03/march-2009-beta-of-the-month/

2014-09-29T16:32:11+00:00

Male feminists are usually scrawny or fatass faggots.

JovianTrainWreck · 2014-09-29T22:14:41+00:00

If a male feminist is getting laid, then:

He is not actually a male feminist
He is fucking a 4/10, give or take a point

socio_j · 2014-09-29T18:00:01+00:00

Well assuming that I have seen some very hot feminists in my faculty and have BF, i suppose that their BF must be a feminist. Apart from that, the faculty is a social sciences/humanities faculty so you can pretty much guess that the men have to be feminists, pretend to be feminists or look at feminists with disdain and suffer the consequences...

kenshin79 · 2014-09-29T19:43:45+00:00

No. Their being rapped by large women with hairy chests.

Wargame4life · 2014-09-29T22:14:44+00:00

Technically maybe they are, but the "sex" they get isn't "sex " in my book.

I honestly would rather be a monk than sleep with the typical feminist, they are just absolutely completely unappealing.

2014-09-30T04:50:27+00:00

Was never a feminist, getting laid regularly.

LikeTotesObvi · 2014-10-01T07:35:48+00:00

Going to get downvoted but:

Yep, some of us are even married. Once again, all feminism is is wanting equality for women. I have two daughters and I want them to have all the same opportunities that I enjoy.

Just remember: internet != real life.

See you at the bottom!

NietzscheanStoic · 2014-09-29T14:28:58+00:00

Well, there are total douches like Hugo Schwyzer that claim they are getting all kinds of pussy, but Hugo could be one of those that plays that field to get the ladies to drop their guard by pretending to care about their bullshit.

2014-09-29T18:38:05+00:00

No. We usually get yelled at for not 'getting it'.

As a feminist, I find there are so many divergent beliefs in feminism, that any time you express agreement with one, the feminists who you agree with say nothing, while the feminists who disagree with you tell you how you are an idiot.

Anacanthros · 2014-09-29T18:44:50+00:00

Male feminist here.

Married, having sex with wife.

Also have girlfriend (am polyamorous) so getting laid there too.

[edit] I should add that most of the men I know who identify as feminists are also getting laid, most of them with multiple people.

Kinda makes the whole "TRP" thing easier to ignore.

bluedrygrass · 2014-09-29T17:35:23+00:00

Of course not, if not sporadically, accidentally and out of boredom.

Exactly like white knights.

It's part of the reason those two categories hate the world, and us, so much.

Philhelm · 2014-09-29T20:02:04+00:00

I'm sure they do get laid, although it wouldn't be worth it. I Black Knight the hell out of feminists to their faces; I just can't help myself.

2014-09-29T20:15:08+00:00

Every male feminist I know has an obese, controlling girlfriend. So they might be getting laid, but it certainly isn't a positive experience.

LasherDeviance · 2014-09-29T20:26:49+00:00

EVERY male feminist that I have ever known is or has been reduced to being a beta orbiter/simp/nice guy, who goes out with chicks he cant bang and drives them to the other guys that they will fuck house. Or, tries to get laid by agreeing with bullshit, but it doesn't work.

So no... No true male feminist gets laid unless he's already at the top rung on the ladder of attractiveness anyway.

whateverdipshit · 2014-09-29T20:42:32+00:00

Feminism As a Mating Strategy Among Beta Males by Jim Goad http://takimag.com/article/feminism_as_a_mating_strategy_among_beta_males_jim_goad/print#ixzz3Ejt1t2W2

markasstrick123 · 2014-09-30T00:49:10+00:00

Who here would fuck big red for a million

correction_robot · 2014-09-29T14:45:04+00:00

I think I'd identify as feminist. Looked it up to be sure...supporting social equality for women? Yes that's me.

Got a 9.5 sleeping in in my bed right now. Put that in your pipe and smoke it.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-12-31T01:25:42+00:00

They were not, and are not, getting laid. I want to grab some of these students mouthing mindless feminist drivel and smack them upside the head. Some of them are right out of George Orwell. Just tell me what to say, tell me what to believe and I will repeat it. Really, just tell me.

The reason they are not getting laid is the girls can see how pathetic they are. No opinions. Just an empty vessel.

Title	Are Male Feminists Getting Laid?
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