I notice when I hold frame with women I'm about to hook up with, they are a LOT more passionate and into it when things start getting steamy.

It's to the point where sometimes it's too aggressive and the escalation is too fast for me to even get turned on. It's like if you're completely soft and a girl starts jerkin your peter a million miles a second, you won't get hard.

I'd prefer to have a slow buildup leading up to rough sex, but I sometimes feel like I kill the momentum and passion when I slow us down. Had anyone else noticed this or had this happen?