[Update] Ex-boyfriend of girl I am seeing vandalized her room when she was spending the weekend at my place.

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February 27, 2019

Hey all,

This is an update to my previous post where an ex-boyfriend went into my girlfriend's mom's house (where she lives) and drew a pentagram with his blood on her wall and trashed her room. She initially did not want to go to the police due to her aversion to the authorities but I eventually convinced her it was the right thing to do.

Well...when I get to her house to take her, her mom recommends we just have the police call the dude and give him a warning. I'm like "naw fuck that" and say we should go for the restraining order. So we go there to talk with the police and she gives her story.

After a few questions she is asked if she has any recent texts to this guy. She lies and tells the police that she has only called (Stupid).

Turns out, when the officer calls the guy, he ends up reading a whole string of texts from her to the officer. When the officer called her back to tell her what he said, the officer calls her out on the lie and she freaks out. The officer then says she will come over to take pictures. After she hangs up, she goes on a bitchfit about how this wasn't that big of a deal and we shouldn't have went to the police and basically tells me to leave after I get annoyed and try to convince her otherwise.

Looks like I should have taken your advice and just left her. Don't be the mistake of a crazy girl like I was.

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Title [Update] Ex-boyfriend of girl I am seeing vandalized her room when she was spending the weekend at my place.
Author Swan_in_a_Cage
Upvotes 144
Comments 81
Date 27 February 2019 09:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/220131
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/avisws/update_exboyfriend_of_girl_i_am_seeing_vandalized/
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[–]BluePillEltonJohn253 points254 points  (10 children) | Copy

U are still talking to this bitch? u gonna end up dying because u got no abundance. RIP

[–]RedNightOwl51 points52 points  (0 children) | Copy

🤣 💀

[–]creamymoe13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Quality advice. also rip cause i genuinely lol'ed

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]rugged791 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

She probably didn't want to show the text messages because she probably was asking for the D.

This bitch almost died. You almost died. She almost took you with her. And all she has to say about it is "we shouldn't have went to the police"?

Diagnosis: This bitch is ALL THE WAY dumb. As in her IQ is a 0 on the meter. Velcro shoes and licking windows.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This bitch almost died. You almost died. She almost took you with her. And all she has to say about it is "we shouldn't have went to the police"?

Uh...I think the lesson that we can draw from all of this is that SHE MADE UP THE WHOLE FUCKING STORY

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well I'm literally a few steps above her in terms of socioeconomic status. I make 100k, have a fully paid for car, have 401k, savings, etc. And she lives with her single mom with no car and minimum wage. Though she is pretty, I am looking elsewhere.

[–]boy_named_su131 points132 points  (2 children) | Copy

Ghost this bitch, forever

[–]professor_mcamateur6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

plot twist: the ex boyfriend was a ghost

[–]mrpthrowa112 points113 points  (10 children) | Copy

Looks like I should have taken your advice and just left her.

Story of this fucking subreddit.

OP: There is this girl...

Everyone who had experience with spotting red flags and seeing through the cloud of haze and oneties motherfuckers have: Next!

Update: I talked to her and now I'm even worse, what should I do? HALP!

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (9 children) | Copy

Lol yeah this is my first woman after studying redpill so I definitely didn't hold frame at crucial moments.

[–]failingtheturingtest42 points43 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yeah, but you asked for advice and then ignored the fucking advice.

[–]TheStumblingWolf10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Advice is often only truly understand and absorbed after it's needed. Sadly.

[–]CodyCodeine13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

It’s these morons who let their egos control them. They come here for attention and ignore all advise. Extremely feminine

[–]rickmickman 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Extremely feminine

I was under the impression that females are generally more agreeable and seek/accept advice more readily.

He does seem to be motivated by an underlying scarcity mindset, which is obv beta. Is that what you meant or did I misunderstand something?

[–]vivid_mind1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They accept advice from other females more likely. Also they say they accept advice but they ignore it.

[–]CodyCodeine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No, it’s pretty well known that women will often complain about their problems and whine about it non stop, but ignore all advise given

[–]mrpthrowa5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Then fucking apologise and follow what you’re told next time you bumbling cuck instead of wasting our time and yours

[–]honeypuppet2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]CodyCodeine2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fem boy

[–]Builtblind53 points54 points  (5 children) | Copy

Is he the psychopath or is she???

Either way go find some new pussy you pussy

[–]barn3r33 points34 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah you pussy

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (3 children) | Copy

I literally called myself a pussy after this happened.

[–]mysticplaces8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stanky ass pussy that needs some hardcore prescription antibiotics to start to smell normal.

[–]TheStumblingWolf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a lesson you will remember, and make use of, for the rest of your life. That's a good thing. If you hadn't ignored RP advice you might've just repeated the mistake with a new girl.

[–]Incaahhh0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

good man. recognize and move on

[–]okuli20 points21 points  (9 children) | Copy

Did the guy admit that he vandalized her place? I wouldn't be surprised if she did all this shit herself.

BTW, that dude is stupid to talk to police at all. Don't Talk to the police

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (8 children) | Copy

Yeah the guy isn't very strategic.

This girl aborted their accidental kid without telling the guy she was even pregnant.

[–]ziphias37 points38 points  (5 children) | Copy

Dude, perma-ghost, now.

[–]russelln7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Literally go back in time and pre-ghost her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

What do I do with her stuff?

[–]HurricaneHugues41 points42 points  (1 child) | Copy

Put it in a box, drop at her mom's doorstep, ring the bell, get in your car and do the dash

[–]golgynat0r4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

1 / 1 best option available

[–]SergiuIlescu5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus dude get a clue, you're not going to last long like that

[–]mleko6916 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy fucking shit.

The thirst is strong in this one. Have some dignity dude.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A woman slaughtered her own child and the father painted a pentagram of blood in her room, dude get a grip.

[–]xNinja3617 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

She has drama written all over her. Ghost ASAP. Her ex boyfriend is obviously a beta nut case and he may even go after you.

[–]amwfhunter14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yup usually girls with crazy exes are probably crazy too. Not your mess to clean up, glad to see you are safe and unharmed.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly it was a very clean lesson. I got to witness the chaos from a safe distance and now I know who this girl is.

[–]scanfan202222 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

Level 10 Crazy. GTFO

[–]Hyper_Sonik21 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yup. She didn't want to get rid of her orbiter, which is why she lied. Then the police called HER out on lying. (failure to protect her) And now she's mad cuz you were 1. kinda mate guarding 2. getting authorities involved which she didn't want 3. unintentionally exposed her to criticism AND the fact she wanted to keep her orbiter.

Women love that type of attention from orbiters. You threatened her hypergamy. If a woman has orbiters actively vying for attention, remove your attention until she chooses that you're worth more.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Glad to learn this lesson with this girl. She's not LTR material so I'm okay with messing it up.

Though it's interesting she doesnt understand her own interests...she did request a restraining order when I took her in.

[–]ac7146 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

The cycle of abuse continues because people adopt victim mentalities and you’re just setting yourself up as a speed bump trying to intervene. Not everyone actually wants help fixing their problems.

Lesson learned and really appreciate the update!

[–]throwawaybpdnpd11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

And another BPD bites the dust !

[–]3chazthundergut7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I told you not to get involved

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re not going to leave her. We all know it.

[–]Nergaal7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

when the officer calls the guy, he ends up reading a whole string of texts from her to the officer. When the officer called her back to tell her what he said, the officer calls her out on the lie and she freaks out.

If she lies to a police officer, she WILL lie to you. I am pretty sure she has a boner for the crazy blood display from the other guy

[–]AstuteBlackMan5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

You should next but if that dude is this crazy and this bitch is more mad at you for what you're suggesting then you know damn well the ex boyfriend and her think on similar wavelengths. Shes not even totally freaked out about it as she should be.

Make sure to end it amicably however you can cause she may do some wild shit too

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

She hasn't contacted me since i left. I plan on having her stuff packed when she comes over next. .. just going to tell her she needs to spend time working on herself, I'm just a distraction, etc

[–]AstuteBlackMan3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good. I'm all with the next and ignore shit people are saying here but the main issue is she may be crazy as fuck too and just hiding it

[–]CheesyStravinsky-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Touching her stuff will ensure she calls her boyfriend to come kill you most likely... probably a bad move.

[–]ShakaLifted4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Its not your responsibility to help your girlfriend with her problems. Now that you have "helped" her she resents you for it. Honestly, your frame is weak if you feel responsible for her troubles.

Break up with her, Fuck other girls, try to stay away from LTR's, and most importantly change your FRAME for next time youre in a similar situation!!

[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't be a white knight dumbass, you're just like that dude who killed his girlfriend's rapist because it's the right thing to do. Turned out the girl cheated with her alleged "rapist" and she had to cover her track.

Hard next and perma ghost this cray cray.

[–]shady_nasty_mf2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Turns out, when the officer calls the guy, he ends up reading a whole string of texts from her to the officer.

Had a crazy bitch like this in my life once. Best thing I did was ghost her. She was a distraction at best and a disaster at worst. Cut her off son.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah shes pretty feminine and attractive. But every week she fucks something up and makes things into a disaster. It's like problems follow her around.

[–]failingtheturingtest2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Problems don't follow people. People create problems.

[–]Garathon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And your still with her? What does that say about you?

[–]shady_nasty_mf1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The craziest ones are and usually the best lays.

[–]someonesopinion69692 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

women don't like to admit to lying bro. that's just like reality. watch it in their nature mate. they may fuck up but they DO not want to take responsibility for it and will shit on you for doing so in such a serious circumstance.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm sorry, brother. Stalkers can be hamster fuel to women and the cops realize this. A few years ago this woman from my office went to management about how her ex--boyfriend was coming to kill her. They set up more cameras, added an extra guard and everyone was leaving the site in packs. The fired her sorry ass because was discovered making out with this dude in the parking lot during her lunch hour.

[–]Saulyboy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Whatever is harder than hard nexting, do that or STFU

[–]rpmc831 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

So she was leading him on in some way and pretending to be innocent?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

No he owned up to the crime. But she lied about her text for some reason. Probably because it mentions her abortion.

[–]HurricaneHugues15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Because they've texting back and forth behind your back

[–]ShakaLifted5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly what i was thinking. Also from the way OP described her reaction to her ex doing what he did, she didnt seem very fazed at all; Almost as if she was still fucking him!

[–]MiZiSTiK1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why would you even think you should have gotten involved? so dumb

[–]cptkong1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

So the ex is just a lvl 1 crook while the girlfriend on the other hand a lvl 50 mafia boss.

[–]Yashugan001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're forcing her to face her own behavior and reveal it to you.

She's upset because you're forcing down her narrative. You're "taking charge" when she doesn't want you to.

She's happiest in her own delusions and the imaginary world she's built up in her head.

So she gets mad at you. This is the kind of girl you fuck-n chuck, don't get involved in her world.

[–]Garathon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Seems like she's as crazy, lying about texts that can so easily be disproven. They deserve each other. Hard next.

[–]006rbc0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Cut all contact with her now. It is not your problem.

[–]Anacondainahonda0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She is essentially more disturbed at me for getting the authorities involved to deal with a psychopath than the psychopath himself. Insanity.

Psychopaths attract crazy chicks like honey attract bees. Even though she is very upset with what he's done, she is still attracted to him and don't want him to get in trouble. She will most likely be back with him sometime in the future, whether or not you are fucking her. Her hormones be crazy so GTFO before it's too late.

[–]CheesyStravinsky0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How was any of this ever your problem? lol

[–]goblinboglin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why are you putting yourself through so much shit because of some woman that is not your wife or very good LTR, lol?

Do your own shit, let her solve her issues herself.

You only get scolded when you do favors for women, you saw it yourself.

[–]TheBunk_TB0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This isn't healthy. She is showing signs of deception and she has a history of surrounding herself with substandard people. It is a good lesson to many others.

[–]HurricaneHugues-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy


Let him sacrifice you and eat your entrails.

[–]1Shyrk-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Are you in PVD?

Saw a comment mentioning RI. Fuck most of these fucking cucks responding to you, if you’re mid-twenties in PVD these days and operating under these principles, you’re so far above your peers it’s a fucking joke.

Guys on these forums act like everyone comes from some homogenous melting pot. If you’re from where I think you’re from, the conditioning forces are turned up to 11. Good on you for hitting what you have, stay chill, believe in yourself and crush shit. It’s a tough city.

[–]BradTheGymRat-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

U st00pid

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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