Last week I made a not so great post attempting to connect a couple of principles in quantum mechanics (how observation changes the results of the game) with controlling frame with your LTR.
In this post, I will try and be more direct and to the point by drawing a connection between some red pill truths and other natural laws in the science of economics.
How and why your LTR’s desire comes and goes (or goes and doesn’t return), and how to maintain it. – the law of supply and demand
The law of supply and demand in economics - The law of supply and demand is a theory that explains the interaction between the supply of a resource (i.e. your time, attention, and presence) and the demand for that resource. The theory defines the effect that the availability of that resource and the desire (or demand) for that product has on its price. Generally, low supply and high demand increases price. In contrast, the greater the supply and the lower the demand, the price tends to fall.
Red pill principles governing attraction and desire (seen in levels 1-5 of dread) such as preselection (social proof and SHOWING you are wanted by other women), differentiation (a fun life apart from your wife), frame, and other passive DHVs run parallel to this fundamental law in economics.
For example – The ONLY resource of value we as men really have and can control is our time, attention, and presence… that’s it. Remember though, you must demonstrate (create or maintain) that value. Your wife or LTR will NOT value your time, attention, and presence if you over supply it. Just like in the law of supply and demand, a flood of supply erodes the value. This usually does not happen overnight. When many guys get married or move in with their girl, the lost their differentiation (their old life, their friends, etc.). You in a sense, become to entangled with your girl, and a result, become too infused with her. Relationships need a form of individuality and separateness to thrive. David Schnarch talks about this in his book “Secrets of a Passionate Marriage.” The relationship is created and maintained within this space. Women crave a sense of mystery in their man. You must game her to create it. That is the core of dread level 3. Build a life apart from your wife. This by default decreases the supply of your time, presence, and attention COVERTLY. This is what increases the value of YOU, which in turn, will raise her (or other women’s) interests in you.
Just like the law of supply and demand, it searches for a market equilibrium. Unfortunately, if you oversupply yourself by always being around and being lazy and boring, the equilibrium that your “market” will find is a dead bedroom. That is why the markets are always in state of flux and constantly growing, pulling back, or changing. Your LTR will do the same. You have to keep on your mission and keep growing to find ways to create and maintain value.
Second example – preselection – this is basically, “I don’t really have in interest in it until someone else plays with it.” We all have seen this behavior in small children. A kid can have toy collecting dust for months in the bottom of a toy box, but as soon as a friend comes over and gets it out and shows interest in it, the kid suddenly wants the toy back with fervor and guards it with his life. Your girl works the same way when she perceives someone else wants you.
Again, like in the law of supply and demand, the increased demand for a limited supply you, makes your value increase. Your woman (or other women) will “buy” your “product” (i.e. your awesomeness) with sex. Introduce, competition anxiety, which makes pussy wet.
Final example – maintaining frame and passing shit tests (dread level 1)
When your woman is shit testing you, she is covertly telling you “I am demanding alpha… I want to “buy” and value alpha… show me alpha you pussy!” By losing frame, being a pussy, and failing shit tests you’re supplying beta whenever she is demanding alpha. Buyers disappear from markets and search for other markets in economics whenever the products they are demanding aren’t supplied. She is telling you supply alpha. She isn’t buying beta, so when you do things to placate or please her, she sees you as a bitch. So, why would you supply beta when the buyer is demanding alpha? The law of supply dictates that sellers (i.e. you or other men) will bring their supplies to demanding markets (your girl wanting alpha). Guess what…. Eventually, a supplier WILL show up if you don’t. Do the opposite of what your blue bill upbringing tells you.
In conclusion, I write these examples because I believe that many of us men think analytically and can metaphorically connect these types of rational and concrete examples. It’s easy to think of the science of economics rationally and understand its principles. However, many new unplugged guys struggle at first because they still have their emotional baggage from being blue pill. Internalize this and apply it, BUT DON’T TALK ABOUT IT WITH YOUR GIRL and DON’T FUCKING TELL HER about your grand plan to make yourself a better man. She doesn’t give a fuck about your lip service. Do it! Show her. In most cases, she won’t want to be left behind by a valuable and self-improving man that is going places. In fact, you’ll see subtle signs of her onboarding (many times subtly and slowly). Examples of this: She’ll start working out when she sees you working out. She’ll shit test you less, become more respectful, and even bid for your time and attention. Look at her behavior, it will be a tell all.