Imagine you haven't swallowed the pill yet and you are at a party talking to a cute girl you just met when a fit, well dressed, confident man walks up and starts talking to both of you. Eventually he says So, are you two boyfriend and girlfriend? and the girl giggles while you stand there feeling uncomfortable.

Then the man puts his hand on your shoulder and says that you should lighten up and enjoy rest of the party. Meanwhile the girl has turned her back to you to face him as he lightly touches her arm. After a minute or so he puts his hand on her back and guides her across the room where they sit on a couch and start making out.

Wouldn't you hate that guy too?