Anybody find conversation or listening to women annoying?

thirstybitch13 · 2019-03-07T09:10:53+00:00

You don't have to be RP'd to find them annoying. It's just that here, we are better at understanding why they're like that and keeping them from being the center of our world, which in turn lets us a) control behavior better and b) walk away if it gets to be too much.

The relationship sub is full of people trying to understand why a girl would do one thing and say another. My advice is always the same. Look at what she does, not what she says. That's your best indicator of not only what she's thinking, but how she sees you and her dynamic with you.

Fun fact, if you so much as HINT that a guy needs to be the man and take control of a situation, you will see a downvote brigade the likes of which you've never experienced.

Women don't stop being women just because you aren't fucking them. This includes your mother, sister, lunch lady, or friend. I know we spend a ton of time on TRP talking about how to spin plates and get women, and sometimes we remind ourselves that TRP is about living the life of a true male, but it's also nice to remember that TRP can help you deal with familial relationships as well. I'm long past the point where I place emphasis on my "relationship" with my mom, but I can still see RP theories and as gross as it sounds to hear it put in this context, maintaining frame with your mom is just another part of TRP. Just uh, don't plate her...

dawgsen · 2019-03-07T10:05:05+00:00

Ok, i"ll say it.

I prefer to fuck a 6 that i have an intellectual conversation with, than fuck a 9 that's dumb.

Experience taught me, 6 with brains is the way to go in the bedroom.

9 is for dinners and bragging.

AnyDoughnut · 2019-03-07T05:24:38+00:00

For intellectual conversation? They are mostly terrible at it. Don't bother.

The only time conversations with women is fun is when they are sexually charged.

vandaalen · 2019-03-07T07:00:51+00:00

Anybody else here hate going to the dentist?

Schhwing · 2019-03-07T08:26:10+00:00

Well lead the conversation in ways you find entertaining

SimplyFishOil · 2019-03-07T07:56:42+00:00

No because I actually care about people and want to talk to them and listen to what they have to say

Andorli · 2019-03-07T09:11:06+00:00

I’ve noticed they hamster and spit out BS all the time.

Maybe the problem isn't ALL women, but actually your perception of their words and the ones you choose to hang out with?

Maybe reading a lot of Redpill bro's advice got to your head and now you think everything a woman says is automatically a hamster?

Maybe men hamster a lot of shit too, especially betas whose hamster is usually stronger than Jón Páll Sigmarsson in his prime?

Maybe you should also pay attention to quality of women that you acquaint yourself with, because if you are talking about bar/social gathering conversation, then trust me 90 percent (rough estimation) spit out BS regardless of their gender because most of human population doesn't have ability for retrospective analysis of what they say on the spot or otherwise.

Maybe if you change your perspective from "listening to women is annoying" to "listening to stupid people is annoying and most people are stupid in one way or the other and I need to try and raise my own level of self-awareness and intelligence to attract people who are better overall" then you will not have such problems and use stupid laws to justify your thought patterns.

But hey I am just a stranger on the internet, what do I know?

fightclubdevil · 2019-03-07T14:42:11+00:00

I find that it's mostly women of a lesser mental capacity that blabber and lack intelligent conversation among one another. IMO educated women that I have been around don't do that nearly as much

leftajar · 2019-03-07T18:54:14+00:00

You're approaching this too logically.

She can't hold philosophical conversations with you. Hell, most of the time she won't even be logically coherent from moment to moment.

This is how women evolved, to engage in the necessary task of attending to infants. It's not "by design," because evolution doesn't design anything; but it is an effective adaptation.

As a man, the solution is to lower your expectations. Time with women is Fun Time. Make fun of her, tell silly stories, make nonsensical jokes, accuse her of being a poopoo head. Laugh at her ridiculousness and then pick her up.

Without women, we'd be too rough and logical. Allow her feminine energy into your emotional space, and it can refresh you from the harshness of the world.

jrterry1969 · 2019-03-07T15:33:29+00:00

I like talking to women. Getting laid would be a miserable experience if I didn't. Maybe I enjoy teasing them, shocking them, turning them on, getting them to reveal things to me. The interaction is where I decide if I am into them or not. I also like having a chick's rapt attention, knowing she is thinking about, at least, making out.

Not to say that there are no annoying women. I just don't spend time with them.

bluefingerblue · 2019-03-07T13:36:11+00:00

I won’t see a girl unless she can at least hold a conversation about interesting topics. She may not be knowledgeable about a certain topic, but as long as she’s at least curious to understand it through my teaching, that’s enough for me.

Some girls can’t even do that though. If she can’t, next.

samuelcollin · 2019-03-07T21:03:22+00:00

This sub died some ago. Still here for the few people who occasionally drop knowledge.

NextForever · 2019-03-07T22:40:35+00:00

The fuck is this?

Plenty of women out there with a multi-faceted and objective take on existence/conversation.

Plenty of insecure men that I can’t stand more than 5 seconds with.

People are people; and yes, there are discrepancy’s and I see where you are coming from. But we are all on a bell curve and there is always someone more intelligent/interesting; regardless of gender.

friendswithcocaine · 2019-03-07T08:21:35+00:00

What the fuck is this shit - Do y’all hate women? I thought this was a cool community, but this is fucked

good-look · 2019-03-07T14:35:21+00:00

stop taking conversations w girls srsly. they’re shit for srs convos but should be fun, don't be autistic.

learn to enjoy feminine energy

ShotgunTRP · 2019-03-07T05:16:32+00:00

Yes. It’s like pulling teeth they talk 🐎 💩

I tease them like the retards they are

Anacondainahonda · 2019-03-07T06:52:55+00:00

Women are so annoying. In their head however this is the ultimate shit test/fitness test. "Can he actually deal with me being emotional or is he weak/if he can't handle this, how's he going to handle being an assertive leader/if he can't stand at me at my best, what will he do when I reveal my worst"

Ignore it. Focus on actions not words. Make them feel heard through your body language like eye contact, but don't talk. And then don't engage, look away. Use your attention as the baton for which that doggy will do tricks.

throwawa6ksjdbendkfo · 2019-03-07T11:10:20+00:00

In certain discourse yeah. Talking politics, fitness, relationships etc. Yeah. I learned young to.keep that to a minimum otherwise i gotta hear abiut male privilege and detox diets. Im good.

PerplexingPegasus_ · 2019-03-07T13:54:23+00:00

My default line of thinking is that they are dumb until proven otherwise but that’s my general rule for interacting with people. Regardless of that, the women who do annoy me or devoid of substance get zero attention.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-03-07T08:22:33+00:00

Find more interesting hobbies and intellectual pursuits than listening to women making noises with their mouths. I tend to just tune that shit out like a radio in the background.

Had girlfriends shit test me about tuning out (despite the fact that they already know they're boring and asinine and can't STFU.) I just say "huh, did I miss something important?"(odds are 40:1 I didn't.) Then I grin and make them repeat themselves a couple times unless it's something I actually give a shit about.

I've flat out told several women they never talk about anything of any consequence or merit when they're around other women. Like they very deliberately dumb everything down. They didn't disagree, they said something like "that's not the point, you're supposed to be paying attention, because: Special-Snowflake."

flatox · 2019-03-07T14:12:34+00:00

Generally? Not at all. A specific type of woman? Of course. But definitely not all.

MattyAnon · 2019-03-07T21:06:23+00:00

I’ve noticed they hamster and spit out BS all the time

Yes, which is why you avoid listening to them.

It’s also annoying to see others mindlessly believe them and pay attention to their words rather than actions.

Yup, people are stupid and won't be helped.

Law 38 says to keep this to yourself, which I believe you should always do. How do you guys deal with this?

Yup. Smirk and get on with YOUR life.

trp28287 · 2019-03-07T21:06:49+00:00

Wtf is this thread. No I don’t find it annoying. I find listening to 90% of women annoying, but I also find listening to 90% of men annoying

foss91 · 2019-03-07T14:12:30+00:00

Women aren't good at intellectual conversation because they don't care. They are not programmed to find it interesting, so when you do it, it feels to them like doing your taxes feels to you. There was an experiment where babies where given a selection of toys to play with. The males chose mostly mechanical objects, like cars and buildings, while the females chose dolls. Because it is in their nature to care about feelings, body language, facial expressions, social interactions, hierarchy etc. If you ever listen to women talking to each other, all they talk about is who did what. My husband did this, my friend did that with a coworker and she is having trouble with the baby etc etc. Have you ever seen two women talking willingly about the root causes of Vietnam war for instance? They do not care about abstract intellectual matters, and so they will try to drag the conversation away from hard logic, making it emotional through various methods, and then they will annoy you. A well behaved, cultured woman will be mostly silent if a serious matter is brought up in a group, because she doesn't feel modern societal pressure to pretend she is a man. So, just be aware of that, don't get all fussed up and keep the mood light. Heavy, difficult matters are best discussed with your friends/ father.

showerdudes9 · 2019-03-07T05:23:40+00:00

Yeah sweetie, totally normal to think that men are perfect creatures compared to women, not misogynistic at all. Keep patting yourself on your back for being so enlightened and more intelligent than the women you meet. That's totally why you have to use TRP in the first place, right?

/s

ghosts_of_me · 2019-03-07T08:37:40+00:00

Yeah i always find myself drifting away into my own thoughs while plates are talking. Thankfully theyve called me out on it and i try more to listen properly when they speak. Learning to listen cant be a bad habit to have, hey you might get to learn more about someone.

KeisezrGo · 2019-03-07T14:00:00+00:00

I am never interested in what people have to say unless it involves me , that is especially correct with women so i just feign interest.

InsidiousCurve · 2019-03-07T18:11:55+00:00

If 1 on 1 with girl you haven't seen in a while, and she starts insulting table with group of guys next to you based on their looks, she nervous around you? They just looked like standard incel gamers having a good time eating and chatting. I was thinking do most women think like this, damn.

Title	Anybody find conversation or listening to women annoying?
Author	RangerZ3
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Date	March 7, 2019 5:12 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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