now a year after looking into TRP/MRP, I have one thing in mind, I wanted some feedback on.
A few years back I had a girl, where I did everything right according to book. The effect was, that she did a lot of stuff for me. Was down to fck when ever I wanted. Invested a lot. And I trusted her.
Now after 3 years LTR, I grew bored of her and ended the relationship. It was just no more flame burning inside me.
To TRP I came because of an oneitis, I couldn't get enough from. It destroyed me (in the time I let it), but I was addicted.
Now after I navigated through both experiences... and reading all here. Do you settle for a woman you trust and stuff, even the feelings aren't there? I can hardly imagine this really working out. What I would look for, would be a match between both, but I know I can only do the right thing, if I'm not overly attached... So atm I'm confused about what is the right long term plan for this? Just switch every few years? Could work, but I'm not sure if I get fullfiled by that, as I like the concept of doing something to complete mastery...
How are your thought about this?