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We don’t do that / You don't want us answering that.

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March 21, 2019

Based on a lot of recent posts it needs to be restated what you can expect to learn from the course materials and the local mrp study group:

  • Why women behave a certain way... especially in response to your actions/inactions

  • What tools are available to you

  • Advice on how you use those tool with examples

  • Where you are screwing up and why (when detailed descriptions of your problems are provided).

Not that you won’t get responses but 100% what we are not here to do is MAKE YOUR IMPORTANT LIFE DECISIONS FOR YOU.

Examples of things We CAN NOT decide for you

  • whether you marry or not
  • whether you get a divorce
  • have a/more kid(s)
  • buy that car
  • take that job
  • cohabitate
  • move
  • stay monogamous or not (cheat)

We can provide the tools and we can help you learn how to use them, but YOU must decide what you build with it. We’re all about helping you understand how to use the tools to form the frame (scribe the map) of what you want, but you have to know at least that much first.

If you can’t even make those basic decisions you are definitely not in a position to evaluate responses to those questions.

Reading “No More Mr Nice Guy” and “When I say no I feel guilty” can be a great starting point if you find yourself this desperate. There are plenty of other resources out there (secular and religious) if you’re asking the bigger picture questions first. Way out of MRP scope.

Now if you are asking these questions because you are curious what the population here thinks?

I’ll leave it to those who like to fill out surveys. Again, these are answers from guys who use the tools here and don’t indicate an “aught” just an “IS”. The information you gather will be from personal choices those that are knowledgeable to various degrees on our toolset believe are right...for whatever reasons they have crafted.

Posting anyway or you are reading this in retrospect?

If other mods remove your post I would consider it a mercy killing. But I personally won’t stop these questions from posting. Just realize you are asking for a world of unpleasantness because you are advertising you are not a person who can make even basic life decisions and that puts you on the bottom peg in a group of guys on the respect ladder.

So your responses will range from

  • Strangers actually making important life decisions for you.

Think of this like cheating on a test. Well, you got an answer. And it may help you pass that exam. But you’ve not learned basic life 101 or how to arrive at that conclusion. So now going forward you still won’t ever be able to grow and answer yourself. And the more you keep coming back asking the same question you shouldn’t be asking… that’s a downwards slide that’s ugly to watch. You’ll stay lost. You’ll bumble on through still bewildered. And maybe at the end hold a degree in something another person wanted that isn’t what you really like.

“Civil Engineering? What? I really want to be a Doctor!”

Too late, eetzpuzzyRpill69 liked that he was an engineer and you did keep asking him what to do with your life.

  • Tough love aka hazing.

Sometimes to help you. Sometimes to provide you as an example to the others who are still helpable. Really it’s just what YOU take from it. Or… sometimes Biff is just standing in the corner with his plunger because he’s a dick and likes to hurt others with a wooden handle in painful places. But he’s our dick and at least knows what he wants in life and he took the advice on how to use a lathe, chisel and glue to craft that plunger.

Your life is YOUR project.

You pick the direction first then ask how to get there.

Lastly if you have still 0 clue as to where to start: post your stats and situation with an end of "Still deciding what I want" in the Married Red Pill Weekly Own Your Shit thread.

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Title We don’t do that / You don't want us answering that.
Author Countpudyoola
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Comments 29
Date 21 March 2019 03:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]hystericalbonding13 points14 points  (12 children) | Copy

I've always enjoyed your overviews as one of the supportive big brothers of MRP. It's a different angle than Steel's guide to MRP. You spend more time on the purpose.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (11 children) | Copy

It takes a village. Steel's the man. I want to grow up to be like him.

In the meantime I'll keep spouting my quasi reformed hippie flavor until they decide to finally band together and kick me out.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"4 points5 points  (10 children) | Copy

Just realize you are asking for a world of unpleasantness because you are advertising you are not a person who can make even basic life decisions and that puts you on the bottom peg in a group of guys on the respect ladder.

Amen, I tried to say that before in my Acta Non Aska post.

You've said it much better.

Do schools need to start teaching basic decision-making skills? Christ, I'm surprised half the retards can manage to choose the color of their socks on any given day.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Christ, I'm surprised half the retards can manage to choose the color of their socks on any given day.

That's easy. They have only white socks.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'll have to reference that for the style week.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy

Do schools need to start teaching basic decision-making skills?

No. Boys need to be taught how to be men, by men, not that 23 year old female school teacher who is wondering how to integrate 'toxic masculinity' into the curriculum.

I can kinda see the place for compulsory military training, that, y'know, china korea etc all do.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yah, but this cesspool itself - and the topic of this post - illustrates that the men you're talking about aren't often capable of teaching the kids what they need to learn.

The next dumbass who strolls in asking "should I marry the village whore" or "should I get a lobotomy" or "should I lick the cum off my wife's boyfriend's penis" clearly is not who you have in mind.

So who is?

Who is this mythical, military-trained, non-woman-man you refer to?

If not the nasty whores - then who else?

[–]simbarlionRed Beret5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

yes that is a good point. In an ever decreasing pool of real men, who is going to teach?

Its like in 'the last Jedi" when luke dies, there are none left. Although ironically it is a girl who is 'secretly' skilled to take over. So in years to come, look out for the fall of the last "Red Beret", with a female replacement.

Irony is i love teaching my boys this stuff, its very natural. Subtle comments like "that's a pretty swimsuit".

BOOM, new synapse.

[–]hack3geRed Beret7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve been reading the jocko books with my boys and they eat that shit up. It’s like they naturally know it’s things they need to know.

My wife rolls her eyes and comments about how that’s not right. I say don’t worry sweetie it’s man stuff you wouldn’t understand. Even if a man knew what was right most would still placate their wife and soften the message.

Sometimes I wonder if I take it too far though (not really) - the other day my 8 year old rolled down the window and screamed “Hey ladies” with a big ass smirk on his face and an eye brow raise and got a bunch of college girls laughing. I got shit tested about that for almost a week - was funny as shit though.

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're crazy.

I like that.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I keep telling myself we attract more of the needy, not that the needy grow in number.

But then again... I sometimes lie to myself to get through the day and keep hope for the future alive.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

One of my favorites: “Should I spin plates?”

If you’re asking strangers online, you’re probably not going to be spinning any plates

[–]ExpatRights0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]IRunYourRiver5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Reading “No More Mr Nice Guy” and “When I say no I feel guilty” can be a great starting point if you find yourself this desperate.

Ahem. Many of us are/were that desperate. Blue pill is tough on a brother.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Glad you posted this.

I’m about to get into a post of advanced technique of the basics and the interdisciplinary functionality of the basics actually pulling you through as you push into defcon dread and either pull the plug and/or quit fighting on the 1000 foot rope fight.

Not sure on the audiences ability to actually absorb the content especially with all the “waft do now shit questions” whatever.

[–]hystericalbonding0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A follow up to Sepean's when to next your wife?

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely interested in reading this.

[–]DCMike011 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

How did you find a local mrp group? Meetup?

[–]simbarlionRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You don't.

You find an activitiy that combines skill, strength (or fitness), and instills at least some fear, preferably a lot. You go find a group, if you like them, you join up. Do you talk about MRP directly? No.

Hike, hunt, surf, bike, martial arts, ball sports that are played on grass. There are others of course. Every so often you should return home thinking "fuck i am glad i made it out of that".

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

In my post I'm talking about the virtual...this place. But simbarlion's response is spot on.

[–]alphalifeskills0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You do not talk about fight club

[–]nobsyoga0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I found a local group on FB.

[–]hack3geRed Beret1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Not gonna lie you gave me the best idea for a reality tv show. I’ll make sure you make it into the credits as the creative genius.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Seriously though. Imagine a reality show - a REAL one - where BP dudes who are unhappy in their life and marriage seeking some alternative truth are put through RP bootcamp.

That would be some funny ass shit to watch Rambo on TV. Sure, we would all cringe but SHIT what if it worked?

No fucking idea which company and station would choose to produce that toxic masculinity show. /s

[–]testy681 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The guys that need to watch it wouldn't be allowed to by their girlfriends. "Let's watch Mama Mia instead"

[–]NMMNG_10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

“Building a Man” this fall on ABC...

[–]framelessglasses0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

...ending a post with any viariation of "what do now" is askin' for a trashin' that Merp's will deliver.

[–]Perfectinmyeyes0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Great post

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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