Why do girls throw themselves at you when you are cocky?

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March 28, 2019

I have gone thru some phases during my monk mode journey the past few years. I was once humble, then experienced lots of success and overly arrogant in a bad way. And then i now have what i consider true confidence bordering on arrogance (aka "the golden balance"), and the girls fucking throw themselves at me nowadays.

Not too humblebrag, but why is arrogance/cockiness so attractive compared to humble confidence? You always hear about humble confidence being the ultimate, but in my experience the cockiness gets them wounded up.

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Title Why do girls throw themselves at you when you are cocky?
Author JosephBosa
Upvotes 82
Comments 128
Date 28 March 2019 03:54 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/223533
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[–]SocalFun777 1 points [recovered]  (69 children) | Copy

Girl's are always willing to follow those who "seem" to know what they're doing. Being cocky shows that you're very confident and don't care what others think about you. Cocky personalities will just piss of other men who know you're full of bullshit and women with past experiences with cocky men.

[–]Anacondainahonda14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cocky personalities will just piss of [...] women with past experiences with cocky men.

Or soak their panties. Probably both.

[–]resnine51 points52 points  (57 children) | Copy

Cocky personalities will just piss of other men who know you're full of bullshit and women with past experiences with cocky men.

fuck'em what they gonna do about it?

[–]throwawaytrpguy45 points46 points  (50 children) | Copy

I dunno, beat you to a pulp?

[–]Channel_oreo8 points9 points  (6 children) | Copy

also when you are attractive and cocky you have higher chance of getting beat up. Average dudes getting cocky gets a pass.

[–]grbr36 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

This has gotten me down too. I get paranoid to go out more so from the potential of beta male fags getting in my face when I let out my inner alpha. Now I go armed and feel more confident about holding my frame against those cucks.

[–]Channel_oreo4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'm in cali so gun laws are fucked. I also worked in a female dominated field. Most men there are average looking and are BP asf. I'm not saying I'm handsome but I get a fair amount of attention from women. When I try to socialize and be friendly to women I always get the stink eye from other men. That's not even being cocky just friendly and sociable.

[–]Bigdoggg3232 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Same bro. When you get cocky you get a bunch of dudes start hating. Fucking cucks they’re made they don’t have swag

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The curse of being a beta

[–]resnine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Crabbucket mentality, bp billies trying to pull anyone higher up than them down. I get this shit too, anytime I get female attention (chatting them up) and some other men are around (esp BP whiteknights) I'll just get this looks of jealousy mixed with anger from them. It's because I am doing something they will they had the balls to do, or they think if they did the same it wouldn't work because they aren't tall, handsome, or any other xyz excuse.

[–]throwawaytrpguy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wish my country had the second amendment, damn

[–]resnine2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You got problems bruv

[–]JeffPrince15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah it's definitely a good idea to get a reputation as a douchebag

[–]kendallb1835 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

At work, your beta ass boss may start to low key target you, or your alpha as fuck boss decides he needs to flex his power and put you back in your place. Either once can have life altering consequences

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Be passive aggressive.

[–]resnine3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Pretty much. Hardly anyone will call you out for being the cocky arrogant guy. Most will just look at you with resentful eyes but who the hell is going to confront me? slim to none.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Especially when you have friends in [VERY] high places ;-)

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K184 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not if you can back it up. Most men will be pissed off, because they can't do it. They want their little blue pill bubble of being 'mr nice humble dude' not to be threatened. They had the balls ripped out of them and thrown in a river far too long ago.

[–]-ThePathIsTheGoal-0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Boom. This is it right here. It’s always better to genuinely exude the confidence as in, you do know what you’re doing, because in the long run your “faking it” will be tested and most likely crumble. (Aka: be a true red pilled man).

However, this IS why girls flock to the golden balance, as you put it. The perception that you’ve got it figured out, that you know what you’re doing (whether you really do or not) makes them want to follow you. They want the answers to the questions they have, so they want you to lead them.

This doesn’t just pertain to women, it’s everyone. It’s your friends (examine the beta followers that high SMV men have) coworkers, potential clients (think charismatic personal trainers and their gullible clients).

[–]resnine1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yeah, they really love that look of confidence - the "I have it all figured out look" the "I can conquer all obstacles look" the "I can handl it look". Reading trp enough will give that sense, at times being out in public gives me that feeling like in the movie Limitless were the star can see all the moves unfolding and everything makes sense. Frame, shit-tests, AB/BB, abundance mentality/scarcity mentality.

Any power man has a horde of betas. Look at Rappers and their beta posse. But once you lose power, the house of cards crumbles and they will turn on you.

[–]-ThePathIsTheGoal-0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Spot on. I’ve experienced this and realized it myself on a much smaller scale. I used to natural bodybuild and at my physical peak had a horde of beta followers and lackeys. I injured my shoulder, lost all of my gains soon thereafter was forgotten about. This showed me the true nature of reality. It was a red pill truth that I didn’t realize at the time.

You jus be valuable to other people. They do not love you unconditionally (except your family). Lose your “value”, lose your friends/women.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's a sobering thought to all men that at any moment they could lose it all. Any strength, power, fame could all be taken away. Look at all the celebrities losing their fame. People getting injured. No one is invincible or impervious. But that doesn't mean one should think of one's self less, or break frame. But it is a sobering thought that centers/balances me. People only like you for how you make them feel/what you give them. Once you lose that thing, you are dirt to them. I'm sure we've all experienced some variation to this more times than once.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Mate, I've had it in other areas, too. When I was younger, I went to acting school. Good school, too. I was tall, skinny, introverted. When I was on stage, though, I was the shit. Full of confidence and presence, and great craft. I would ALWAYS pull women. They would come to me. They wanted to follow and learn how I did it.

I didn't understand red pill, obviously, so didn't look at those things properly. Now I look back, and it's like 'aaaahhhh, now I see it'.

Even today, when I do things I'm really confident at, and show proficiency at things others want to do, you 'feel' those eyes on you.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, you're on the right path. In my experience, Red Pill started out as a means to get women. On a deeper level, you are learning a hell of a strong, healthy, awesome way to live (and get women).

It's like, all the things we learn to become more attractive, have a whole 'nother side to them.

Keep going, keep exploring the concepts. Keep internalising. Glad to see you're doing well.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, this philosophy goes well beyond just "getting women". Frame is literally in every interaction from the lady at the post-office, to negotiation salaries with the big bosses, to intimidating thugs on the beach. Internalization is pretty extraordinary. It's one thing to read about all the field-reports, concepts, but actually BEING those things is quite a shock... especially when you see how girls treat you differently based on this information.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This shit is important. It's easy for us to still self-criticise, and have the 'inner critic'.

Being red pilled, and continually ingesting it, puts you like levels ahead than most other men in regards to 'getting it'.

You're not always going to get the girl, you may have rejection, but you get better and better and 'getting it'. Put it in practice continually, and you gain more confidence. It's trust. You truly do know what the fuck you're doing.

Always pat yourself on the back, and whilst there are things to work on, always pay attention to what you're doing right.

[–]Rkingpin38 points39 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's a sign of strong frame

The natural feminine state is submissive. They cant help but get curious about the alpha douche.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's a sign of strong frame

The correct answer.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you're good looking, you can get away with most things lol.

[–]resnine2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep, that's the Halo Effect.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K1822 points23 points  (6 children) | Copy

Return of Kings.

It's just bluepill shit on a deeper level. 'Women want humble guys, nice guys, guys who put all their masculinity away and puts them first'. ABSOLUTE HORSESHIT.

Take the red pill, and see more and more the way things truly are. Women NEED to be led. They need a motherfucker who can face up to the world and say 'I'm the fuck'n shit'. Shows power, dominance, leadership.

This is where blue pill dudes get totally fucking lost. They BELIEVE it when the feminine imperative says 'we want humble nice guys'. It's so utterly fucking hard to get an AFC to see he needs to take all that focus off the bitch...and throw it onto themselves.

EARN the right to say you're a prize. Carry it like a badge of honour. RETURN OF KINGS...the way it should have always been.

[–]resnine2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yep, media is lying. It's this weird ideal form of a man she THINKS she wants but when they are confronted with it they aren't interested anymore. It's like those beta boybands or K-pop bands where lots of teen girls act like they want them so badly but I gurantee if they met them got to know the guys they would be repulsed. I think it has something to do with their motherly nuturing nature, caretakers and such so they pretend they like boys but they really want men. They crave leadership, direction, and dominance. But pretend they hate it, you just gotta break through that force-field front and you begin to see their true colors.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Yep. Really, this is all basic Red Pill 101 stuff. It is interesting to take a step back every now and then, though, and just see the complete and utter bullshit they've tried to feed society on mass.

It's so simple, but at the same time the feminine imperative did an amazing job fooling everyone.

The thing is, most beta boys and late bloomers had zero success with women when young/highschool. They never got a taste of their real nature.

Of course, everyone wants women. Women (feminism) say they want a particular guy, and hate the other guy. Naturally poor betas are going to think 'oh man, well if she's saying that, better follow it'.

There hasn't been much greater illusion pulled on a mass scale.

[–]resnine1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I would actually say I am taking control of my masculinity, actually exploring it. For most of my life I never put any thought into it. Felt women and men are exactly the same. Masculinity was just a word to me.... not any more, it's extremely important. What's so bad is the state of society which shames masculinity and acts like it's a bad thing, and that femininity is the most perfect beautiful thing ever. Both are good and bad, but clearly one is getting better pr.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're exactly right. The bad thing is, how much of this 'toxic masculinity' talk is fueled by a feminine imperative. Once you see it, you notice that pretty much any man coming out and talking pro masculinity is shamed.

The deeper you go, the deeper you see how a lot of the narrative has effected behavior and beliefs on a core level. It can take a long time for the pill to truly ingest.

[–]juggernaut81 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

EARN the right to say you're a prize.

All correct except for this. You don't 'earn' anything. You CLAIM it for yourself. No one is going to award you any right.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think we're using different words for the same 'feeling'. Totally feel you.

That's the best feeling. So fucking empowering. For me, it's like going through the process of 'earning' it...by your own standards and validation...then you're right, that point where you CLAIM it.

[–]mcr00sterdota14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Confidence is hot.

[–]Bigdoggg32339 points40 points  (5 children) | Copy

Nah I don’t definitly have more success with the arrogance cockiness too. A girl will say something and I’ll reply with “cuz I can” and I can see her pants get soaked. Cocky arrogance all the way. The dudes will hate

[–]shrimpeye 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

It only works for so long though. You need to be careful to not overdo it because it can go from an attractive trait to a simply annoying one, and the line between the two isn’t always clear. Try and not be too one sided about it

[–]Bigdoggg3230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

True true. Too Much arrogance will get old. But from the jump you gotta have a I’m the shit attitude

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Try-hardism is always a risk when starting out... like most things, it's all about balance.

[–]resnine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cocky arrogance might seem like cokcy arrogance but really, underneath it is just pure confidence. It's the confidence they find sexy af. That boldness, that forwardness, that courage. It's all those things.

[–]Internet-Troll10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

similar experience but humble never worked for me

[–]archaic-guy5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Becuase people guide themself by apparences and are impulsive as consecuence a lot of girls don´t check if the guy is an Alpha or an Ashole with a big mouth who cannot back his own words.

Also when you act cocky you are showcasing your security in the short term while being humble only works when you are already the Triple Alphalpha and people know your capabilities.

But all this doesnt matter becuase I have been called Cocky even when I was in my nice guy phase so my advise is to just stop caring about what the others say and just use your normal security aura.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Girls don't respect humbleness at all, so true.

[–]Sin-Silver6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Humble confidence takes time to show, cocky confidence is apparent almost immediately. The later has a big advantage in situations where your being introduced to people on a rapid fire basis, like on a night out.

[–]resnine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How do you show cocky confidence though?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

Think about them as cavewomen and it all makes sense. They're wired to go get knocked up by Cave Chad from the next valley over and then return to their family or Billy Beta Toolmaker for help with the kid*. No one's hunting mammoth anymore so they're always looking for signs of fitness. Similarly, their brain might register some lowlife criminal as a badass warlord with good genes. Civilizations tried to control this(EG with punishments for adultery and arranged marriages) for millennia but that's falling apart now.

*Women become attracted to betas when pregnant(or her body thinks its pregnant). This is also one of the big side-effects of birth control no one talks about. A woman will start or stop birth control and suddenly want to get away from her man.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

You really think they operate so animalistically? This is a bit extreme, you make it sound like they don't have any free-will that they are enslaved by their impulses. Simply acting on some base-instinct level. Like when they see Chad, their mind goes "Must sumbit to him".

[–]IvyExcess0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Um, yeah. A lot of them are exactly like this. I've been the beta and the chad. I've walked into a bar and in 15 minutes had a girl away from her date and sucking my dick behind the dumpster. A little alcohol and the right dude saying the right thing at the right time and it's literally a switch you can learn to flip.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Can't say I've been the Chad per se. But I've been in situations where I did something DT or bold and had them all over me. So you think they aren't making judgements based on any sort of thinking, just impulses? I mean if that were true how do we have so many politicians and professors that are teachers, they aren't animalistic and just operating on primal instincts and impulses. They are thought-out, logical, and wise. Sure there are dumpster sluts but there are also STEM teachers, I think it goes both ways.

[–]IvyExcess0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

let me give you the best advice that was the literal first thing i learned when i opened up david deangelo's material as a freshman in college having just broken up with a fat whiny chick:


read that again


it is a feeling. it can be triggered. girls cant help feeling it. it is biology over sociology. and you can learn it. Attraction is not a choice. and thank (biology) god for that

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Which book?

[–]IvyExcess0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Double Your Dating Ebook, combined with several of his CD and DVD programs. Cocky Comedy and Sexual Communication, Mastery, Interviews with Dating Gurus. All of it is great and introduced me to the evolutionary biology part of dating/attraction/relationships. I can go DEEP into this shit, if you want shoot me a PM

[–]throwawaytrpguy2 points3 points  (12 children) | Copy

Can you please explain what is the balance like in detail? Right now I believe humility gives me peace of mind and also strength, and I fear if I become arrogant I will become weak, but I also understand that girls don't like humble, they like cocky - what's it really like?

[–]JosephBosa[S] 18 points19 points  (8 children) | Copy

Basically i know im good looking, lift, have frame, have a high smv. So you need that confidence foundation first. But I never brag or put others down. This gives off a healthy confidence to the outside viewer. If you brag or peg people down then you are arrogant.

The cockiness is basically me not thinking, but believing im literally the hottest piece of shit around. This is never spoken verbally, ever. But i think it shines in my walk/gestures, my body language. Honestly my main cockiness comes from "i can get any girl i want" so its cockiness specifically towards women.

I think im "confident" in every category but "cocky" with regards to my confidence with women.

[–]rus93842 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think it is more about how the frame matches your looks. A crying bald bearded guy with a brutal face is as weird as a cocky short thinman with a cute face.

So, probably you found the frame that works for you.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

If you brag or peg people down then you are arrogant.

If you brag or peg people down, you're not really arrogant, you're insecure.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Well, this may be so, but, the chicks and many males will not see this for insecurity. They will stare, agog, and wonder at the braggart's magnificent behavior.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

"When you're good at something, you tell everybody. When you're great at something, they tell you."

[–]friendandadvisor2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

"When you're good at something, you tell everybody. When you're great at something, they tell you."

This only works for thoughtful, rational people. And, as, what's his name, HL Mencken, Gene Fowler, whoever said: "Nobody ever went broke underestimating the intelligence of the American public."

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Preaching to the choir!

[–]TFWnoLTR0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I hear you're a decent edge rusher too.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

To want to bring down someone else just shows that you are below that person to begin with. It's rooted in insecurity.

Also, the cockiness part, It's just like St.Patrice said "It's not an attitude, it's a belief!" that's real confidence.

It's that smirk, that facial expression, that calmness... that tone of voice. It's a lot of things. Most operating on some deep emotional level within the audience.

[–]furcryingoutloud2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

The balance should be above the six figures. Talk about real cocky then.

[–]resnine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's knowing you are the shit because realistically you are, the key is to act JUST A LITTLE MORE the shit than you actually are.

[–]juggernaut81 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I believe humility gives me peace of mind and also strength

Humility gives you fucking zero of anything.

Humility: the quality of having a modest or low view of one's importance

Humility is trash. It's designed and fostered by rulers and warlords to keep their subjects meek so they don't try to take over. If you know any successful person in any field and they are 'humble' it's all just an outward act. Deep down inside they believe in number one, they certainly don't have a low view of themselves. They wouldn't be successful otherwise.

This isn't to say you need to be some asshole, just believe in yourself instead of being some meek 'pretending to be humble' bitch.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cocky = fun

But you'll only attract plates never LTRs.

[–]redaftrp2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Confidence, especially irrational confidence, is a primal turn on for women...

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why does it have to be irrational confidence?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

No there has to be some logic to it, otherwise they'll see through the charade to cover up insecurities.

[–]flatox2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That basic sidebar knowledge mate.

[–]RedLegendx4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think it’s more confidence than cockiness.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Follow the leader.

[–]MarioBuzo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read the Sidebar

[–]Thotasaurus_Rex1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It only works on a subset of girls, usually quite young and immature. Which is the ideal demographic for easy lays. Being cocky is still 1000x better than being boring.

[–]Imperator_Red1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It all comes back to biology. A woman is basically a baby making machine and men can impregnate many women at the same time. When he looks at a woman, a man can very easily see most of the things that matter from an evolutionary perspective within a few seconds. Basically - is she hot? Does she have a symmetrical face? Is she physically fit? Does she have the right curves which indicate that she will be more likely to have a successful pregnancy.

When a woman looks at a man, however, she does not necessarily know everything that she needs to know for sexual attraction. Yes looks matter. But men are the "doers" of the tribe. They hunt, they fight, they get shit done. The more skilled they are, the higher their status among other men is. Status among other men indicates high reproductive fitness for men. So a woman needs to tease this information out. In a big impersonal city, she does not know his status. If he comes off as cocky/arrogant though, this is a major clue for her that he is a high status male and thus has good genes.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let's be honest looks do matter a lot to them like Height, Build, Shoulder width, Hair... all signs of strength and health. So better genes. But then it's like, "Ok, what else does he got?" that's when all the skills and traits are weighed out against his physical stature.

[–]Ravenscar71 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I always found it hilarious how women always say that they hate cocky and arrogant guys haha.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Actions not words.

[–]zxcvb78091 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I think it is because not giving a fuck about things that don't matter is probably closely linked to 1) over all life happiness and 2) mental fortitude. Both qualities that are preferential in offspring and attractive to women.

The reason I say not giving a fuck about things that don't matter is because a person that is confident as hell or is overly cocky, is either unaware of all that they don't know or they have assessed the information and determined that it is not within their control so it doesn't matter. Both situations are sexually appealing to women as both have leader/in charge type qualities.

[–]resnine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yeah there is definately a "I only have so many fucks to give so I choose them wisely" thing going on there.

[–]2alpha-zach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Humble confident is better for long term gain, arrogant cocky is better for short term gain.

This isn’t just with women, it’s works across the board with most elements of life.

Read or reread 48 laws and you’ll see this play out throughout history. Many laws have a reversal that strikes the balance between arrogant confident and humble confident.

Various thoughts:

Arrogant cocky instills short term fear in enemies and boldness within self. But even King’s fall to a peasant who plays the game slow and waits for the right moment for an assassination. So often arrogant confidence people lose long term when they pick a big fight with the wrong humble confident person. The humble confident conceals his strength and strikes hard with the right timing. Think David and Goliath.

All the masters of any trade end up humble confident. When you’ve mastered an art and can beat everyone, you have no need to brag or use words to instill fear. Your reputation precedes you. You only waste energy posturing and using arrogant confidence. Think about how masters of martial arts are always portrayed as humble confident and easily beat the arrogant confident, younger, stronger opponent with a single small blow to a weak spot.

But rarely do you become a master without some early arrogant confidence. If nothing else, the belief that you can become master against all odds and opponents is a sort of arrogant confidence of its own.

So subconsciously, people see is great potential in the arrogant confident. While seeing actualized greatness in humble confidence.

Women, especially young, attractive, middle class women LOVE to chase potential. So they date the med student. He’s deep in debt and makes nothing while working his ass off, but he has serious potential in the next decade. They want to have picked the rising star and ride the wave of hard times to get big rewards in the future. (Especially since they can’t attract the already established masters and their value will decrease quickly with time.)

While the attractive girl that comes from a wealthy, established upper class family will often chase the already established man 10, even 20 years her senior.

Arrogant confident will often get the panties wet(short term gain). But humble confident attracts the high SMV LTR(long term gain).

This is partly why Tomassi discusses men’s SMV only increasing with age. And generally, why men should marry in their mid thirties rather than earlier.

[–]Bigdoggg3230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I had a friend tell a girl one time “I’d hit it if I was fucked up”. She wouldn’t shut the fuck about him the rest of the night. He says shit “cuz I’m a fuckin boss”. “I lay it down like a real playa”. “ gotta always keep a few bitties on the practice squad”. Idk if he’s red pilled or not but he sure as hell acts like it. And EVERY girl wanted to fuck him. Dudes would get pissed though.

[–]RPinthemaking0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Cocky personalities will just piss of other men who know you're full of bullshit and women with past experiences with cocky men.

This is so fucking true. At my last job I literally almost got into a fight with a coworker cause of this. It kinda feels great to piss these guys off.

[–]mrHappyPotatoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because they are scysophrenics.

[–]uptimex-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I get the same result demonstrating non-confidence, shimmering low voice, almost every girl in the room turn interest to me, because I seem different. But later when you are talking with some girl already, you have to look directly into her eyes, with a relaxed attitude. When you are cocky, you belong to everyone, when you are non-confident, you are only hers.

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