The first thing that comes to mind is "Who gives a shit?" It's such a BluePill question...
There's no question that trying to please a woman is a self-defeating exercise. Allowing her agenda and her frame to take precedence will gradually break a man's spirit. Yet, knowing what motivates a woman offers you a distinct advantage in seduction.
The point isn't to accommodate her demands in beta servitude. To play the Game masterfully, you want to anticipate and counter her every move.
Here are some key points on what a woman wants:
1. To Feel Good. She's an emotional creature and more than anything else, she's looking to feel good in the moment. She wants to feel alive with a flood of positive energy and emotions and to express herself openly and passionately. She wants to relax in the arms of a strong partner, and reveal her feminine side. Much of what she says and does is intended to move her away from pain and towards pleasure. And though her words and actions may seem confusing and contradictory, her emotional intent is usually clear.
2. To Look Good. Women are very tribal and hierarchal. Within her social matrix, a woman is constantly aware of the status and judgement of surrounding women.
3. To Fall in Love. She wants to feel the chemistry of love's hormones surging through her body that indicates you're the ONE. She loves those vagina tingles you make her feel. But it's the attraction she loves, not you. A guy is just the conduit to reach the emotions she craves.
4. To Struggle. She wants to catch a powerful man, but she also wants the challenge and epic story to go with it. She wants romantic adventure... a rom-com movie plot with twists and turns where she doesn't know what's coming next.
5. To Be Seduced. She wants to escape life's routines into an alternate reality of adventure pleasure. She wants to be verbally and physically seduced to the point of exquisite desire.
6. To Be Fucked. She doesn't want you to make sweet love to her. She wants you to ride her hard like a ravenous beast. She wants you to be that unapologetic, unpredictable sexual threat who takes charge, brazenly takes her and assumes all responsibility for what's happening - allowing her to submissively succumb and finally act out her crazy sexual fantasies.
7. To Win. She wants it all - the money, lifestyle, parties, trips, marriage, house, etc. She wants exclusive ownership of the perfect man who can elicit envy in every woman. She searches for the elusive "manicorn" - her AFBB in one sexy package. Never fully satisfied, she always keeps an eye out for a better option.
8. To Own. She wants to lock everything down to maximize her security.
Anything else? This stuff makes my head hurt.
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