I'm 27, she's 24. Been seeing this girl every other weekend this past month or so. It's mostly just hanging out and making out, but no f-closes. However last night happened like this:
Around 8:30ish I get a "Wyd?" text from her. I say "Hanging out with friends. You?"
"Same!" she responds.
"Cool. Wanna come over later"
Then she drops "Wanna fuck later?" At this point, I'm surprised. I don't remember the last time I've had a bitch be so forward with me without a prior f-close in the bag.
Here's where I think I may have fucked up my frame. I said, " Yeah. I'll let you know when to come by". She responds with "Cool".
Couple of hours go by, people at the party I'm at start dispersing and I decide to head out. I get home and hit her up with "You can come over".
"You can come over now"
"Let me know when you get here"
Then silence. No show, or a reply back.
I worked on some music then went to bed.
So, fellas, where was the fuck up? Was it a shit test and did I jump too quickly at her words? Or this on her?
I already know to go no contact, but I know this girl most likely will text me sometime again soon (we have bit of a history), and when she does, what ought I say, if anything?