Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?

Aptote · 2019-04-06T23:42:48+00:00

this sub is filled with school aged guys is why. look how many are in hs or college that are on tinder, insta, snap, etc., those are not the highest quality women. i reckon you have to start somewhere and that is what they know

i don't see the point of all those things you mention, (except ffm threeways)

i agree with your goal, rp makes that much easier to achieve

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-04-07T00:38:38+00:00

Some guys are still in the phase of selecting low quality women. That is their thing to grow past.

It doesn't discredit the validity of being red pilled, in order to gain an upper hand in sexual dynamics, relationships and life.

Go out and hunt for this trustworthy, honest, reliable woman. Present your trustworthy, reliable, honest self...then come back when 99% of those women say they 'didn't feel a connection'.

Metalgear222 · 2019-04-07T03:08:13+00:00

“A lot of the guys here”

TRP is a salad bar take what you want and leave what you don’t want.

opossumpark · 2019-04-06T23:42:05+00:00

Any guy hating on "thots" do it because they are in the anger phase, it comes from a place of bitterness and jealousy. TRP is not about hating thots or changing them, its about adapting to their game and turning it into your own favour. I dont hate thots just because I dont allow myself to be played by one

itiswr1tten · 2019-04-07T00:01:03+00:00

If your question is, what is the reason for this? I say this without any malice, any moralizing, any concept of hatred towards anybody, but life is this game. Its the game. Whether you like it or not, you're in it. You can either play it or you can sit by the side and cry about it, you can say the game is rigged, you can complain about the existence of the game, but the game is still there. The game doesn't care. You can either play it and win or play it and lose, but you have to play it, in its reality, not in its theory, and understand how man, woman and society work. If you're blue pilled, the game can hit you in the face almost everyday but you can deny its existence. If you're red pilled, you have no excuse to deny the game. You can say the game is childish, and I fundamentally disagree with the premise of your question but I will say its a fair observation, but that doesn't change the game.

High school never ends. Wo-oh-oh-oh. Wo-oh-oh-oh.

Bobby_Says_No · 2019-04-07T00:32:02+00:00

haha, you've said exactly what I have been thinking for such a long time. I think there is a lot of valuable and interesting information that gets posted on here, but I also think if a lot of people on here put in the same amount of time/effort doing shit with their lives than chasing after thots they could be successful. Not here saying no-one on here is successful and does fuck all with their lives, but the amount of effort I read some people putting into chasing multiple women etc, dating several women at the same time, they can't be doing much with their actual life and I say that from personal experience. I currently run a music video business, also a musician, so when i'm not busy with business i'm busy writing/recording songs and getting my band on the go etc. After i'm done doing everything I need to do I have maybe one evening a week I could put aside to see a women, two at an absolute push and even then to get them evenings free it is a struggle so it is only worth it for something of high quality, not chasing some random thot. I wouldn't be where I am now if I decided to play childish games with thots as you mention in your post. Too time consuming with little reward and for people that have nothing going on in their life imo. The bonus of doing shit with your life too, no need to go hunting for women, they always seem to find there way to me...maybe i just don't reek of desperation, i don't know...

smartstarfish · 2019-04-07T01:28:01+00:00

Yeah and you attract what you are not what you want.

If you act like a plate spinner looking for exclusively FWB that’s who you’ll attract into your life.

It’s all a matter of what you want to do with TRP information.

For me personally I use it to remind me to never put a girl before myself and always keep my priorities in order.

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-04-07T00:19:36+00:00

Men are not women.

The same rules don't apply. That's the red pill: women and men are not alike. Women who try to win with men's rules lose. Men who try to win with women's rules lose.

Honey, benching 315 isn't going to get you the guys you think it will. Just like guys wearing really short skirts won't get them the girls they think it will.

Thinkingard · 2019-04-07T01:22:22+00:00

Don’t worry about it. It’s a lot harder for a guy to be this way and a halfway attractive girl can be like this with no effort.

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-04-07T01:32:52+00:00

You are making two very big mistakes here:

Judging men and women by the same standards. They have completely different rules, games and sexual strategies
You are trying to use red pill to achieve blue pill goals

Meesa thinks youssa not grasp red pill properly, youssa should go back to the side bar

RedSkeller · 2019-04-07T01:49:38+00:00

I agree with everything you said until this statement was made:

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with and not these kid games you all play to get your dick wet.

TRP is about being the best version of you that you could possibly be. Sure, the majority of posts here - especially as of late are lacking in substance but at the end of the day, we're all in this together trying to help each other. At least, that's why I come here. I want to be there for another young guy like a mentor in the ways I didn't have one when I was younger. It's not always about the puss.

As for finding someone you have full trust and honesty with? That's debatable. You'd be much better off learning to enjoy your own company and being happy with yourself then ever even expecting to find that. If you do, you're either zen to the max or delusional. Even the zen guys have problems, everyone does, it's human life. Everything is a stupid game, jobs, money, existence - we're all chasing something. Who am I to judge others based on my own beliefs? Live by example. Every time we get posters preaching their version of morality (which TRP is immoral), it's a clear sign that you've taken principles you were taught instead of learned. If you had actually seen and experienced 'bad' you would have a concept that it is another form of simply 'being'.

Psychological_Radish · 2019-04-07T01:46:52+00:00

I agree with the whole women are thots, attention whores, ect

TRP doesn't teach that women are whores, although many of them are in our society.

Having many girls, wanting threesomes, wanting to cuck a guy,

What's wrong with that?

playing childish games with girls, using reverse psychology and other stuff to get some thot to like you.

It isn't about "getting some thot to like you." It's about teaching men to mimic the behavior that Alpha males display on their own, and why that behavior works.

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with

This is the Blue Pill dream. And that's why it's a dream...because you have to be asleep to believe it.

Go back to sleep.

legaxo · 2019-04-07T06:44:38+00:00

LTRs heavily favor women over men. The RP does offer useful advice for being in a relationship, but most of people’s goals here are to get laid. Why sacrifice your resources and time on one woman when you could get laid with many for such little sacrifice? The system in place is not on man’s side, so why play it’s game?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-04-07T16:24:21+00:00

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with and

What goal do you think every divorced guy had? Every guy still living in a shitty marriage?

You can't use Red Pill tools to fulfill your Blue Pill dreams.

And what if I like threesomes and having slave girls? I also don't "hate" THOTs and sluts, etc. They have every right to have agency over their sexuality and give it up for every Outlaw Biker, Drug Dealer and Escaped Mental Patient that they want to. What they don't have the right to do is waste their 20s working some shit job in a cubicle farm, drinking like men, riding a mile of cock and then bitching about how "THERE ARE NO GOOD MEN LEFT!!"

Whisper · 2019-04-07T01:30:28+00:00

Bad?

Who said thots were bad?

cat_magnet · 2019-04-07T00:17:05+00:00

Living happily ever after with your disney princess is very unlikely in this feminist anti male climate we live in. I agree hedonism is not the solution but men need to be aware of awalt, hypergamy etc.

SniXSniPe · 2019-04-07T01:33:54+00:00

Well to start with, a lot of dudes here are salty about women due to some incident in their life--- whether it be a relationship turned cheating, women always rejecting them, or what not. You know, anger phase and all. Honestly, a lot of people have a hard time admitting the problem is with them, or in cases where they were cheated on and their world crushed, they simply have a hard time healing and moving on with their life in a proper manner.

There's both good and bad advice on the TRP, and then there's also fluff from some dudes who just want to lash out against women for reasons like above. Kind of like, incel-ish behavior, even.

I see it as this way: I have certain friends who seem to know some things about TRP from random conversations (I don't go out of my way to discuss TRP in person, nor do I care), but the sad part is they have no ability to self-evaluate themselves properly and why they fail on women. It becomes a game of, "something's wrong with women, not me", and even then they don't want to acknowledge their own flaws and weaknesses, It made me realize there are a lot of guys here that are the same way. They truthfully could be successful with women, but they always fail in the end--- without realizing the issue is with them.

jay_jay_man · 2019-04-07T05:49:24+00:00

Its the same sort of crap that I see women do all the time.

Men and women aren't the same. We aren't held to the same standard. A man that's able to get threesomes is more valuable than a girl in a 10 man gangbang because for a woman getting sex is as easy as pissing for men.

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with

Wrong. That's blue pill thinking. Finding "the one" is not Red Pill. Achieving your life's mission is the ultimate goal, finding a woman that compliments your life is a great bonus but it's just the bonus, not the ultimate goal.

Making a woman your ultimate goal is how men end up killing themselves, feeling aimless and lost after a breakup, and turning into a bitter old man.

Is there a reason for this?

Most men find the RedPill through sexual frustration. Men come here looking for ways to get girls. Some progress, grow past this stage, and become better human beings (not just pickup machines).

JorgitoEstrella · 2019-04-07T05:56:14+00:00

Exactly, for me these guys are like thots, why would you want to cuck a guy? It’s disgusting, no dignity.

WindIsMyMusic · 2019-04-07T11:14:34+00:00

Upvoted you before some fuckhead deletes this post for violating some bullshit rule that boils down to "never question our position, or get banned"

[deleted] · 2019-04-07T13:16:31+00:00

Play shitty games, win shitty prizes.

Rkingpin · 2019-04-06T23:49:39+00:00

Red pill isnt about labelling women as "thots"

Read sidebar

boy_named_su · 2019-04-07T00:23:23+00:00

That's the point. The red pill just points out that women are pieces of shit, just like us, but in a different way.

The Feminine Imperative tells us that women are complicated, good natured angels. Somehow better than us but deserving special treatment. Which is complete bullshit

[deleted] · 2019-04-07T00:49:56+00:00

Men and women are not the same and have different sexual strategy. What a useless question.

beginner_ · 2019-04-07T06:45:20+00:00

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with

So basically the blue pill fairy tale. Good luck with that.

It's theoretically still possible but will you be happy? Even if you find that magic unicorn, she will get old, she will nag more and more and care less and less about you. She will wear you down even if it takes 60 decades and she stays with you till the end.

Happily ever after is just BS. People stay together that long due to lack of options and convenience and habit (change is hard). Even in your 60ties you would that 20 year olds, if you could and not your same aged old ugly probably fat hag.

Note: No I'm not in college-age. You simply don't know if you have never been in a somewhat long relationship. As a first hint, watch your parents if they are still together.

[deleted] · 2019-04-07T02:10:13+00:00

I wanna see you bust down

[deleted] · 2019-04-07T02:20:25+00:00

The split within the communities outlook to "The Game" is funny. First off, thot's aren't bad. They merely get demonised by guys who can't get thots (I can't either, i can simply appreciate their use of power). And with that statement alone, i've just shut down your entire question via vice versa.

Thot's have power, TRP makes men realise/develop their own power. It's merely levelling the playing field and the guys want to indulge in their fantasies. Who are you to judge?

pridebrah · 2019-04-07T02:22:08+00:00

Wait what's wrong with threesomes (FFM)? Lol

mrpoopistan · 2019-04-07T02:32:54+00:00

I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with

And there's literally no one telling you that you can't do that. We're just telling you to be honest with yourself about what terms like "trust" and "honesty" mean.

[deleted] · 2019-04-07T02:46:44+00:00

Probably.

ImLitC0lN · 2019-04-07T03:57:27+00:00

This is prob buried, but this is a question subreddit. Most people on here are just learning trp...

mushroom_overlord · 2019-04-07T04:03:28+00:00

A lot of them are quite a bit like the slutty women, but you might be overestimating the amount of them that hate thots. For the sexually hedonistic ones, at least, the existence of sluts is a blessing.

Others are just adapting to the world they live in, not the idyllic dream land they would rather find themselves. There's plenty of reasons to complain about our society, but if you don't adapt you're wasting your life.

Moldy_Gecko · 2019-04-07T04:56:39+00:00

The point of this sub isn't to say 'men do it too'. Women hold the power over sex and reproductivity. The ultimate point of this sub is to take that power back by being better man. By being that kind of man, you get all those other benefits.

supersonic-turtle · 2019-04-07T05:26:18+00:00

As a dude who has found a quality woman I can say that I don’t dislike thots at all quite the opposite. I love ‘em they kept me sharp and where fun along the way. My days of gaming are over for now. I still remain in pinnacle shape and improve daily for the almost sure chance my turn is up and my current long term decides to branch swing. If she sticks around cool, I’ve wanted a family and she’s about as good as they get so I’m cool with settling down. But like we all know AWALT so it’s best to stay aware and keep TRP knowledge handy.

humzy · 2019-04-07T05:37:19+00:00

dude read the rational male. MAWATS (men and women aren't the same)

temerity18 · 2019-04-07T07:44:47+00:00

Promiscuous women are great for promiscuous men. Those who use the word thot want monogamous women. Quite a few, if not most, of these men are promiscuous themselves. Yea, they need to wipe their mirror.

[deleted] · 2019-04-07T07:45:36+00:00

I used to do this now I just fuck literal whores or women that come to me easily. It’s not worth it after awhile

DREADC0RSAIR · 2019-04-07T07:53:03+00:00

Thus sub isn't for someone looking for a long term relationship, this sub is filled with people who observes female nature for what it is and play the game with as little risk and most reward as possible.

RedBloodHunter · 2019-04-07T07:53:44+00:00

Sexual strategy is amoral, and this goes for both men and women.

How will you know what to screen for in a quality, LTR-worthy woman, if you haven't been with enough girls to actually know what those qualities are? That's more or less the purpose of spinning plates. Along the way you'll develop abundance mentality, which will lead to a stronger frame, outcome independence and a variety of other qualities which WILL be useful in maintaining an LTR.

If you aren't a high value man, your LTR's won't work, it's as simple as that.

In regards to playing childish games with girls - that's the thing, it isn't really a game to them. This is how women are, this is how seduction works. You can either embrace the game and become good at it, or reject it, but you'll never stop playing. Spitting up the red pill is pretty common, it doesn't taste very good.

Acerhand · 2019-04-07T08:25:16+00:00

Not only that, im pretty sure most all guys here are getting all the women they plate from dating apps or school

good-look · 2019-04-07T08:55:39+00:00

Most people in general are shit. Welcome to TRP where PC bullshit is frowned upon.

Greek-God-Brody · 2019-04-07T10:21:42+00:00

the game is rigged (hypergamy, women's slutiness..), might as well go along for the ride and play the game, once that you know the inner mechanisms.

dropping out the game doesn't mean the game stops, it goes on with or without you

dani098 · 2019-04-07T15:17:39+00:00

In a lot of ways, we are the same, doing the same dumb shit, after the same ol'thing. ....but whatever works to achieve your end goal and happiness.

[deleted] · 2019-04-07T02:11:06+00:00

i’m literally a femcel virgin yet called a thot and whore by association of being a woman, meanwhile all men on this sub are attempting to bang actual thots

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-04-06T23:41:15+00:00

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with and not these kid games you all play to get your dick wet.

Agreed, but this isn't the subs operating procedure. Most seem to find meaningful LTRs beta, for whatever reason (I'm guessing "something something domesticity something feminist imperative.")

ARUKET · 2019-04-07T05:53:20+00:00

OP, let me ask you this - what do you think happens when you meet your unicorn? You realize all the good girls respond to mostly the same tactics, right? Just because a girl doesn't smoke or drink and has little to no sexual history, doesn't mean she is attracted to betas.

TRP is about understanding female psychology and how to apply this knowledge to enter and maintain sexual relationships with women. Most guys here are interested in using this info to have 5 girls on call to fuck whenever they want, but there's nothing that says you can't use this info to hopefully have successful relationships.

Title	Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?
Author	opossumpark
Upvotes	219
Comments	105
Date	06 April 2019 11:35 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/224573
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