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Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?

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April 6, 2019
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I've browsed here for a little bit and I agree with the whole women are thots, attention whores, ect but then you see the same thing from the guys here. Having many girls, wanting threesomes, wanting to cuck a guy, playing childish games with girls, using reverse psychology and other stuff to get some thot to like you. Its the same sort of crap that I see women do all the time.

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with and not these kid games you all play to get your dick wet.


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Title Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?
Author opossumpark
Upvotes 219
Comments 105
Date 06 April 2019 11:35 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/224573
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/baadcb/arent_a_lot_of_the_guys_here_just_as_bad_as_the/
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[–]Aptote129 points130 points  (1 child) | Copy

this sub is filled with school aged guys is why. look how many are in hs or college that are on tinder, insta, snap, etc., those are not the highest quality women. i reckon you have to start somewhere and that is what they know

i don't see the point of all those things you mention, (except ffm threeways)

i agree with your goal, rp makes that much easier to achieve

[–]TreesLikeGodsFingers40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy

Latching on here to add. This sub is filled with folks who have a long long way to go. But to be fair, that's what this sub is for

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K1860 points61 points  (5 children) | Copy

Some guys are still in the phase of selecting low quality women. That is their thing to grow past.

It doesn't discredit the validity of being red pilled, in order to gain an upper hand in sexual dynamics, relationships and life.

Go out and hunt for this trustworthy, honest, reliable woman. Present your trustworthy, reliable, honest self...then come back when 99% of those women say they 'didn't feel a connection'.

[–]Aptote13 points14 points  (4 children) | Copy

woman will feel the connection with a red pilled man. 99% of them are not worth the time or effort

red pill men should know what they want in a woman and know what to do with it.

rp makes ltr easier, not harder, in my experience

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K181 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Your reply has an element of contradiction.

On one hand you say 99% of women aren't worth it, but then say we should know what we want, and find trustworthy women you can build something with and lead, etc.

It sounds like you are experiencing cognitive dissonance, some denial and on the verge of the anger phase.

Take what you need from Red Pill, leave the rest. Don't worry too much about other guy's journeys and choices. Make your own.

[–]Aptote-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

nope, make a list of what you want, if they cant pass the list, next them and keep looking or fuck some along the way if you wish

rp is like sales applied to woman, suspect < prospect < qualified prospect

i'm not in any anger phase i am 5 years into rp ltr

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K182 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ah, ok. Sounds like you're just pointing out that most guys are in a very immature phase. Not really getting what this is all about. I agree with that. They're still just about trying to fuck any ho they can.

Those are the dudes who build some behaviours that work, but end up coming here asking why they're empty and unfulfilled.

Many are putting fucking women before the real work on discovering themselves.

[–]Aptote0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

yep

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear22211 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

“A lot of the guys here”

TRP is a salad bar take what you want and leave what you don’t want.

[–]dani0980 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

sound logic.

[–][deleted] 67 points68 points  (18 children) | Copy

Any guy hating on "thots" do it because they are in the anger phase, it comes from a place of bitterness and jealousy. TRP is not about hating thots or changing them, its about adapting to their game and turning it into your own favour. I dont hate thots just because I dont allow myself to be played by one

[–]opossumpark[S] 12 points13 points  (16 children) | Copy

its about adapting to their game and turning it into your own favour

why waste your time with these women? why not focus your energy on finding someone worth your time and someone you dont have to play these games with? is it really the "redpilled" thing to waste your time on these sleazebags by being just like them?

[–]ZabuzAli26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

You need to learn and understand how women are, only then will you be able to make educated decisions based on your experiences in selecting the relatively best quality women for whatever your purpose (Notice I said relatively because there are no unicorns).

If you’ve never “wasted your time” spinning plates, odds are you will jump into an LTR with the next girl that gets your dick hard and slowly realise all the red flags that you should have screened for prior to LTR’ing her, but you didn’t have the knowledge/experience.

Read The Rational Male and reread the sidebar.

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

someone you dont have to play these games with

Ah, the naivete of youth

[–]Moldy_Gecko1 point2 points  (12 children) | Copy

It's redpill to realize that LTRs aren't worth it. Not sure when this 'gotta find the right unicorn' ideology started getting thrown around. Before TRP was quarantined and on the actual sub, it's always been 'don't get married'. Remember AWALT, those thots of today are your dream girl of tomorrow.

[–]the13thmonk7 points8 points  (11 children) | Copy

Wrong. Trp comes from rational male.... the author of which is married. LTRs are valuable. However he suggests waiting until 30+ when your smv has been maxed, you understand how to vet women, have the knowledge to choose correctly and you can then find an equally young smv woman

[–]thatotherguy36351 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

>Ltr's are valuable
How exactly? Any ltr is Dophamine more spread on the timeline, on the other hand plates are dophamine multiplied. You pursue or do anything solely because you want dophamine, you can even do kids, but that'll cost you.

[–]the13thmonk0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

“Dopamine”

Read the rational male. Read the sidebar. I’m not repeating information you could readily find yourself now that you know exactly where it’s at

[–]thatotherguy36351 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

>Don't go against my holy bible you twat
Ltr's are battlefield for the frame in THE BOOK, so still, that's a trade of some hormone spikes for some stability in my vision.
>Dopamine
My bad, they took the whole Ph from phenethylamine in my language.

[–]Datanami3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Rollo explicitly advises men not to get married. He also stated many times that he himself should not be used as an example.

[–]the13thmonk-2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

Read the book

Stop disseminating false information or gtfo. Actions like this are what bring this subreddit down

https://www.google.com/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2012/07/30/16-years-on/amp/

He brings it up several times in the book

[–]Datanami1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Advising against marriage is what brings TRP down? What a joke.

I've bought and read all three RM books, twice for the first one, thanks. I also regularly listen to him talk on the red man group.

"After 16 years of marriage I can honestly say there are no appreciable advantages (outside of raising children) that a man cannot enjoy single that he can married. That’s not meant to be pessimistic, but rather a caution to emphasize how important it is to disabuse yourselves of this AFC, romanticized, marriage-as-goal mentality. It’s also not to say marriage is never worth it – just that marriage is complete advantage for women with negligible, if any, benefit for men."

EDIT : I obviously pulled the quote from the article you linked to. However, I want to point out that it is 6 years old already. So there's that. Rollo is very active on Youtube and what I said referenced what I heard him say there, more recently.

[–]the13thmonk0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No, spreading blatantly wrong info is

“It’s also not to say marriage is never worth it”

He doesn’t advise against marriage. He says to take it seriously as saving your own life, there are not necessarily any appreciable benefits for the man etc etc

He doesn’t advise against it

[–]Datanami1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

See my edit. Your article is 6 years old.

Divorce rape keeps getting worse and worse. The system is rigged against men. The risks now far outreach the benefits. Feminism is gaining power, marriage is doomed, don't get married.

[–]Moldy_Gecko0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

top pinned post in /asktrp under spinning plates. Monogamy is a byproduct, not a goal.

[–]the13thmonk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’d agree. But that doesn't make it any less valuable when you happen up on the natural bi product of spinning plates, an LTR.

Also, redpill is a guide. There is no set path that you should follow 100%.

[–]rus93840 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So, you are saying thots are manipulating men?

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (14 children) | Copy

If your question is, what is the reason for this? I say this without any malice, any moralizing, any concept of hatred towards anybody, but life is this game. Its the game. Whether you like it or not, you're in it. You can either play it or you can sit by the side and cry about it, you can say the game is rigged, you can complain about the existence of the game, but the game is still there. The game doesn't care. You can either play it and win or play it and lose, but you have to play it, in its reality, not in its theory, and understand how man, woman and society work. If you're blue pilled, the game can hit you in the face almost everyday but you can deny its existence. If you're red pilled, you have no excuse to deny the game. You can say the game is childish, and I fundamentally disagree with the premise of your question but I will say its a fair observation, but that doesn't change the game.

High school never ends. Wo-oh-oh-oh. Wo-oh-oh-oh.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten10 points11 points  (4 children) | Copy

A voice of reason in a sea of spergs.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Thanks! I've been following your posts, and you provide value, so this means something coming from you

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Upvotes don't matter. The OP is wrong in so many ways but feeds male hamsters. Keep doing what you are doing

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Amen.

[–]rus9384-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can either play it or you can sit by the side and cry about it

I don't choose either, this is a false dichotomy.

[–]PimlicoResident-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is true but for some men, game is so rigged that they are just spinning their wheels getting fuck all. The recent article posted about huge increase in incels here confirm it.

For such people, playing the game means losing it every time. It is a choice to put in the effort to get scraps or divert your attention to some other places in life. It is hard to determine what to do.

[–]Bobby_Says_No28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy

haha, you've said exactly what I have been thinking for such a long time. I think there is a lot of valuable and interesting information that gets posted on here, but I also think if a lot of people on here put in the same amount of time/effort doing shit with their lives than chasing after thots they could be successful. Not here saying no-one on here is successful and does fuck all with their lives, but the amount of effort I read some people putting into chasing multiple women etc, dating several women at the same time, they can't be doing much with their actual life and I say that from personal experience. I currently run a music video business, also a musician, so when i'm not busy with business i'm busy writing/recording songs and getting my band on the go etc. After i'm done doing everything I need to do I have maybe one evening a week I could put aside to see a women, two at an absolute push and even then to get them evenings free it is a struggle so it is only worth it for something of high quality, not chasing some random thot. I wouldn't be where I am now if I decided to play childish games with thots as you mention in your post. Too time consuming with little reward and for people that have nothing going on in their life imo. The bonus of doing shit with your life too, no need to go hunting for women, they always seem to find there way to me...maybe i just don't reek of desperation, i don't know...

[–]AwakenedSovereign1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nah you're on point here.

One word: Mechanics

You can either stomp around the festival all weekend trying to break in or you can make sure it's your festival and people are trying to break in to what you got going on.

The reason this gets tricky is because most guys want to be the "Unicorn Alpha" they sometimes see around town. The cross-contextual, doesn't have to lift a finger guys with godlike genetics that can do diddly-squat and still swim in pussy.

Even trickier are the ones without godlike genetics that are just as successful.

Aka, ideally, they don't want to have to work for it.

This is the price we pay as men because the current prevailing culture is "don't directly show effort or you're trying too hard." It's a perspective issue.

[–]smartstarfish7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah and you attract what you are not what you want.

If you act like a plate spinner looking for exclusively FWB that’s who you’ll attract into your life.

It’s all a matter of what you want to do with TRP information.

For me personally I use it to remind me to never put a girl before myself and always keep my priorities in order.

[–]FlyingSexistPig24 points25 points  (19 children) | Copy

Men are not women.

The same rules don't apply. That's the red pill: women and men are not alike. Women who try to win with men's rules lose. Men who try to win with women's rules lose.

Honey, benching 315 isn't going to get you the guys you think it will. Just like guys wearing really short skirts won't get them the girls they think it will.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (18 children) | Copy

OP forgets that women are the gatekeepers of sex.

[–]opossumpark[S] 3 points4 points  (17 children) | Copy

is this all its about? sex? what about spending time and energy finding a trustworthy woman to spend your life with and take your guidance instead of trying to play these dumb games so that you could get through their dumb worthless gates. wasting so much time and energy to stick your penis in these thots i just cant imagine justifying that and feeling like your doing something worthwhile.

[–]GiraffeOnWheels5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The "game" is increasing your appeal and access. You don't have to play, but you probably won't have many options. For me it's more about how the world actually works. If you don't want thots that's fine, but this applies to all girls.

[–]beginner_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

if she is a thot, it shouldn't take much time and energy at all.

[–]FlyingSexistPig14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

You think the red pill is a game? It's not. It's a fundamental understanding of female nature. If you think it's just a game, then you're still in the Denial phase:

Denial <-- You are here.
Bargaining
Anger
Depression
Acceptance

[–]CaptainBW5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you actively try to find that, it will always allude you. TRP is not to fulfill BP fantasies. Internalize the sidebar.

[–]i_forget_my_userids4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

*elude

[–]CaptainBW0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good looks lol

[–]TheRidgeway1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"is this all its about? sex? what about spending time and energy finding a trustworthy woman to spend your life with..."

Tell ya what OP, go find that woman. The one or just described. Seems a worthy conquest. Seriously and legitimately.. I'm really not giving you shit.

Now be her pal and remove the possibility of sex with her...

Come back and report on how that feels.

You don't have to like the game, but if that's the woman you are looking for, you better fucking know how to play it, because half your competition will. And you ain't gonna out work, or out game them , especially without even realizing the game you're playing.

What makes you think this has anything to do with "thots" at all?

[–]Moldy_Gecko0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There are no unicorns bro

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What the fuck does that have to do with your post faggot? Go to MGTOW or the blue pill. Take you’re pick. They’re both worthless.

[–]chrome_fork0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

?? Red pill strategies arent really for those who look for LTRs. It's mainly used to get laid.

[–]Aptote4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

it's both

[–]Moldy_Gecko-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

Since when. I mean, yes, you can have an LTR, but if you're not looking for marriage, what's the point? Unless your LTR is offering something (mine is rich), just keep them as plates.

[–]Aptote1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

the point is you can and should be doing what you want, red pill applies either way, if guys want to spin plates, ons, fwb for sex, i say god bless and go forth, yet those are the guys that shit on guys in ltr.

one can use the red pill tools to build straw huts or he can build a mansion

there is more to life than money

ltr is simply a lot less hassle for me

[–]Moldy_Gecko-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't know who came in and fucked the redpill. Guessing some well disguised BP imposters were able to cause this sub to go down the drain.

[–]Thinkingard3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don’t worry about it. It’s a lot harder for a guy to be this way and a halfway attractive girl can be like this with no effort.

[–]Protocol_Apollo3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are making two very big mistakes here:

  1. Judging men and women by the same standards. They have completely different rules, games and sexual strategies

  2. You are trying to use red pill to achieve blue pill goals

Meesa thinks youssa not grasp red pill properly, youssa should go back to the side bar

[–]RedSkeller3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with everything you said until this statement was made:

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with and not these kid games you all play to get your dick wet.

TRP is about being the best version of you that you could possibly be. Sure, the majority of posts here - especially as of late are lacking in substance but at the end of the day, we're all in this together trying to help each other. At least, that's why I come here. I want to be there for another young guy like a mentor in the ways I didn't have one when I was younger. It's not always about the puss.

As for finding someone you have full trust and honesty with? That's debatable. You'd be much better off learning to enjoy your own company and being happy with yourself then ever even expecting to find that. If you do, you're either zen to the max or delusional. Even the zen guys have problems, everyone does, it's human life. Everything is a stupid game, jobs, money, existence - we're all chasing something. Who am I to judge others based on my own beliefs? Live by example. Every time we get posters preaching their version of morality (which TRP is immoral), it's a clear sign that you've taken principles you were taught instead of learned. If you had actually seen and experienced 'bad' you would have a concept that it is another form of simply 'being'.

[–]Psychological_Radish2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with the whole women are thots, attention whores, ect

TRP doesn't teach that women are whores, although many of them are in our society.

Having many girls, wanting threesomes, wanting to cuck a guy,

What's wrong with that?

playing childish games with girls, using reverse psychology and other stuff to get some thot to like you.

It isn't about "getting some thot to like you." It's about teaching men to mimic the behavior that Alpha males display on their own, and why that behavior works.

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with

This is the Blue Pill dream. And that's why it's a dream...because you have to be asleep to believe it.

Go back to sleep.

[–]legaxo2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

LTRs heavily favor women over men. The RP does offer useful advice for being in a relationship, but most of people’s goals here are to get laid. Why sacrifice your resources and time on one woman when you could get laid with many for such little sacrifice? The system in place is not on man’s side, so why play it’s game?

[–]PimlicoResident0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not every man can achieve this. Good for you if you are attractive and reasonably successful. Some men can only get steady sex in a relationship, they simply don't have SMV to pull multiple women.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with and

What goal do you think every divorced guy had? Every guy still living in a shitty marriage?

You can't use Red Pill tools to fulfill your Blue Pill dreams.

And what if I like threesomes and having slave girls? I also don't "hate" THOTs and sluts, etc. They have every right to have agency over their sexuality and give it up for every Outlaw Biker, Drug Dealer and Escaped Mental Patient that they want to. What they don't have the right to do is waste their 20s working some shit job in a cubicle farm, drinking like men, riding a mile of cock and then bitching about how "THERE ARE NO GOOD MEN LEFT!!"

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bad?

Who said thots were bad?

[–]cat_magnet2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Living happily ever after with your disney princess is very unlikely in this feminist anti male climate we live in. I agree hedonism is not the solution but men need to be aware of awalt, hypergamy etc.

[–]SniXSniPe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well to start with, a lot of dudes here are salty about women due to some incident in their life--- whether it be a relationship turned cheating, women always rejecting them, or what not. You know, anger phase and all. Honestly, a lot of people have a hard time admitting the problem is with them, or in cases where they were cheated on and their world crushed, they simply have a hard time healing and moving on with their life in a proper manner.

There's both good and bad advice on the TRP, and then there's also fluff from some dudes who just want to lash out against women for reasons like above. Kind of like, incel-ish behavior, even.

I see it as this way: I have certain friends who seem to know some things about TRP from random conversations (I don't go out of my way to discuss TRP in person, nor do I care), but the sad part is they have no ability to self-evaluate themselves properly and why they fail on women. It becomes a game of, "something's wrong with women, not me", and even then they don't want to acknowledge their own flaws and weaknesses, It made me realize there are a lot of guys here that are the same way. They truthfully could be successful with women, but they always fail in the end--- without realizing the issue is with them.

[–]jay_jay_man1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Its the same sort of crap that I see women do all the time.

Men and women aren't the same. We aren't held to the same standard. A man that's able to get threesomes is more valuable than a girl in a 10 man gangbang because for a woman getting sex is as easy as pissing for men.

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with

Wrong. That's blue pill thinking. Finding "the one" is not Red Pill. Achieving your life's mission is the ultimate goal, finding a woman that compliments your life is a great bonus but it's just the bonus, not the ultimate goal.

Making a woman your ultimate goal is how men end up killing themselves, feeling aimless and lost after a breakup, and turning into a bitter old man.

Is there a reason for this?

Most men find the RedPill through sexual frustration. Men come here looking for ways to get girls. Some progress, grow past this stage, and become better human beings (not just pickup machines).

[–]Foolish_ness0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What is one's life mission in your context?

Is it self determined?

May I ask your life mission?

[–]jay_jay_man0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You start by examining yourself, identifying your core values, which values do you hold the dearest and which ones someone times take a backseat. It's from identifying these values that you align your daily actions and form a mission.

A book I read recently does a great job of breaking this process down. It's called The Tactical Guide to Women by Shawn Stevenson. He's in the Redpill community.

[–]JorgitoEstrella1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly, for me these guys are like thots, why would you want to cuck a guy? It’s disgusting, no dignity.

[–]WindIsMyMusic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Upvoted you before some fuckhead deletes this post for violating some bullshit rule that boils down to "never question our position, or get banned"

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Play shitty games, win shitty prizes.

[–]Rkingpin3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Red pill isnt about labelling women as "thots"

Read sidebar

[–]opossumpark[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

i say "thots" so you understand the type of women im talking about.

[–]boy_named_su1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's the point. The red pill just points out that women are pieces of shit, just like us, but in a different way.

The Feminine Imperative tells us that women are complicated, good natured angels. Somehow better than us but deserving special treatment. Which is complete bullshit

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Men and women are not the same and have different sexual strategy. What a useless question.

[–]beginner_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with

So basically the blue pill fairy tale. Good luck with that.

It's theoretically still possible but will you be happy? Even if you find that magic unicorn, she will get old, she will nag more and more and care less and less about you. She will wear you down even if it takes 60 decades and she stays with you till the end.

Happily ever after is just BS. People stay together that long due to lack of options and convenience and habit (change is hard). Even in your 60ties you would that 20 year olds, if you could and not your same aged old ugly probably fat hag.

Note: No I'm not in college-age. You simply don't know if you have never been in a somewhat long relationship. As a first hint, watch your parents if they are still together.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I wanna see you bust down

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The split within the communities outlook to "The Game" is funny. First off, thot's aren't bad. They merely get demonised by guys who can't get thots (I can't either, i can simply appreciate their use of power). And with that statement alone, i've just shut down your entire question via vice versa.

Thot's have power, TRP makes men realise/develop their own power. It's merely levelling the playing field and the guys want to indulge in their fantasies. Who are you to judge?

[–]pridebrah0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wait what's wrong with threesomes (FFM)? Lol

[–]mrpoopistan0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with

And there's literally no one telling you that you can't do that. We're just telling you to be honest with yourself about what terms like "trust" and "honesty" mean.

[–]Aptote-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

plenty of people in this sub and in this thread shit on LTRs, you don't have LTR with "thots"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Probably.

[–]ImLitC0lN0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is prob buried, but this is a question subreddit. Most people on here are just learning trp...

[–]mushroom_overlord0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A lot of them are quite a bit like the slutty women, but you might be overestimating the amount of them that hate thots. For the sexually hedonistic ones, at least, the existence of sluts is a blessing.

Others are just adapting to the world they live in, not the idyllic dream land they would rather find themselves. There's plenty of reasons to complain about our society, but if you don't adapt you're wasting your life.

[–]Moldy_Gecko0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The point of this sub isn't to say 'men do it too'. Women hold the power over sex and reproductivity. The ultimate point of this sub is to take that power back by being better man. By being that kind of man, you get all those other benefits.

[–]supersonic-turtle0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

As a dude who has found a quality woman I can say that I don’t dislike thots at all quite the opposite. I love ‘em they kept me sharp and where fun along the way. My days of gaming are over for now. I still remain in pinnacle shape and improve daily for the almost sure chance my turn is up and my current long term decides to branch swing. If she sticks around cool, I’ve wanted a family and she’s about as good as they get so I’m cool with settling down. But like we all know AWALT so it’s best to stay aware and keep TRP knowledge handy.

[–]jm510 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve wanted a family

All that really matters imo is that she will always try to be a good mother to your children, no matter what.

When it comes to mothering qualities, women are not all the same.

[–]humzy0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

dude read the rational male. MAWATS (men and women aren't the same)

[–]temerity180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Promiscuous women are great for promiscuous men. Those who use the word thot want monogamous women. Quite a few, if not most, of these men are promiscuous themselves. Yea, they need to wipe their mirror.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I used to do this now I just fuck literal whores or women that come to me easily. It’s not worth it after awhile

[–]DREADC0RSAIR0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thus sub isn't for someone looking for a long term relationship, this sub is filled with people who observes female nature for what it is and play the game with as little risk and most reward as possible.

[–]RedBloodHunter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sexual strategy is amoral, and this goes for both men and women.

How will you know what to screen for in a quality, LTR-worthy woman, if you haven't been with enough girls to actually know what those qualities are? That's more or less the purpose of spinning plates. Along the way you'll develop abundance mentality, which will lead to a stronger frame, outcome independence and a variety of other qualities which WILL be useful in maintaining an LTR.

If you aren't a high value man, your LTR's won't work, it's as simple as that.

In regards to playing childish games with girls - that's the thing, it isn't really a game to them. This is how women are, this is how seduction works. You can either embrace the game and become good at it, or reject it, but you'll never stop playing. Spitting up the red pill is pretty common, it doesn't taste very good.

[–]Acerhand0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not only that, im pretty sure most all guys here are getting all the women they plate from dating apps or school

[–]good-look0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Most people in general are shit. Welcome to TRP where PC bullshit is frowned upon.

[–]Greek-God-Brody0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

the game is rigged (hypergamy, women's slutiness..), might as well go along for the ride and play the game, once that you know the inner mechanisms.

dropping out the game doesn't mean the game stops, it goes on with or without you

[–]dani0980 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In a lot of ways, we are the same, doing the same dumb shit, after the same ol'thing. ....but whatever works to achieve your end goal and happiness.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i’m literally a femcel virgin yet called a thot and whore by association of being a woman, meanwhile all men on this sub are attempting to bang actual thots

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Personally I think the ultimate goal is to find someone you can have full trust and honesty with to live your life with and not these kid games you all play to get your dick wet.

Agreed, but this isn't the subs operating procedure. Most seem to find meaningful LTRs beta, for whatever reason (I'm guessing "something something domesticity something feminist imperative.")

[–]ARUKET0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OP, let me ask you this - what do you think happens when you meet your unicorn? You realize all the good girls respond to mostly the same tactics, right? Just because a girl doesn't smoke or drink and has little to no sexual history, doesn't mean she is attracted to betas.

TRP is about understanding female psychology and how to apply this knowledge to enter and maintain sexual relationships with women. Most guys here are interested in using this info to have 5 girls on call to fuck whenever they want, but there's nothing that says you can't use this info to hopefully have successful relationships.



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