It's been a little over a week since I've posted. Been on my MAP and flowing with my red pill journey for several months. Lifts and health are good and Owning My Shit on a consistent basis. I post this not only as a check on my own progress, but also that it may help other guys that are newly unplugged and committed to doing the work. The red pill mindset DOES improve your life in many areas, but this post shows how it can make for a better and improved marriage or LTR. I don't want to make it sound like it should be your motive for going red pill, but it IS what brought most of us here. I now understand that when I ended up choosing to do this for me, the following paragraphs were some effectual benefits that "just happened" as a natural result.
I noticed more and more that my wife is being super submissive in many aspects. She is almost always pleasant, respectful, and asks my opinion, advice, and input on almost everything from trivial stuff, to major decisions. She is respectful of my time and when I tell her I'm headed out to do something, she comes over, kisses me, and says she'll be here waiting for me when I get home. Now, she is sending flirty and sexy texts when I'm away from her, and the other night when I went out to play cards with some buddies, she was waiting for me in a sexy piece of lingerie when I got home.
She is also talking more and more (excitedly) about our long term future, and is always very appreciative when I take her on a weekend getaway, of which, she is now packing sexy lingerie when we go. Sexual frequency, variety (doing it in different rooms in the house, the car, and on the front porch after a night out), and intensity has begun to pick up as well.
Although she does shit test and gets pissy now and then (been noticing a very predicable pattern with her cycle). I assume this behavior pattern from her is demonstrating excitement of seeing her man own his shit and displaying high value. I never expected to see changes this quickly or see such a difference. Post your comments and experiences please.