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Update and seeing more positive changes in my red pill Journey

by dll142 | April 09, 2019 | askMRP

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It's been a little over a week since I've posted. Been on my MAP and flowing with my red pill journey for several months. Lifts and health are good and Owning My Shit on a consistent basis. I post this not only as a check on my own progress, but also that it may help other guys that are newly unplugged and committed to doing the work. The red pill mindset DOES improve your life in many areas, but this post shows how it can make for a better and improved marriage or LTR. I don't want to make it sound like it should be your motive for going red pill, but it IS what brought most of us here. I now understand that when I ended up choosing to do this for me, the following paragraphs were some effectual benefits that "just happened" as a natural result.

I noticed more and more that my wife is being super submissive in many aspects. She is almost always pleasant, respectful, and asks my opinion, advice, and input on almost everything from trivial stuff, to major decisions. She is respectful of my time and when I tell her I'm headed out to do something, she comes over, kisses me, and says she'll be here waiting for me when I get home. Now, she is sending flirty and sexy texts when I'm away from her, and the other night when I went out to play cards with some buddies, she was waiting for me in a sexy piece of lingerie when I got home.

She is also talking more and more (excitedly) about our long term future, and is always very appreciative when I take her on a weekend getaway, of which, she is now packing sexy lingerie when we go. Sexual frequency, variety (doing it in different rooms in the house, the car, and on the front porch after a night out), and intensity has begun to pick up as well.

Although she does shit test and gets pissy now and then (been noticing a very predicable pattern with her cycle). I assume this behavior pattern from her is demonstrating excitement of seeing her man own his shit and displaying high value. I never expected to see changes this quickly or see such a difference. Post your comments and experiences please.


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Title Update and seeing more positive changes in my red pill Journey
Author dll142
Upvotes 16
Comments 14
Date 09 April 2019 07:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/224875
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[–]simbarlionRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds good homie.

You sound a bit like a checkbox kinda guy, so just be wary that she won't always give the right answer back like a computer. Put some focus back on yourself. Card games and science fairs are cool, but go axe down a tree in the forest or spear a fish in the ocean.

Y' know man shit.

[–]Redpillbrigade172 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good work, brother. Keep it up.

[–]dll142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks. I'll keep working on getting better.

[–]MrTrizzles4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don’t get distracted. In a sense you want to be outcome independent. You do you, period. While her behavior can be seen as a positive sign that you’re on the right track, it may well have gone the other way. She could have reacted poorly. This reaction wouldn’t mean you’re on the wrong track... any more than her positive reaction means you’re on the right track.

That said, nicely done. Hopefully you can give the same testimony in a year from now. That’s the real test.

[–]dll142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. I expect some ebbs and flows.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’re doing it right. At some point (probably just when you think you “got it”), she will throw a big curve ball at you. Be ready.

Keep up the good work.

[–]dll142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Effort = results.

Now don't get lazy or go rambo and things should continue to head in the same direction.

May seem like it is, but this isn't rocket science , people.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

this isn't rocket science , people.

No, its more like setting off fireworks in the park, you have no idea what is actually going to happen despite your best intentions, and at some point or another there will be lots of noise and colourful explosions.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Thanks for sharing all the stuff about your wife. Got a picture of her tits for us or is this all we get?

Mods can we get a "Validation Seeking" post flair?

[–]dll142[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'll admit, I'm a sucker for female attention, sex, and approval. Hard habit to kick, but much easier to manage now that I'm red pill aware. I say "manage" because it's an ever evolving work in progress.

My trend is up ticking and it is because I am doing the work. I plan to keep busting my ass to keep it that way.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is coming from a self admitted recovering validation whore. Glad you are seeing progress, good shit man.

[–]johnn20150 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

What are some of the things you've done? What do you think make the most impact?

[–]dll142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hard to pin point on one specific thing, but it's a bunch of little things that add up. Some of it's luck of genetic lottery and natural alpha traits, but most of my past betaness was mostly behavioral.

Some background... I'm 6'1" 225 lbs with an athletic build. I've never had trouble dating or spinning plates, just was a whore for female attention and a sucker for LTRs. Problem was, I became betatized because I bought into pop culture's ideas of egalitarianism in a marriage. I guess you could say, I had to rewrite my programming, especially in the context of an LTR. Watch what women do, not what they say. Oh, and put the words "right now" after everything she says when shes ranting, venting, or bitching.

Read the sidebar and follow Rollo Tomassi. The guy really has the science behind it nailed. Educate yourself and build your mind. 80% of it is your mind. Oh... and lift weights and run. Take care of your health. Women get wet for muscles.... they really do.



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