I keep thinking if I go up and talk to random girls, especially those who are available, a mean man or women is going to come out and shame me.

[deleted] · 2019-04-13T05:43:29+00:00

Yeah, I've been there. The first time I went out approaching I was like, surely the police or the guards or the old aunties next to us or the girl or the guy taking selfies on the phone is going to stop me, berate me, take videos of me, make me the national poster for sexual harassement/toxic masculinity.

Nothing happened.

I go out every other night. Still nothing has happened. I have to date been kicked out of one club, and that was in my pre-TRP days when I was being a mildly drunk asshole. I have spent hours and hours approaching women on the street, women at pubs and restaurants, women at coffee shops, women at my university....not one single time, has any person ever stopped me. Of course I've been brushed off by women, but you'd be super-surprised how few times that happens too, and its usually the fat, subconscious women, and I mean that factually.

What I do get is looks of envy from my friends, "how did you do that", more IoIs from other women...I picked up a girl at fucking court once.

The world wants you to approach women man. For all the fucking talk of it being creepy and feminism, the world understands that's how society has kept itself moving along the past since the beginning of time. It's how we make go on dates, make babies. Those who have the balls to do it are the genes that will be passed on.

Go forth and multiply son. The world, women, the universe wants you to.

Casd12 · 2019-04-13T03:32:14+00:00

If anyone shames you (they won't cus they don't care), just treat is as a shit test

LifeMaxx · 2019-04-13T09:43:12+00:00

It's true that sometimes approaches go bad, but honestly it's about 1/1000 and it really depends on your approach strategy.

If you approach in a respectful way nobody will say shit unless it's just a crazy feminist.

Title	I keep thinking if I go up and talk to random girls, especially those who are available, a mean man or women is going to come out and shame me.
Author	OfficerWade
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	April 13, 2019 12:59 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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