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How being a good listener and questioner is a life changing super power

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February 27, 2019
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https://xsplat.wordpress.com/2019/02/27/how-being-a-good-listener-and-questioner-is-a-life-changing-super-power/


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Title How being a good listener and questioner is a life changing super power
Author redpillschool
Upvotes 28
Comments 5
Date 27 February 2019 06:38 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/225859
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/avgra4/how_being_a_good_listener_and_questioner_is_a/
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[–]wildtimes38 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have a lot of success in all types of relationships, sexual included, by actively not “reloading” while listening. It can be done passively, well, after enough practice, but actively blanking the mind for full absorption of the other persons words is powerful.

It usually leads to better conversations by default. By listening well you end up asking more questions, seeming more interested and steering the conversation to less conventional areas.

I recommend everyone understand reloading in this context well. It’s hilarious when you call women on it. You are one word in to a thought and they are already ready to respond. When you point that out with a smirk, you are doing what most don’t dare to do.

[–]RealMcGonzo6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Renfrew posts that two PUA artists failed to ask a retired PUA artist about the joys of monogamy. LOL. That "conversation" was not a conversation but an interview piece with a primary purpose of selling the two youngster's stuff, whether it was blogs or books or classes. They didn't ask about marriage because they are not selling the tools for marriage.

[–]LordMarkStark1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I love it when I turn up to a date and just listen to her. She will be touching me too without prompting. Girls read what modern guys like. Many know to touch you first. They love seducing you or at least making it very easy for you and these days it's expected.

So anyway if I just have to listen well and I do, and I can rib on her and be fun, it's easy to kiss her and fuck her in short order.

Listening is underrated. But a lot of the red pill is meaningless.

[–]party_dragon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just for some context... xsplat is a failed PUA who moved to Asia to make it easier for him to fuck women.

Tom Torrero, mentioned in the post, is a scam artist with proven (caught on video) fake infield footage.

This doesn’t invalidate their points (good ideas stand for themselves) but don’t just blindly believe what they’re saying.



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